I have read a sentence before, which is called the law of attraction, and it can also be called the secret of all one's wishes. It is said that when you are particularly eager for something, a huge magnetic field will form around you, and relevant resources and opportunities will gather around you to help you achieve your goal. Although this seems idealistic, it is meaningless to think about it carefully. If you keep thinking about one thing and put it first, then all your actions will revolve around this important thing for you. You will unconsciously pay attention to things related to this, actively seek the help of relevant people, and actively seek information in this area. People around you will unconsciously introduce relevant resources and opportunities to you after seeing your status. ............, in this way, superior resources will gather to you, and your desire for dreams will become more and more firm, thus forming a positive feedback system and finally realizing what you want.

? Of course, the key to all this is that you have a goal, or a wish. How successful you are depends on how eager you are for desire and whether you put this matter in the first place. In the classic TED talk "Managing Time Scientifically", it is said that many things we put off doing, not that we don't have time, but that this matter is not important in our hearts. She gave an example. The water pipe at home burst, and she spent a week contacting the housekeeper to buy materials without delaying her normal work. So many things are not whether you have time, but how much you want to finish it. Time is squeezed out, of course, it depends on whether you are willing to squeeze out time for things in your heart.

? The most convincing case is your own college entrance examination. It can be said that I am the most tired and happy one so far. Every night after studying, I will think about my admission in July in bed. At that time, I had a hard time and the stars were shining. The pain and fatigue of studying from time to time are swept away. Getting up in the morning is the hardest day. When I think of school in July, I suddenly bounce out of bed. Senior three is really a simple and hard day. At that time, there was no other idea, only one thing, I wanted to go to college. No matter whether I go to class or sleep after school, this is all I can think about. Unexpectedly, I really didn't expect that one day in July, I really received the admission notice from the ideal university, and my fantasy became a reality.

? I started to lose weight when I was a sophomore. As a result, I kept it above 50kg until I graduated from college. Last summer, I only went on an intermittent diet and my basic weight dropped to 49kg. This winter, I will lose weight as planned, but I am always worried that going to the gym will delay time. Every time I come back from exercise, I don't find myself missing anything. When I don't exercise, I don't do anything serious, just brush Weibo and watch videos, that's all. Now my mind flashes from time to time the picture of my successful slimming. The calf is thin, the skin is good, and it looks so confident and sunny. From time to time, there will always be a fascinated smile on the face, and fatigue and laziness will be swept away. I want to be thin! At this time, I will immediately get up from the bench, stand against the wall, or go for a walk in the playground. Losing weight is under way, and I hope there will be good results.

There is a saying in Harvard University's open class on happiness called "Pretend until you succeed". Before you want to be someone, imagine that you have become that person. Then think and do things from that person's point of view. What would he do if it was that person? How did he get to this stage step by step? I want to know what I want first, and then hang it in my heart all the time, forming my own huge energy magnetic field until I finish it.

? I hope you can think about your career.