Life is like a road, there are many branches, and every intersection has tests and choices for us. Time flies, once shiny cheeks were covered with tiny pale traces, and I don't know when I drilled a few silvery black hairs.
The pressure of life makes us feel a little lost and sad from time to time.
But many pains in life are actually caused by themselves.
When we let go of unnecessary comparisons and desires in our hearts, let our body and mind slow down, look down on gains and losses, savor life carefully, and maintain a healthy body, we will find that we are still ourselves.
When people reach middle age, they should learn to precipitate and slow themselves down;
Learn to bow your head and keep a peaceful mind;
Stay healthy, be responsible for your family and yourself.
As we all know, it took 4 years for bamboo to grow 3cm. From the fifth year, it grew at a rate of 30cm per day, and it took only 6 weeks to grow to15m.
Perhaps, you are thinking, in the first four years, bamboo only grew 3 cm upward. What is it doing? This is the famous bamboo method.
You only see it growing on the soil. In the first four years, the roots of bamboo extended hundreds of square meters in the soil!
The same is true of being a man. Slow down, deepen your ability and be at ease. Do things without explosion or dryness, without confusion or turbidity.
No matter in game or life, less is more, and slow is faster.
Zeng Guofan, a famous minister in the Qing Dynasty, was mediocre in qualification, but because he knew that he was not a wise man, he didn't take shortcuts in reading and doing things, and took his time in the most solid way.
Don't look at the last sentence, don't look at the next sentence; If you don't finish reading this book, you won't touch the next one; Never go to sleep until you finish your study task for one day.
He knows that he has no intellectual advantage, so he is more modest than others; He has received frustration education since childhood, so he has stronger ability to resist blows; He doesn't know how to play tricks, but he only knows how to drill hard when he encounters problems, leaving no dead ends.
So Zeng Guofan took the scholar exam seven times, but he realized it once, and the road behind him became smoother and smoother. In the second year, he won a scholar and an award. Four years later, I was a high school scholar. In this way, he rarely enters the stage of life without ups and downs.
All growth is not a day or two. It takes three years to grow a tree and ten years to sharpen a sword. The first condition for becoming a big tree is the accumulation of time.
The accumulation of great self-restraint is far from overnight. Neither the experience of mind nor the study of knowledge can be quick success and instant benefit. Calm and calm is the right way to obtain great self-restraint and big pattern.
If you go too far, will you forget why you started in the first place? Let's try to take it slowly from now on.
Slow is not equal to laziness, slow is not equal to stagnation, slow is the scenery that stops in life, inclusive, not struggling, not ferocious and not panicking. What is slow is the accumulation of hair after precipitation, slowly and steadily, step by step.
When people reach middle age, being slow and promising is the true meaning of slow life.
When people reach middle age, with the growth of experience, they see more worldly wisdom and things change.
However, the situation and hesitation in life sometimes make me feel wronged, my work is not satisfactory, or the psychological imbalance caused by people and things around me directly leads to an unbalanced mentality.
In fact, a peaceful mind is a supreme state of life, and it is a state of being peaceful and optimistic in the face of worldly prosperity.
It is not too difficult for a person to keep a peaceful mind at a certain time in his life. What is difficult is that he can keep a peaceful mind when honor and status follow.
When people reach middle age, they must look down on gains and losses. After the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom, Zeng Guofan knew that too much credit would get him burned, so he helped him dissolve the Xiang army he founded. Meanwhile, let the brothers and sons and nephews go home.
Zeng Guofan's pessimism does not mean that people don't care and don't work hard, but that people should keep a modest and plain attitude in life.
He warned his sons and nephews more than once not to be greedy and to be rational and sober, because this is a weakness of human nature.
When people reach middle age, they should be able to withstand temptation and pressure. A sound mind is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom.
There is a saying: what kind of mentality will lead to what kind of life.
A peaceful mind can help us get health, happiness and wealth; Impetuous mentality will deprive us of meaningful things in life. Even if we reach the peak of success, it will push us down and let us fall into the trough.
Therefore, when people reach middle age, they don't envy others' wealth or complain about their own hardships; Don't always care about other people's comments; Only by letting go of the past can we see the future.
The road of life is very long. Let yourself be calm and look down on the gains and losses in order to handle things calmly and calmly.
This is a portrayal of the body of middle-aged people.
In the middle age, whether it is the decline of physical function caused by physical burden or the mental stress that makes the face decadent. In short, as the pillar of the family, keeping healthy is the most powerful guarantee for yourself and your family.
He tried to treat both body and mind and keep his mouth and body healthy. The point is that health care should focus on treating the heart, and the word "myrrh" should prevail.
In his letter, we can also learn some methods of keeping in good health.
First of all, avoid eating. As the saying goes: the disease enters from the mouth.
When people reach middle age, they should learn to judge which foods enhance their body functions and which periods are not digested. Plan your eating habits so that your internal organs will not be hurt;
Secondly, moderate work and rest and adjust work and rest habits. Don't put off till tomorrow what you can do today, don't delay, don't stay up late, and don't overuse your body and brain;
Finally, when people reach middle age, most people are fat and swollen, and Sangao has quietly found himself. Therefore, only by moderate exercise and improving resistance can we safely pass through the dangerous stage of the body.
When people are upset in middle age, they learn to be alone. Think about life slowly, feel life, and you will always find the beauty of life and forget the bitterness of life;
When people reach middle age, they have a normal heart, look down on gains and losses, wait calmly, and be calm and stable.
When people reach middle age, cherish your life, your own health, your family, friendship and love! Life is God's greatest gift to us. It will be a blessing if you can spend this day safely and happily.
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