However, since I joined the company, I found that Jinyi seems to be a little fatter than before. Originally, her weight was only 2 digits, but suddenly it soared to 3 digits.
She complained to me that she usually sits in an office and goes back to the dormitory after work. A little boring. After dinner, lie down and play with your mobile phone. Sometimes when there is no activity, I will choose to work overtime in the office.
Jin Yi, like me, graduated from 16 and majored in English, except that she is a college student. Originally thought, she maintained a high degree of self-discipline after work, just like a university. Unexpectedly, sleeping late, not reading, not exercising and not socializing have become her daily habits.
I still remember that I admired her background in a famous university and thought she would have some bright spots that I didn't have.
However, many people are often lazy, invisible and ignorant.
Writing here, I suddenly remembered a senior I met in badminton association. I often call him Brother Xian. At that time, our school had the last batch of junior college students. He is one of them, with average academic performance and accounting major. He didn't get the relevant qualification certificate when he graduated.
At that time, he was not tall, handsome and had poor grades.
One day, however, Brother Xian came to me with half a watermelon. He told me that he wrote a plan for a company, and the company accepted it and gave him a sum of money, about 4000 yuan.
I was holding half a watermelon and asked, "Wow, how did you do it?" It turns out that my brother is the vice chairman of the club. He has been writing plans since his freshman year, and he has been busier since he became president. Because of the needs of the community, he used the extra time to teach himself and study how to write his own plan.
At that time, there were classes during the day, badminton training at night, and sometimes classes at night. After the training, all of us will go out to eat, then have fun, and then go back to the dormitory to wash and sleep. Brother Xian at that time was just like us, except that after he left us, he would secretly go to the library to borrow books he wanted to read.
Now, he has become an appraiser and has his own car by his own ability. Although the achievement is not particularly great, I think all this must be related to the countless nights he spent that year.
If you don't push yourself, how can you sit down and talk to your dreams?
From elementary school to high school, maybe to college, transcripts and grade points will remind you in black and white: you are behind, so you should make up quickly. And the teachers and parents around you keep chanting in your ear, forcing you to study and go to school.
But when it comes to work. Who will seriously force you to study? Let you find something to learn and improve yourself?
When I come home from work, I either eat or lie down and play with my mobile phone. I am an ant, I want to be a dinosaur, but I only complain about this and that, and then I just lie on the sofa and change my posture and go back to sleep. Then I also advertised in my mind that my colleagues had no social activities after coming home from work. Everyone is the same.
Yes, the environment does affect a person. For example, if you are in a startup company, all employees are born after 90, which will give people a feeling: young and energetic. Moreover, sparks can often collide. If you come to an all-aunt-level enterprise and discuss gossip every day, you will be taken away by others over time.
All this sounds terrible. As we all know, the most terrible thing is people's habit of the status quo, but warm water frogs don't know the pain anymore, but they don't know where to start if they want to change.
I can't provide you with effective and practical methods for the time being, but I hope you and I will remember: high self-discipline.
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