Class meeting process:
1, Story Description: This is a true story that happened in Manhattan, new york, USA.
One day, a middle-aged woman in her forties led a little boy into the garden downstairs of the headquarters building of the famous American enterprise "Giant Elephant Group" and sat down on a bench. She kept talking to the boy as if she were angry. Not far away, an old man with gray hair is pruning shrubs.
Suddenly, the middle-aged woman took out a group of glistening toilet paper from her satchel and threw it on the bush that the old man had just cut. The old man turned his head in surprise and glanced at the middle-aged woman. Middle-aged women also looked at him coldly. Without saying anything, the old man went over and picked up the paper and threw it into the garbage basket.
After a while, the middle-aged woman found a mass of toilet paper and threw it over. The old man went over again, picked up the paper and threw it into the basket, and then went back to the original place to continue his work. However, as soon as the old man picked up the scissors, the third group of toilet paper fell on the bush in front of him ... In this way, the old man picked up the paper thrown by six or seven groups of middle-aged women in succession, but he never showed dissatisfaction and boredom.
"Look!" The middle-aged woman pointed to the old man pruning shrubs and said to the boy, "I hope you understand that if you don't go to school well now, you will be as worthless as him in the future and can only do these humble jobs!" " "
The old man put down his scissors and came over to the middle-aged woman and said, "madam, this is the private garden of the group." According to the regulations, only employees of the group can come in. "
"Of course, I am the department manager of a company under the Giant Elephant Group, and I work in this building!" The middle-aged woman said proudly, and at the same time took out a certificate and waved it at the old man.
"Can I borrow your mobile phone?" The old man hesitated and said.
The middle-aged woman reluctantly handed the mobile phone to the old man, and at the same time lost no time to enlighten her son: "Look at these poor people, they can't even afford a mobile phone at such a big age. You must work hard in the future! "
After the phone call, the old man returned the mobile phone to the woman. After a while, a man came in a hurry and stood in front of the old man respectfully. The old man said to the bearer, "I now propose to remove this lady from her position as the elephant group!" " "Ok, I'll follow your instructions at once!" The man repeatedly replied.
After the old man told him, he went straight to the little boy. He touched the boy's head with his hand and said meaningfully, "I hope you understand that the most important thing in this world is to learn to respect everyone ..." With that, the old man left them three and slowly left.
The middle-aged woman was stunned by what happened suddenly in front of her eyes. She knows that man, who is a senior employee of Giant Elephant Group who is responsible for the appointment and dismissal of employees at all levels. "You ... how can you respect this old gardener so much?" She asked in confusion.
"What did you say? Old gardener? He is Mr. James, the president of the group! " The middle-aged woman suddenly collapsed on the bench.
Students talk about their feelings. The theme of the blackboard theme class meeting is "self-esteem, self-love and self-respect"
2. Talk about self-esteem, self-love and self-esteem.
(1) What is self-esteem?
Respect yourself and know that there are some things you can't say, some things you can't do, some things you have to endure, and you can't let yourself lose your temper.
(2) What is self-love? I know from my heart (and I don't just think so) that I am worthy of love.
No matter how I feel, no matter what I think, no matter how I behave, no matter what I look like, no matter what family I was born in, no matter what I do, no matter what I have achieved, no matter what I have done so far in my life, no matter what kind of person I am, I know that I don't have to perform, achieve or do anything to be worthy of love. I don't need to do anything. I know that no one can deny this evaluation-I am worthy of love-even if someone does not accept me, treats me mercilessly, and even discriminates against me.
(3) What is self-esteem?
In a sense, self-esteem means self-discipline. You can learn to control your impulses, abide by regulations, develop good behavior habits, demand yourself with high moral standards, control your emotions, adjust your mental state, be strict with yourself, be lenient with others, criticize others less, demand more from yourself, and reflect on yourself.
3, crosstalk appreciation: "groupies"
4. Review: What other negative examples of this theme are there around you?
Students speak freely, such as talking in class, passing notes, cheating in exams, cleaning up and chatting, material comparison, puppy love and so on.
5. Listen to this story:
(1) A student with the worst academic performance raised his hand to answer the teacher's question. But when the teacher asked him, he couldn't answer. Later, when the surprised teacher asked him why he didn't raise his hand, the student cried and said, "Teacher, everyone else can. If I don't raise my hand, people will laugh at me. " Teachers therefore feel that students have high self-esteem. He told the students privately that the next time he asked questions, he would raise his left hand if he could answer them, and raise his right hand if he couldn't. From then on, every time I saw him raise his left hand, the teacher tried to give him a chance to answer, but never let him stand up with his right hand raised. After a while, the student became cheerful and made great progress in his academic performance. So the teacher quietly told this method to several other poor students in the class. As a result, he found that the whole class had changed. -self-respect and self-love.
