Different constitutions
Some people are obese. Once pregnant, as children grow up, their bodies will be blown up like balloons. Lucky people may lose weight after giving birth, and once some people gain weight, it is difficult to lose weight again.
Family economic situation is different.
Most women with better economic conditions have the energy, time and money to take care of themselves after giving birth. It is undeniable that money is needed for yoga, fitness, skin care products and clothes. Without good economic conditions, even if they want to dress up and have no spare money, they will not be allowed to slap themselves.
Parenting conditions are different.
After giving birth to a child, if someone helps to take care of the child, whether it is a mother-in-law, grandmother or aunt, as long as there is one person to share, the mother will be much more relaxed. And those mothers who have no one to help take care of their children day and night will look haggard and naturally get older every year.
The focus of life is different.
Some mothers are still very demanding of themselves after giving birth to their children. They must dress very beautifully every day, and they are not allowed to get fat. Even if they get fat, they will reduce it by various means. What are they after? Beautiful? There is a higher degree of self-discipline at this point, and you can try your best to achieve your goal.
After having a child, the mother puts all her focus on the child, and has little pursuit and desire for dressing up, so it is easy to go with the flow.
Anyway, as a woman, I believe there is no one in my bones who doesn't love beauty. We should all try to make ourselves look more pleasing to the eye, not for others, but for ourselves.