Second, the reason of the enterprise, the enterprise is poorly managed, unsustainable, in arrears with wages, on the verge of bankruptcy, people can not see hope, can not find the direction, lost the future. In this case:
1. People with foresight have long abandoned the ship and set sail. From then on, they forgot the rivers and lakes and went to another platform to fight and struggle.
2. There is also a man with a background and a backer who was picked up by helicopters and yachts one after another when the ship was about to sink and ran away.
3. Then there are young people with good physical strength and great health, who jump into the sea directly, make choices while they are young, and make another hole in the world by their own efforts.
Most people are helpless and can only wait for the moment when the ship sinks, hoping for a miracle, being resettled by the rescue team and starting a new life.
Third, as a result, many people regard retirement as a lifeline and try their best to retire. The unit where the author works is experiencing such a thing. It is said that the enterprise will be restructured, reorganized, merged and managed.
1. Many people who are close to ancient times are full of joy and eager to retire. Since then, I have become a civil servant, paid my salary on time, and no longer have to worry about the poor efficiency of the enterprise.
2. Then there are those who have not reached retirement age, but still have three to five years to retire. They are looking forward to the introduction of the internal retirement policy. Although their income has decreased a lot, they finally have hope that they will no longer have to work very hard every day and suffer from layoffs.
People who are engaged in special jobs can retire early. So many people are trying to come up with ideas on this issue. Those who have engaged in special types of work and meet the policy requirements are of course extremely happy; If not, find a way to meet the conditions. There are even many managers who give up their cadre status and rank and retire as workers in order to get on this bus.
Many young people are also trying their best to retire. Here, the Eight Immortals show their magical powers when they cross the ocean, and they show their magical powers when they enter the earth. Anyway, it's all eighteen martial arts, only you can't think of it. It is widely rumored in the Jianghu that the son of a certain unit has retired, but Lao Tzu has not. You can think about how deep the water is inside.
Usually at this time, people are basically worried, and all kinds of rumors are flying all over the sky. Everyone is thinking about their future, craning their necks to wait for the dust to settle, waiting for the final judgment. It can be said that it is sad.
People are in their fifties and will retire in three to five years. This is really not a taste. The old employees of civil servants, central enterprises and institutions have completely different retirement mentality from the retired employees of foreign companies and private enterprises. If you are patient, you might as well listen to me for a chat.
As the retirement age approaches, everyone has an inexplicable sense of loss. When we look in the mirror, there are scattered silver lines on our temples unconsciously. Legs and feet are not as agile as when they were young, memory declines, headaches and brain fever come as scheduled. There are all kinds of health care products on the bedside.
At sunset, my career is near dusk. Grasping the afterglow of the sun may be a common heart of retired people.
A good unit is generous in money. They are not short of money, they just need to straighten things out. You are like this, I am like this, and everyone is like this.
Retirement, the unit pays social security, and even pays a certain salary. Go home to experience retirement, reach retirement age, and go through formal procedures. Early retirement, which everyone envies, is not a welfare enjoyed by ordinary people.
There is also punching in every day, going to work on time and according to the point, retreating from the first line to the second line, changing the real position to the virtual position, standing aside and being a bench. There are many wages and benefits in human units, and the more serious units are sorry for the discount of wages.
The most speechless thing is that some jobs that engage in manual labor are old, their hands and feet are slow, and they can't catch up with the trip. Leaders are tired, so are colleagues. Braids should be caught everywhere, not to mention pay cuts, even if bones are found in chicken soup, they should be buckled up and down. Some leaders with low quality are rude and always say: the company doesn't keep idle people, which is easy to cause problems. These words hurt your self-esteem. You know, some people who are about to retire may have grandchildren and be bossed around by teenagers. They are certainly looking forward to early retirement. For them, the last few years of work are like years, which is no exaggeration. It is difficult for people who have not experienced it personally to understand the bitterness. Slowly "endure", it is darkest before dawn, and sunny morning after darkness.
