Independence between men and women can be said to be the basis and premise of a healthy relationship. In modern TV series and daily life, we can often see couples checking posts or being inseparable. Such feelings generally don't last long.
A friend of mine deeply understands the importance of independence between men and women in love. Every time a friend goes out to a party, his girlfriend follows him, or "desperately urges him in series"-he often calls to check on his post, which makes his friend lose face. The relationship between friends only lasted for a short month, because he said that he was not looking for a girlfriend, but more like a daughter who had not grown up and was attached to her father. Therefore, in a healthy love relationship, both men and women should have their own jobs and careers, don't be too attached to each other, and give each other greater social freedom at ordinary times.
Trust between men and women is an important condition for a healthy relationship. Don't talk about love, just make friends. We all hope that friends can trust each other and not be suspicious of each other. But nowadays, when people are in love, they often use strange ways to find private detectives to follow, peek at each other's mobile phones and find friends to explore. In the final analysis, it is because they don't have confidence in themselves and trust their partners. Such distrust will eventually become the fuse for the end of a relationship.
Both men and women should be equal emotionally, and there is no need to sacrifice themselves to pay anything. You wronged yourself and felt that you had sacrificed a lot for your partner. But it is very likely that in the eyes of your boyfriend/girlfriend, they will not see your sacrifice, but will only find you annoying. Therefore, you must be emotionally equal to men and women, and don't wronged yourself.
Friends, only a healthy relationship can lead to marriage, so we must do the above three things.