Hello, Annie! Due to the limitation of space and words, I can only send translations. Please read the translation of Chapter 14 of Yang Guangming. Confucius said:' A gentleman who can be filial to his parents must have the sincerity to love and respect, and if he loves and respects sincerely, he will be loyal to the monarch. If he can respect his brother, he must have a pleasant attitude. It's useless to be happy. Will be able to follow the instructions of the chief. Life at home can be handled in an orderly way, and his instinct for handling affairs must be very good. If he handles official business, he can do it well. Therefore, a person's behavior can be successful within the family, so that he can serve the country from the inside out. Not only will his reputation as an official shine for a while, but the name of loyalty and filial piety will be passed down forever. The fifteenth translation of exhortation: Confucius said all kinds of filial piety, but he didn't say anything about his father. What should Ceng Zi do? So he asked,' The lessons I told you before are love, respect, respect and fame. I understand everything. There is another thing I don't quite understand, so I dare to ask: can a son be considered a dutiful son if he does not disobey his father's orders and obeys them all? When Confucius heard this question from Ceng Zi, he was surprised and said, What is this? What is this? Confucius explained to Ceng Zi in detail that his father's orders could not be carried out casually, and the feasibility of his orders should also be considered. For example, the ancient emperor was the king of a country, the head of state did good deeds, and millions of people were blessed. If the Fuehrer is at fault, the whole people will suffer. If seven subordinates dare to speak out. Although there were occasional mistakes that day, there was no way to trace them. Because there are seven sages who remonstrate, remonstrate and dare to save, they will not lose the world. If a vassal has five admonishers. Correct mistakes. Although there is no way, I will not lose my country. Doctors have families. If three subordinates protest, although he made a mistake, these three subordinates will say yes or no sooner or later, and they will not lose his home. Although the scholar is the smallest official, he has no subordinates. If a few friends who have advised him give him advice and guidance, then his behavior will not go wrong and his good reputation will focus on him. For a father, if he has a polite and upright child, he is often admonished. Save him, then he won't do anything wrong, and naturally he won't fall into injustice. Both the monarch and his son are close relatives. Therefore, when you encounter something you shouldn't do, you must be gentle and exhort your father for the sake of your children. As a subordinate, you must call a spade a spade to the chief. If you are a courtier, you should distinguish right from wrong and give clear advice. If the father is disobedient and is a child, he should gently admonish him, that is, he will offend and fight without resentment. If you don't obey, if you are a subordinate, you must be extremely persuaded, that is, you will do whatever it takes to offend you. Therefore, officials must immediately persuade your father what he shouldn't do. If it is a son, no matter whether the father's order is appropriate or not, it will fall into injustice. How can you be a dutiful son? Confucius said,' Ancient sage, father, heaven and mother. So it is the same for parents of heaven and earth. If you are filial to your father, it is to imitate the light of the sky. Filial piety means imitating people of insight. Pushing filial piety for prayer, all ethnic groups, old and young, obey the ceremony, so officials and people, big and small, are affected and autonomous. According to all this order, mankind has done its best. If you can follow the example of dawn, you can follow the example of daytime, and the tunnel will reflect on itself. From then on, the gods will naturally show their protection. Therefore, the status of the son of heaven is the noblest. But there is something higher than him, that is, because of his father. The son of heaven is the leader of the whole people. Who can get ahead of him? But there is something in front of him, which means there is also a reason for his brother. According to this relationship, the son of heaven not only does not think of himself, but also respects his father. Not only does he not put himself first, but he also puts his brother first. Therefore, uncles, brothers and younger brothers are all descendants of ancestors. Will be able to promote their love and respect and treat each other with courtesy. And mourn for ancestors, set up ancestral temples to make them love and respect sincerely, which is to carry forward filial piety, not forget the significance of relatives, but also to do our best to love and respect ancestors. But a little mistake in your behavior will insult your ancestors. So practice your own morality, be careful about your behavior, and dare not neglect it. I'm afraid that if something goes wrong, it will leave the shame of our ancestors and relatives. As for my moral integrity and noble personality, when I went to the ancestral temple to pay homage to my ancestors, they all enjoyed it, as if they were on it and around. The virtues of ghosts and gods are so much. What can be