It happened in the summer of 2020. When my wife found out that she was pregnant, she told her husband at once. Her husband was so happy that he even woke up with a smile in his dream. The husband excitedly took his wife to the hospital for examination and learned that she was pregnant with twins. At this point, the joy on her husband's face cannot be expressed in words.
Later, my wife often felt uncomfortable, but I don't know what happened. She thought it was just a normal pregnancy reaction. She didn't care too much and didn't go to the hospital for examination.
The husband learned that his wife was unwell and insisted on taking her to the hospital for examination. At the moment of getting the test results, the couple's faces turned purple, and they couldn't believe that the report in their hands was their own. The result confirmed on the test report is "twin transfusion syndrome". The couple didn't know what "twin transfusion syndrome" was, so they quickly asked the doctor if the child was in danger.
The doctor took the report and told the couple that the disease usually occurred in the pregnancy 16-26 weeks, and there would be a donor fetus and a recipient fetus. The donor fetus continuously transfuses blood to the recipient fetus, resulting in one fetus with polyhydramnios and one fetus with oligohydramnios; One is the decrease of blood volume, which leads to anemia, and the other is the increase of blood volume, which leads to congestive heart failure. If not treated in time, the probability of fetal death is as high as 90%.
The unprepared couple heard the news like a bolt from the blue, and they felt a huge stone in their hearts, but then the doctor's words put the couple in a desperate situation again.
"Your wife has missed the best operation time. If the operation may lead to internal infection at this time, the left-behind child may be hurt even after birth. If she has an abortion, the two children can only flow away together. "
Under all kinds of entanglements, the couple decided to have an abortion, even if there was only one in ten thousand hope. The couple rushed to major hospitals for the safe birth of their children, during which they also had several operations and spent more than 80,000 yuan.
That winter, two children were born prematurely. Although they were premature, they were all born safely. Seeing that the two children were fine, the couple dared to relax and thought that this level had finally passed.
The couple also named their two children Pingping and An 'an, hoping that they could grow up as healthy as their names. Gang Po is at peace, wave after wave, but God still doesn't want this family to go. After two children were born 10 minutes, she suddenly had difficulty breathing. Before the wife lying in the ward could touch the children, the husband also watched the nurse carry the two children into the neonatal intensive care unit.
After diagnosis, Dabaoping is the receptor of this syndrome. She is a very low birth weight premature infant, and has been diagnosed as neonatal respiratory distress syndrome, neonatal hypoglycemia and neonatal hyperbilirubinemia. Bao Xiao Ann is a blood donor for this syndrome. His birth weight was only 750 grams, and he was diagnosed with renal dysplasia. These have made the wife and husband lying in the ward breathless. Coupled with the treatment costs of more than 400,000 children, the couple looked at each other and their eyes were full of helplessness.
My husband used to be a veteran. After leaving the army, he and his wife chose to start a business outside, so that they could earn more money while they were young. When they have some savings, they want to have a child. However, in 2020, the outbreak of COVID-19 epidemic stopped many businesses, and the partners had problems, which led to the break of the capital chain, and the family's hard-earned savings were also used up, and many debts were owed.
The husband squatted at the door and looked at the payment notice in his hand. He knew that the lives of two children were in his own hands. Through the glass, I watched my two children lying helpless in the ward, all covered with tubes, and tears immediately swirled in the corner of my eyes.
He hates his incompetence. He can't suffer for his two children. He hates the idea he once had: "If it really doesn't work, give up one." He can't forgive himself. He once shed blood and tears in the army and never left. Now he has the idea of giving up, not to mention his own children.
The attending physician outside heard that the couple were going to give up one, so he pushed the door and told the couple:
"The situation of the two children is slowly improving, not to mention that the children's names have been taken and registered. How can they give up easily? "
The head nurse also explained the child's situation to the couple.
"The illness of the two children is getting better every day. Only after this time can they recover. "
After 47 days of treatment, Dabao was discharged from the hospital. After the Spring Festival, Bauer also reached the discharge standard and can be discharged in early February next year.
If I were not so determined, I would regret giving up a child. If you lose money, you can earn more. If you lose your life, you will lose everything. Even if there is only one in ten million hope, how do you know that there is no hope, and how do you know that you will not succeed?
Everyone is like this. Although the road is hard, as long as you don't give up, the next step is sunny. Come on, worker.