In a blink of an eye, in a hurry, we have reached middle age. Zhang Ailing said: "A middle-aged person often feels lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who depend on him, but there is no one to rely on." When people reach middle age, we have to face a lot of pressure, which both men and women will encounter. I remember there is a popular saying on the Internet: "Life is not just the present, but also poetry and distance." Yes, "poetry and distance" is what many people yearn for, including us middle-aged people. However, in the face of many pressures, when people reach middle age, they can only let go of "poetry and distance" and learn the ability to "drag out an ignoble existence" is the right way. Why do you say that?

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First of all, when people reach middle age, the pressure is not great. We have learned to "drag out an ignoble existence".

When people reach middle age, our parents are getting old and our children are growing up. At this age, parents need our care, and their food, clothing, housing and health need our energy and money. At the same time, our children are growing up and we need to take care of them all the way to school. Their jobs, even their marriage, need our time and money to support them. At this age, there is a little pressure from old to young, and sometimes it will crush us. However, in order to make a living, we have to struggle forward. Therefore, under such pressure, we learned the ability to drag out an ignoble existence, and also learned to remain calm under strong pressure. This is actually the maturity and calmness shown by a middle-aged person.

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Secondly, when people reach middle age and are down and out, we have learned to "drag out an ignoble existence".

When people reach middle age, we may encounter many disappointments in life. This kind of disappointment will make us fall into a down-and-out life situation, and even get into trouble. Under such circumstances, we often feel that human feelings are as thin as paper. Yes, the ancestors said that "the poor don't ask in downtown, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains", which is a realistic picture when a person is down and out. When we are down and out, when we fall, we look around and find that we have fallen into a situation where no one helps us and no one helps us. So, we learned to persist in the storm and learn to "drag out an ignoble existence" in adversity. Maybe one day, when we come out of adversity, at that time, all the terrible past events will become a wave in our life.

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Third, when people reach middle age, they are too old to talk about love and too early to talk about death. We learned to drag out an ignoble existence.

When people reach middle age, we are already the oldest. At this age, if we are still single, if we are not promising, then we will become unproductive people in his population. A person who has no ambition will naturally encounter many difficulties in doing things. However, in a person's life, who can guarantee that he will live happily forever? Yes, that's life. "Everyone has a difficult book to read." When we enter this awkward middle age, our position makes us feel that "it is too old to talk about love and too early to talk about death", and we also learn to "drag out an ignoble existence" in the suspicious eyes and sarcastic tone of others. Perhaps, such a drag out an ignoble existence is not a kind of self-abandonment, but a strong psychological quality of "a dead mouse can't touch the cold" in adversity.

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Fourth, when people reach middle age, the crisis of middle age comes suddenly, and we have learned to "drag out an ignoble existence".

When people reach middle age, we have entered the second half of our lives. It is said that "everything stops when people reach middle age". Yes, when people reach middle age, we have to put down a lot of things and adjust our health both physically and mentally. But when people reach middle age, we will always face many sudden midlife crises, such as unsatisfactory career, marriage crisis, physical illness, and so on. These midlife crises often make us feel a little breathless. Perhaps, in the dead of night, we will suddenly sit up and then find an empty corner and cry quietly. This is a way for us to release mental stress, which is actually a kind of ability to "drag out an ignoble existence" that we have learned under heavy pressure. Perhaps, when the sun rises the next day, we will dry the tears on our faces and wash our faces, and then, facing the rising sun, we will stride into life again.

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