What does the word profligacy mean? That is, wasting property at will. How can profligacy have anything to do with poor children? Can children from poor families afford luxury cars? Villa? Obviously can't afford it. What we are talking about here is the luxury of children from poor families, that is, buying more expensive things and buying things that they can't afford.
For example, making phone calls, watching TV and chatting online, you only need a mobile phone, but you have to buy an Apple X, and half of the functions are gone. Girls have many prices to choose from, but they have to buy cosmetics for thousands of dollars. As a result, their makeup skills are poor and they are not suitable for buying cosmetics ... and so on.
Are these not profligacy, corruption and waste? And many of these families can't afford these expensive items. There are many college students. The average family's monthly living expenses may be 1500 yuan, but the living expenses of children from poor families are 2,000 yuan.
There are also many bosses of companies who will vomit, saying that they think that children from poor families will be more motivated and bitter, but they did not expect them to recruit exaggerated, interpersonal and lazy children.
This phenomenon occurs because the parents of these poor families believe that nothing can make their children poor. Even if they can't afford it, they will try their best to give them the best, even if they borrow it.
Therefore, when these children grow up, they gradually get used to this kind of behavior of asking for money, without gratitude, empathy and emotional ability. They overdraw tomorrow's money, and their spending power far exceeds their ability.
There is a story that an old woman picks up her grandson from school every day and takes him to a nearby noodle restaurant to eat his favorite beef noodles. And every time I order two bowls, I will serve the meat in the bowl to the children.
Once, when noodles were served, the children went to the toilet, and grandma silently gave them all the meat. When the noodle shop owner saw all this, the child came back and said to his grandmother, why didn't you give me meat this time?
Grandma said, honey, grandma gave it to you. Eat quickly. As a result, the grandson said angrily, you are lying. This time, the meat is obviously less. You didn't give it to me. You ate all the meat secretly while I was away. After that, he said in anger that he wouldn't eat it and spilled noodles all over the table.
Grandma got up and ordered another bowl of noodles from the noodle shop owner, but the noodle shop owner said she wouldn't sell them the third bowl of noodles.
This time, the little grandson was even more angry and ran away in tears, and grandma quickly followed him out. Not long after, a man came back with the child, apparently his father. After entering the store, he sat down on the stool and ordered three bowls of noodles.
After being served face to face, the man did not eat, but slapped the bill of 100 yuan on the table and said loudly to the store, "I want to order some bowls, but I don't want to eat yet." Then he vomited into the bowl and led his son away.
The store is also very helpless. The store wanted to tell this grandson in this way that he could not be so rude to his grandmother. Who knew it would end like this?
Important: It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. If your parents try their best to give you fish, so that you can get more fish than children of the same age and live the same life as them, but forget that you are different from others. When you eat all the fish and you haven't learned to fish, then you will find that other people's fish are still inexhaustible, and you have spent everything.