1, the other party is gentle and sensible in disguise.
Most of the women outside are looking for married men. For example, I like the property in a man's pocket, the resources in a man's hand and so on. In order that men can be used by themselves for a long time, she will disguise her true colors as much as possible and present the good side to men. Many men feel that the other person is gentle, sensible and natural when they are in the extramarital affairs stage, which is simply harmless to people and animals.
But once I really entered the marriage, I found that I was completely different from before, because I was deceived by the disguised appearance of women outside.
2. Marriage is not fresh.
In some cases handled in the past, the couple had a good relationship and the man was very concerned about his family, but under some coincidence, the man cheated. The object of his infidelity may not be as young and beautiful as his wife, and his personality and work ability may be far inferior to his wife in all aspects.
What does this man want?
The answer is that marriage lacks freshness, excitement and indulgence. The couple who have the best feelings when they get married, after the baptism of daily necessities and pots and pans, their feelings will gradually cool down, with neither too much spiritual communication nor too much physical intimacy. When a man feels "empty" psychologically and physically, he may do something hungry.
3, you can fight, you can crush your wife.
The real intention of other men to cheat is to hit and crush their wives. Some men who have no position in the family and have a bad life are apt to cheat if they want to change their wives' attitude towards themselves and can't reform their wives. On the one hand, I compensate myself through extramarital affairs, on the other hand, I retaliate against my wife through cheating. I hope to make my wife realize her problems in such an extreme way, and the result is often counterproductive.
In a word, the probability of a man cheating and really falling in love with each other is actually very low, and more is to meet his own needs. Therefore, in order to separate men's extramarital affairs, the way is to return to marriage itself and see clearly what men's needs are. When marriage can satisfy him, women outside will naturally lose their attraction.