greater than the holy king and understand the gods with Xiaogan? From the above reasons, it seems that if filial piety is done to the extreme, it can be connected with the gods of heaven and earth, and heaven and man can be integrated and interact. The natural light of moral education is obvious outside the four borders, far and near, and there is no way. Governing the world in this way will naturally lead to civil harmony, and there will be no complaints from top to bottom. Confucius quoted this passage from the elegant chapter of the Book of Songs:' Although the world is big and the world is wide, people's psychology is the same. Therefore, King Wen's education is widely spread all over the world. As long as the subjects educated by King Wen, regardless of the east, west, north and south, are ignorant, they can prove the profound significance of the influence of Shengde. Confucius said:' A gentleman has a virtue and a position, and he has a special advantage in serving the chief executive. When I met you before, he knew everything, said everything, planned a general plan and made a full contribution. You must think about it and try your best to be loyal. Seeing that he retired, he reviewed his work. Didn't he do his duty? Is his words inconsistent with his deeds? He will try his best to make up for his mistake. As for officers, if they have good virtue and good behavior, they are encouraged to give rewards and help in advance, and they are willing to obey when they do it. If an officer has any shortcomings, correct them in advance. A fait accompli, try to remedy it. In a word, it is the best policy to serve the officers under your command in order to do good, collect evil and nip in the bud. If you offend your face with exhortation, it is beneficial to try your best to defend your life, not to nip in the bud. If you are a subordinate, you can follow such a thing, and the first mate will naturally gain insight into loyalty and treat you with righteousness. The so-called unity of monarch and minister is like the head of state and limbs ... the above words have been written, and the rest of the translation is published in the comments column. Please go to ~ 2011-05-165438. Confucius quoted this passage from The Book of Songs:' As long as you are a minister of a beloved monarch, you can still say that it is not far away, even though you are in the border. This is because his love comes from the heart and his love is hidden in his heart. Therefore, I forget it every day. Although I am far away, I often miss it. This proves that the monarch and the minister are United. "2011-05-120: 54: 53 supplement: bereavement 18 translation: Confucius said:' A child who is good at filial piety to adoptive parents, if he loses his parents, his grief is immeasurable. I cried miserably and failed, without a trace of hesitation. I don't pay enough attention to etiquette, and I don't look like usual. You don't speak as elegantly as usual. In this case, people don't feel comfortable wearing exquisite clothes, they don't feel happy listening to good music and they don't feel sweet eating delicious food. Such words and deeds are caused by sorrow, and God can't help it. The entertainment of eyes and ears, the support of mouth and body, naturally have no intention of being happy. This is the performance of the filial son's sorrow and true feelings. 2011-05-1120: 55: 59 Supplement: The funeral ceremony said,' Those who have lost their lives for three years will eat for three days, and the parishioners will not be killed or injured. In other words, don't grieve for the dead, it will hurt their lives. Sadness is rooted in nature, and excess will damage the body. But you can't have the nature of harming life and extinction. This is the politics of saints. The mourning period is only three years, which is to teach people filial piety and has an end period. 2011-05-120: 56: 21Supplement:' On the day of parents' death, they must be dressed up carefully, bedded, and the inner coffins and the outer coffins must be placed neatly, and they must be collected. After the funeral, in front of the mourning hall, Fiona Fang's sacrificial vessels were set. Mourn in the morning and evening to be filial. At the funeral, the ancestors go first, and it seems that they can't bear to leave. The woman wept bitterly. The man stamped his foot, cried, and came to the funeral with sadness and urgency. As for burial, we must choose a suitable place and a quiet environment. Bury it to show the sincerity of love and respect for children. After burial, according to its legal system, a family temple or ancestral temple was established. After three years of mourning, he moved his relatives to the ancestral hall, so that they could have a place to enjoy sacrifices, offering sacrifices to ghosts and gods, and offering sacrifices to Chundi, which they longed for from time to time. In order to show that you don't forget your loved ones, you should be careful to pursue the distance, to show filial piety and sorrow, and everything is ready. "2011-05-1120: 57: 44 supplement: when parents are alive, they should try their best to love and respect, and after their parents die, they should do something with mourning. Even if the basic events of life are completed, the etiquette of health preservation and death is complete. Filial piety is completed. " Full text "Thank you ~

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