How to grasp a man's heart by retreating? When a woman is in love, she always thinks that she is the one who is loved. If she wants the other person to pay more for us, she must first seize the other person's heart. Today, let's share the knowledge about how to grasp a man's heart by retreating. Let's have a look.
How to make progress by retreating +0 1 Grasp a man's heart and change it forever.
A psychological study shows that human beings have no interest in unchanging things, but even familiar things can attract people's interest and attention as long as some fresh elements are added slightly. This is especially true for men. The most contradictory thing about a man is that after getting acquainted, he advises you not to spend so much money on clothes and accessories, but as long as you are obedient, his eyes will be full of helplessness and disappointment, and he will tell his buddies everywhere that my girlfriend has entered the "female period". Therefore, men's genes are full of codes that like the new and hate the old. If you don't want him to like the new and hate the old, you must keep changing. No matter what he says or expresses, you should stick to it. New hairstyles, new makeup, new clothing styles and new colors can all bring changes to you and surprises and freshness to men. In fact, sometimes you can change without having to go to great lengths to re-match existing clothes or change the color of a lip gloss. Even if a careless man can't find out what details you have changed, he will definitely think that you are different, and this goal has been achieved. The ever-changing appearance can not only stimulate a man's senses from time to time, make him full of curiosity and expectation for you, but also impress him with your passionate and energetic personality, and your time together is bound to be full of passion and desire. On the other hand, constant change can also bring confidence and vitality to women themselves, so that women can shine in life and love.
Step 2 act like a spoiled brat
It has always been a story of a hero with a beautiful woman, which is also the love mode that all men yearn for-one is a hero and the other is a beautiful woman. To achieve this requirement, women need to do the following two things: women are weak and men are great; Women are feminine, reflecting the heroic attitude of men. Decent coquetry, these two points in one go. Even if you are a successful and enterprising working woman, don't forget to coquetry in front of men. This is the most powerful and labor-saving headhunting technique. Spooling embodies the femininity and cuteness of women, and at the same time makes men feel mighty as a wall that can block the wind, which greatly meets the needs of male chauvinism. Of course, coquetry also requires skill. First of all, you can't be spoiled anytime and anywhere, but pay attention to the timing and occasion. It is more appropriate to pester in private, especially when the other party is a little upset, or when their small demands are not met, coquetry is definitely more practical than tough arguments. Secondly, coquetry should be cute and not dissolute. Blinking, pouting, sobbing twice, or stamping your feet lightly are all appropriate, but if the movement range is too large, it will appear frivolous and make men feel aggressive or indecisive. Spoiling is not cheating, nor is it a disguised form of coercion. Women should choose appropriate coquetry strategies according to their looks and stages of getting along.
Step 3 Create a "gadget"
Every woman is actually her own brand, but a brand must have characteristics that can be remembered by the other party. Lovely living habits, your own classic movements, and your own pet phrase that you don't hate are all your characteristics. These little features will make you look different, independent and a little small, and make the other person feel that you have got a unique treasure. In addition, if you are unfortunate enough to enter the dangerous period of love with your partner, it often has the magical effect of salvaging you from the desperate situation of breaking up. For example, one of your small characteristics is that you like to eat candied haws. Every time I go shopping with him, I will buy a bunch as long as I see it. Then, if one day you are on the verge of breaking up and he happens to see a bunch of candied haws in the street, it will instantly arouse all his memories and reluctance to you, thus helping him make a decision to come back to you. Small features can help you show your personality, and also allow him to establish a profound classic reflection between you and these things, actions and mantras, so that those things have your traces and tastes. This connection is hard to erase, and it is of great benefit to you in love.