I'll tell you your problem. Let's just talk. We are tired enough, why should we create anxiety? In fact, there are not so many things in life that need attention and attention. We just need to be ourselves, don't smoke and drink, don't stay up late and exercise more, have a happy physical examination on time, don't always worry about health problems, eat more fruits and vegetables, and don't always drink too much wine and eat too much meat. God gives us the same amount, taking more early and taking less late. I can really enjoy retirement, but I am so anxious that retirement has become the only goal in life. It's really sad!
First, there is an extreme lack of sense of responsibility and loss of life goals. From the moment a person is born, it determines the complexity and reality of facing the choice. Due to the influence of family environment and the lack of education, some people don't want to struggle and make progress, can't see the direction of life and can't figure out their social responsibilities, so they have the idea of being the only one, doing nothing, that is, enjoying their happiness without being busy at the age of 60. This is one of the anxiety complexes.
Second, the social circle is extremely shielded and humanistic care is lacking. In the face of a civilized and open society, everyone will not be immune. Communication is one of the necessary conditions for human survival. It is such a simple truth that few people don't understand and don't want to do it. I feel extremely tall and handsome, but I feel uneasy because I have no friends. That is to say, I am drunk alone, and two lines of tears are lonely. This is the second kind of anxiety complex.
Third, the extremely inflated vanity has lost its feet on the ground. Life is beautiful, it releases almost equal opportunities and hopes for everyone, but some people can't grasp it, or even don't want to grasp it, which leads to complaining about others all day and not caring about the future, that is, the so-called empty face on the moon, singing in a low voice, which is the third kind of anxiety complex.
Fourth, extremely pessimistic illness, loss of good pursuit. Can people eat whole grains without getting sick? In the face of diseases, some people are really at a loss and confused. Coupled with various pressures from family and society, their will was destroyed and their determination vanished, which is the so-called retirement dream. This is the fourth anxiety complex.
It is true that you can enjoy retirement, but if you are anxious to a certain extent, I am afraid that such a simple extravagant hope will become out of reach. Is it too late to regret? Live well in the present, work hard, enrich yourself and be full of hope, which is what a good life should look like. What do you think, friends?
In fact, every citizen's desire is probably the same, and they all want fairness and freedom. But in real work, they are often hit by some ugly reality, which can't be changed and can't go with the flow. Finally, they can only hope to end their career as soon as possible, get rid of the invisible burden and live a relatively comfortable life.
Looking forward to retirement is the only goal. This kind of psychological discomfort is not a taste.
Why? Work is definitely not going well.
1, poor health affects work. With the growth of age, the body is getting worse and worse. Because of physical problems, I take more leave, and the leaders don't like it, and my comrades complain.
2. With the growth of age, physical condition slows down work efficiency. Work will be affected.
3. For the above reasons, leaders look down on you and comrades don't value you. Of course, I will make way for you and change from an important position. If the position is not important, the words will be light or even ignored.
In every way, I am very discouraged and anxious. I look forward to retirement.
My point of view: everyone has to take this step and feel lost. They don't have to come sooner or later, and their sizes are different.
It should be overcome. Set goals and plans for yourself, and live and study well according to your goals and plans. Play down your loss and live a meaningful life. Read books, travel and so on in your spare time.
A person's anxious retirement causes anxiety, which is a manifestation of mild depression. This feeling is that you are unhappy every day, unwilling to socialize, conservative, unwilling to trust people, daydreaming every day, unable to sleep well most nights, always thinking about your past life fragments and things that scare you, and the more you don't want to, the more you appear in your mind.
In a word, I feel that I have lost the fun in my work and life, and all the negative emotions of anxiety and irritability hang over you.
Realizing that you are depressed is a disease.
Under normal circumstances, most people who are anxious to retire are around five years old, and they have some physical problems, so they feel a little overwhelmed when they work.
It is also possible that the humanistic environment in which you work is not good.
You should take this situation seriously. Analyze your main problem carefully. Good suit the remedy to the case, strive to get out of the predicament as soon as possible and regain the fighting spirit in life.
You can see a psychiatrist first to solve your anxiety problem.
Participate in outdoor group activities frequently to enhance self-confidence and physique.