(2) When Yang Zhen, the satrap of Donglai in the Later Han Dynasty, passed through Changyi County, the county magistrate Wang Mi sent ten gold coins, saying that he was "ignorant at dusk". Yang Zhen resolutely refused and said, "Heaven knows, earth knows, you know, I know, what is ignorance?" Therefore, people call him "Four Knowledgers and Taishou".
(3) After the Han Dynasty, Nanyang Taishou sheep continued to love fresh fish. After hearing this, Ah Fu City sent two big carp, which Yang Jian refused to accept. But the house was sophisticated and left without saying a word, so Yang Xu had to hang carp in front of the door to warn those who came to give gifts. Therefore, people call sheep a "satrap". -Self-respect and self-discipline.
6. Life also needs "self-improvement" and "open-minded optimism"
(1) Mr. Ouyang Xiu's father died when he was four years old. His family is very poor and there is no money for him to study. The wife wrote on the beach with a reed pole and taught him to write. And taught him to read many ancient chapters. When I am old and have no books to read at home, I go to a nearby reader's house to borrow books, and sometimes I copy them. In this way, day and night, sleepless, just concentrate on reading. Poems and essays written since childhood are written at the level of adults, so high.
(2) In the Han Dynasty, there was a man named Sun Jing, who was diligent and studious since childhood. He studies late into the night every night. In order to avoid being sleepy, he tied his hair with one end of the rope and tied it to the beam. During the Warring States Period, there was a man named Su Qin who wanted to do something big, so he studied hard. Whenever he studies late into the night, he always takes a nap. So, when he was taking a nap, he stabbed his thigh with an awl and lifted his spirits. The stories of Sun Jing and Su Qin touched future generations, and people used "hanging the beam and stabbing the stock" to express the spirit of hard study. -Self-reliance and self-improvement.
(3) It is said that there is such a short story among salesmen. Two Europeans went to Africa to sell leather shoes. The first salesman saw that Africans were barefoot and immediately said disappointedly, "These people are used to barefoot. How can they buy our leather shoes?" So I came back depressed. Another salesman was surprised to see Africans barefoot: "These people have no shoes to wear. It seems that there is a big market for leather shoes." . So I tried my best to sell my leather shoes to Africans and finally made a fortune. This is the world difference caused by my mentality.
(4) Napoleon Hill once told a thought-provoking story: Selma and her husband were stationed in an army base in the desert, and her husband often went out for exercises. She stayed alone in the army's small tin room, which was unbearably hot and nobody paid attention to her. She is surrounded by Mexicans and Indians who don't understand English. She wrote to her parents sadly and said, "I want to go home …" Her father wrote her a letter with only two lines. Two people, through the prison railing, one saw the mud, and the other saw the stars. From then on, Selma decided to look for her own stars in the desert. She watched the sunset in the desert and found conch shells left tens of thousands of years ago. She makes friends with local people and gives gifts to each other. She studied the plants and animals in the desert and learned about the groundhog. She turned what she thought was the worst environment into the most meaningful adventure in her life and published a book, Happy Castle. She looked out of her cell. -Open-minded and optimistic.
7. Learn to be a self-respecting, self-respecting and self-reliant person.
Thinking: How do you do it bit by bit in real life? Students talk about their feelings.
8. What famous sayings about "self-esteem, self-love and self-respect" can inspire us?
Exodus: Don't do little evil, don't do little good-Liu Bei of the Three Kingdoms.
Conquering all your weaknesses is a great beginning for a person-Shen Congwen.
If you want to conquer the world, you must conquer yourself-Dostoevsky.
If you are strict with yourself, nothing can succeed; Forgive others, no one can pass. Hundred rivers, great tolerance!
If we want more roses, we must plant more rose trees.
A great man is great because when he is in adversity with others, others lose confidence, but he is determined to achieve his goal.
There is no despair in the world, only desperate people.
9. Conclusion:
Youth is like flowers in spring, rain in summer, leaves in autumn and red berries in winter. If we know how to be honest and cherish today's learning opportunities, we will certainly make the bloom of youth colorful. Let the rain of youth rain in Mao Mao; Let the youthful Wu Ye be light; Let the youthful red plum blossom proudly. "Self-respect and self-love" is one of the contents of the construction of our class spirit. Life needs not only self-respect and self-love, but also self-reliance and optimism. As long as we can always reflect on ourselves, know ourselves clearly, find out our strengths and weaknesses, be strict with ourselves and learn with an open mind, then all the difficulties will be solved and we will become the masters of our ultimate destiny!
Class meeting music options:
1, life in full bloom-Wang Feng
2. Running-Yu Quan
3. Start all over again-Liu Huan
4.BBK- Xie Yuxin
5. Believe in yourself-Zero Belt
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