1 Change of Attitude If your man is suddenly very polite to you, he will buy you clothes today, chocolates tomorrow and cosmetics the day after tomorrow, so be careful. Suddenly he is so concerned, there may be something behind it. Maybe he cheated. He felt guilty about it, so he wanted to buy something to make up for it. There is also an extreme situation, that is, becoming very irritable and indifferent, asking him to ignore you, and his temper becomes very fierce. This is also one of the manifestations of having an affair, cursing at will, asking him questions, not answering you and so on. I came home late. Originally, he always came home on time. Recently, I suddenly worked overtime, or got together with friends for dinner and socializing for three days. You should also pay attention. Suddenly, he became so busy. Maybe there is another mystery. You must pay more attention to his daily behavior. Maybe he will ask his friend (your friend) to explain to you what he is doing, but no.3, don't take his mobile phone. If he suddenly has a lot of messages and phone calls, he doesn't want you to look at his mobile phone. This is probably a problem. Moreover, if you ask him, he will definitely hesitate and prevaricate, using some old classmates and new colleagues as excuses to prevaricate you. If he keeps going out when answering the phone, he will empty the information every once in a while. It can be said that it is close. 4. Lose interest in you If you are less and less interested in something, don't like holding hands with you, don't like hugging, and sleep back to back. You should be more careful. This shows that he has been in the situation for some time. As the saying goes, early detection and early locking, don't suffer yourself. He has never been sloppy, but he has become very fond of cleaning. Maybe he didn't like cleanliness before, but now he suddenly dresses up. Before going out, he should look in the mirror and comb his hair. This shows that there is something wrong with him, hoping to attract the attention and love of others. If he has no new lover, why do you care so much about his image? It's been a long time. Why has he suddenly become fond of cleaning recently? I think it goes without saying. 6. At first, he liked to buy clothes and dress up. He didn't have many clothes, and suddenly he began to buy clothes one after another. In physical stores and online stores, he looks at new clothes from time to time, but he dresses himself beautifully, but he doesn't see a special attitude towards you, so he buys new clothes not for you, but probably for other women. I seldom go out with you. Did you find that he became unwilling to go out with you, unwilling to go out for a walk with you, unwilling to take you to a party with his friends? But his entertainment is as much as usual, even more than usual. This situation may be that the person he brought has changed. If you let him do something with you, it will probably make him unhappy. This is also one of the manifestations of men cheating. 8. If the expenses suddenly increase, his expenses will be much higher than usual. If anything happens to him, he needs to date another woman, have dinner and buy her gifts, clothes and cosmetics if necessary. How can the cost be less? Everything that should be given to you at ordinary times is given to her, and the expenses are naturally "increasing". What's the performance of the cheating man? 2 1. Stop making women happy. Before marriage, they have been by the woman's side, preparing for their own woman. Even on the bus, they will not hesitate to grab seats with others and even hold hands when crossing the road. But when a man gets married, it seems completely indifferent. If he has no seat, he won't have one. If he doesn't even look at his wife, how can he not make her sad? No matter how old a woman is, she still needs to be coaxed 2, when falling in love, I no longer accompany shopping, always sticking to women like dog skin plaster, and I can't get rid of it. Even women will take the initiative to follow when shopping, and even women go to underwear stores to buy the most popular underwear, so don't be shy after marriage. However, after marriage, the' man' made a 180-degree turn, vowed to go shopping together instead of going to underwear stores, and blamed the woman for not being sensible. Women have to pay for the fun of two people, and sooner or later they will be chilling. 3. She is not allowed to exercise before marriage. She is simply an expert who knows how to keep in good health. She also values her girlfriend's health more than anything else. She doesn't even let women work overtime, and she even cooks midnight snacks for women at night. However, married men have completely forgotten the importance of health. Even if they build nests and breed swimming rings at home, they will restrict their wives' freedom, prevent her from going to health clubs, and just want her to do housework at home. The beauty of a woman is not for herself. A man who doesn't even understand this will leave him sooner or later 4, no longer romantic scene When a man is in love, in order to make his girlfriend happy, he will become quite humorous and will inadvertently tell you that he is good to women. However, after marriage, I am no longer willing to take women as the center. After the husband is on a business trip, his wife hopes that he can think of himself. As a result, all I got was "Has my son finished his homework?" I don't care about my wife. Women can spoil men and love them. Why do men never think about their wives and their responsibilities? 5. I no longer care that men always call women before getting married, and I am always not too worried about women's lives. They can't leave women's side for a moment and take care of women's diet and daily life. However, after I got married, I stopped caring about women. Even after getting sick, women simply say, "Nothing serious?" Not since. Such men and women will be sad.