When chatting, the atmosphere became awkward. In fact, many people can't solve this embarrassment, or even just be sarcastic. In this case, you must give your brain a few seconds to think, and don't talk faster than your brain. This is the so-called talking with the brain.

Generally, people who speak with their brains have higher EQ, because such people will think about what they should say and what they should not say. Even when there is an embarrassing scene in the chat, they will use another humorous way to resolve the embarrassment.

Cai Kangyong, a famous Taiwan Province host, is a very talkative person. In all the programs he hosts, he can make the guests relax, and he also published his own book "The Way of Cai Kangyong's Speech". Indeed, he is not only good at talking, but also can skillfully resolve embarrassing things among guests in the program. Therefore, his high emotional intelligence and humor are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

Sometimes when chatting is awkward, you can also change the topic according to the appropriate situation. You don't have to take this embarrassing topic over, and you can adjust the embarrassing atmosphere by avoiding the topic properly.

In fact, chatting with people is also an art of communication. You can show your emotional intelligence and accomplishment by chatting with others. Nowadays, it is very important for a person to speak. Every word you say, others can see what kind of person you are.

Only by talking can you find the sincerity of communication between people. If you are already embarrassed in the chat, it will only make the atmosphere more embarrassing. In this case, you must be flexible, understand each other's psychology, and skillfully resolve the embarrassment, so that the communication between people will be more relaxed and happy.