First of all, we should pay attention to dress, cover up our dissatisfaction, wear stockings when the legs are thick, and wear a loose long coat when the stomach is big, so as not to show our stomach.

Secondly, you can wear a black dress if you use colors reasonably. If it is better with vertical stripes, it will look slimmer visually.

Finally, obesity is a fact. We should be brave enough to admit it and try to control our diet. We can tell each other that we are losing weight, how long we want to lose weight, give each other an expectation and give ourselves a buffer period.

If the other person satisfies you and he agrees with your expectations, then take this goal as the driving force and fight your weight. Maybe you will really succeed!

In addition, if the other person recognizes you, even if you don't achieve your goal, in this relationship, perhaps because of the warming of feelings, he doesn't care about your weight ~

I hope my answer can help you.