You can go to karaoke bars to sing and relax. Happiness is a good medicine for anxiety.
You can also find some books yourself, as long as you can read them, and change them if you don't understand them. Whether it's adventure, adventure, comedy or romance, you can watch whatever you can. As long as you can investigate, you will get better slowly.
The retirement policy is formulated by the state, and there is no way to retire before the legal age unless you apply for medical retirement, provided that you meet the conditions for medical retirement. This is beyond our anxiety. Therefore, getting rid of anxiety is your first task.
I often hear people in the workplace say that I look forward to retiring early and living the life I really want. They will have anxiety, burnout and no sense of accomplishment at work.
There are three main reasons for this phenomenon.
First, the work pressure is high.
With the continuous progress of science and technology, the competitive pressure of modern workplace is increasing, the task is heavy and the performance evaluation index is high. Some people can't bear it, they will have anxiety, nervousness and even insomnia, and various diseases will appear. Therefore, looking forward to early retirement has become their only goal in life.
Second, the work content is not my own interest.
Because of the lack of interest in the work content, work is just the need to make a living, so they will feel bored and have no motivation to work, which will lead to anxiety, doubt their own value and even the meaning of life.
Third, interpersonal relationships are tense.
Interpersonal relationships in the workplace are complex. Some people are not good at dealing with interpersonal conflicts, and often have tense relations with superiors, colleagues and even customers, leading to anxiety and irritability.
The key to the solution is to change cognition. If the understanding of things changes, the result will also change.
Suffering!
Some 50-year-old enterprise leading cadres, due to enterprise restructuring or younger cadres, have retired from their leading positions, giving up their leisure time and deputy positions. On the surface, they are sympathetic, but in fact they are suffering.
I used to be a leader, but now I take orders from my former subordinates and have a good relationship with them. Even if the relationship is similar, even if you are a deputy, you won't be assigned specific work, and you won't ask for advice if you have something, which will make you feel very idle. Although the subordinates appear to be respectful and say hello when they meet, the more you ask for instructions, the more you go. Even if you need to sign the process, it is only a process, and it will be implemented without your signature. You have no real power, you are alone, and everything you know has nothing to do with you. As a dispensable person, is it hard?
It's not that you can't quit your job and escape from here, but as a civil servant, you don't know technology, and you are still an old man. Which units will want you? There is no lack of leadership anywhere. For the treatment after retirement, I can only bear it. Once there is any retreat policy, go through the formalities quickly, even if it is completely liberated.
I am a miserable post-60 s. All kinds of social shocks hit perfectly, and no one was spared. Originally, I was a college student in the 1980s. At that time, I was a natural stunner. I used to work in a state-owned enterprise, but later I caught up with the rapid economic development and the private-owned enterprises flourished, so I left my original unit and drifted to the sea. At first, I was young and educated, and I had many job opportunities. I never miss finding a job. The income is also good. Until the global economic crisis in 2008. And I'm 40 years old, and my disadvantages are beginning to appear. In 2009, I also jumped ship to find a job, which was particularly difficult in my impression. Finally, I condescended to go to an ordinary company, any ordinary accountant, and the salary was still very low.
I won't go into details about this process. The saddest thing is that social security was not as popular as it is now, and many units did not. Because I am younger, I am not taken seriously. I always think it's too early to provide for the aged. As a result, my social security accumulated little.
I am 52 years old and have three years to retire. /kloc-in 0/9, when I was 50 years old, my former company went bankrupt, and then the COVID-19 epidemic spread all over the world. The economic situation is imaginable, and I am lucky. With years of work experience, I found a job. Up to now 10 months, the work intensity is high and the labor intensity is high, which is really enough for my aunt to drink a pot.
In order to retire smoothly, I am dying every day. I hope I can work in this company for four years smoothly. In today's rapidly changing times, I know this is not an easy task. It may be easier to find a job after retirement, because social security is no longer needed. Therefore, these years have been crucial and particularly difficult.
The answer to this question is from anxious waiting to retirement, and then from retirement waiting to death. Because mourning is too great, the only goal is the feeling of waiting.