Twenty years old, the age to dare to fight. For modern women, it is time for their wings to grow and fly high. Whether they enter the society for the first time, go to work or go to university for further study, what they have to do is not to enjoy comfort, but to learn to add value to themselves, improve their abilities and cast strength and capital to face future variables calmly.

Twenty years old, a woman's golden age, in this limited youth: if you want to see the sunrise in the distant mountains, you must dare to climb; If you want to control the future, you must enrich yourself when you are young.

What really opens the gap in women's lives is whether they pay attention to internal improvement and self-growth during this period.

It is often at this time that those women who get worse and worse in the end step into marriage, get caught up in housework and children, and neglect themselves. Those women who only care about immediate enjoyment and comfort and fail to live up to their youth will also regret for life because they have accomplished nothing!

Only dare to struggle, constantly improve yourself and become a better self can we reap a better future.

Thirty years old: independent and independent of others.

For women, after the age of 30, it is a brand-new world.

Having lost her 20-year-old youth and confusion, women at this stage began to plan their own lives.

They are confident and independent and never depend on others.

No matter how stressful my life is, I only regard myself as my backer.

Accustomed to the protection of the moon and others, Lu Xiaoman gradually lost his self and independence in the process of growing up.

Finally, I can only spend the rest of my life in misery.

On the other hand, Tang Ying, a socialite with the same fame as Lu Xiaoman, lived a luxurious life, which did not stifle Tang Ying's independent nature.

She has her own thinking and strength, and is a rare independent woman in that era.

This independent attitude towards life not only enabled Tang Ying to have a happy marriage, but also enjoyed family happiness gracefully in her later years.

Life never takes sides with anyone.

Once you put yourself on someone else, you lose. Independence is our skill in playing games with the unknown life.

With the light of live high, we can not get tired of life and have the confidence to start again.

40 years old, live your own life and get rid of the shackles.

After a woman is forty, don't let herself be trapped in the trivial things of life. Give yourself some privacy while taking care of your family, live high, and you will have more possibilities.

After marriage, many women devote themselves to the family, take care of each other and teach their children carefully, but never think for themselves.

At forty, I was not confused. When I woke up at forty, I found that I had done nothing but housework with my older children. I was depressed, no longer young, and hated myself in my spare time.

Even so, at this time, smart women will not just sigh, but pick up old dreams and catch up. When the children are older and the housework is less, women will quickly clean up the housework and turn to new fields, or study or work hard. When women gradually get rid of the shackles and live their own lives, the whole person radiates confidence.

Family should never be just the bondage of women, but should be the backing of women's free life.

A smart woman can not only arrange her life and family in order, but also live her true self.

Age has never been a shackle that limits you. Only by allowing yourself to advance and retreat can we overcome difficulties in the turbulent life.

Fifty years old: look down on gains and losses and enjoy life.

Life is a lost practice.

The gain and loss are in a moment.

There is not so much perfection and perfection in this world, but many people will get lost in the ups and downs of life.

Women over 50 have experienced too many ups and downs in their lives.

They have long been able to face any panic, because nothing can be compared with the rest of their lives.

Jiang Yang's family of three spent the first half of their lives wandering around in turbulent times. They live in relatives' homes and in shabby and narrow dormitories.

Finally, the family just had a spacious and comfortable home, and fate played a joke on her again.

The husband got cancer and the daughter was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer.

Time passed, and at the end of my life, my husband and daughter left her one by one.

After Where Are You Going, Mr. Jiang Yang walked alone for nearly 17 years.

In those gully years, Mr. Jiang Yang didn't care too much about gains and losses, but injected his endless thoughts into the book through a pen.

She wrote day and night, sorted out Qian Zhongshu's academic manuscripts, and finished many books, but she did not forget to keep fit.

Jiang Yang seemed to see through all kinds of pains in the world, and always treated the impermanence of the world with a normal heart and spent his old age indifferently.

Temporary gains and losses can only make you more miserable.

Since we didn't get what we wanted, we should believe that all the losses will come back in another way.

Life is never determined by circumstances, but by mentality.

Years of ups and downs, look down on gains and losses, can live calmly.

San Mao said:

"When we are thirty, sadness no longer comes back at twenty.

At the age of fifty, we began to miss the wonderful life at the age of thirty.

When we are ninety-nine, we may be as happy as a thief who hasn't been caught when we think that the years of our lives have passed peacefully, hehe, laugh. "

The rest of your life is very long, so you should be full of respect for life, not afraid of the storms of life, and calmly meet the hidden surprises behind time.