Step 4 understand temperament
Sex and love are twin sisters who will never be separated. Love can be natural, and sex can deepen feelings. So, don't trust Plato, and don't use sex to test each other. Men, it is easier to consider the depth and happiness of feelings with the quality of sex, and it is easier to evaluate their abilities and values with sex. Therefore, the perfection of sexual life will give men self-esteem and give this relationship a high score. Knowing temperament is absolutely necessary for a high-class woman, and its value is far more profound than sex itself. The first step to understanding temperament is to refuse carefully. Don't refuse a man easily unless the physical condition or environment is extremely forbidden, and don't use sex as a bargaining chip to blackmail and punish the other party when quarreling and getting angry. The second step is to improve your "sexual emotional intelligence". You don't have to take the initiative, but you must learn to hint at it. Sexy little dress, suitable perfume, all kinds of amorous feelings and charming eyes can make you charming and make men feel that you are a natural stunner and can't put it down. The third step is to be innovative. Sex is the release of emotion, and it is also an emotional atmosphere of life. Therefore, we must not be perfunctory and lazy about sex, but use our brains to constantly create new ways and create a new atmosphere. Men are absolutely unwilling to let go of such a woman who knows her temperament.
5. Moderate silence
For men, the most charming thing about women is definitely gentleness. However, gentleness is not only reflected in long hair, speaking out of turn and bright eyes. For men in modern cities, gentleness is often reflected in silence. Women who talk endlessly every time they meet, men will only feel a splitting headache, but will not feel gentle and lovely. Men are under great pressure at work now, so sometimes they need a relaxed and quiet leisure time. A woman who can master a man's psychology is the gentlest. Whether having a candlelight dinner with a man, doing leisure sports together, keeping in good health together, or just staying at home, as long as you see a man with a tired face, you should know how to be moderately silent. When you thoughtfully ask "Are you in a bad mood", if you see that the other person doesn't want to talk deeply, don't ask endlessly, or try to help the other person analyze something. Maybe he just wants to get rid of the troubles of work after work, or look for relaxation and comfort from you. Even if you are well-intentioned, Zaza's performance will make the other party bored, and then develop into a respectful distance from others. Therefore, in this case, it is extremely important to know how to leave room for dating. Clever snuggling up to him, smiling and not talking while eating, tapping a few jokes will make the other person feel warm and comfortable.
Step 6 refuse occasionally
Obedience is no longer a man's favorite dish, and a good wife and mother are not the roles that modern women want to play. Nowadays, men are most afraid of meeting a "chewing gum woman": when they taste it for the first time, it is full of flavor. Later, they had no taste at all. They are also poor and clingy all day long, circling men like the earth, without their own life and opinions, which makes men very headache. Therefore, the last "headhunter" to keep a man is to retreat. Don't respond to a man's invitation, but occasionally taking time off will make a man look at you with new eyes and double your worth. "I'm sorry, I'm going to a friend's party this weekend" and "I'm sorry, we have an appointment to have dinner with my best friend tomorrow" are all great reasons to make the other person feel that you have your own life circle and lifestyle, and also give the other person a little space and a little sense of crisis. Believe me, he will be more careful and cherish it. Of course, everything is too late, and the frequency of rejection should probably be controlled at ten times and twice. If a man invites you ten times and you refuse eight times, he will feel humiliated and lose his dignity. He will think that you are unreasonable and arrogant, or that you have ulterior motives. Therefore, when using this trick, timing and frequency are particularly important.
How to grasp a man's heart by retreating? 2 1, retreat into progress
Retreat is a concession in form. Lovers in love stick together every day, which is called love. But it turns out that keeping a distance from each other will increase the mystery. Sometimes giving each other a little space will win the final victory, and the feelings are very good. If the other person is bored, leave quickly and return at the right time, which will enhance feelings. People are dependent, sometimes they are used to being cared for, and suddenly they will feel uncomfortable if they don't care. Therefore, appropriate retirement is also a way.
Step 2 build yourself up
When we broke up, he said to you, "I have no feelings for you" and "We are not suitable". Have you ever wondered why he loved himself so much at the beginning, but now he has no feelings for himself? We used to be together, but now it's not appropriate. Perhaps the root cause is not that he has changed his mind, but that you have lost your attraction to him. If you want to continue this relationship, then you must constantly build yourself and make the other person turn back through attraction.
3. Be an interesting person
At the very least, there should be humor in life. Compared with boring life, the other person definitely prefers someone who can laugh together in life. In many of my cases, it can be explained that when saving, a person who can make the other person happy is more likely to close the distance with the other person. So, do you still need to think about whether to be a more interesting person?