Causes and solutions of life pain

Buddha said: There are eight kinds of pains in life: birth and death, parting, missing, resentment and flourishing five elements.

I don't agree that life is a kind of pain. Neither birth nor survival is a pain. Other kinds of pain are the real pain.

Classification and relief methods of pain;

One: aging.

Causes of pain: The reason why aging is painful is that it will make people lose energy, get sick, lose strength, have trouble moving, have no beautiful appearance, and most importantly, the older they get, the closer they are to the day of death.

Solution:

1. Accept the fact of getting old. If you accept that getting old is a natural law, there will be no mental pain.

2, and then we must find ways to delay the speed of aging (such as active exercise, going to bed early and getting up early, eating properly and being healthy).

3. Find a way to stop aging (against committing suicide before the age of 60 for fear of aging) or even reverse aging (scientists are trying to find a way to do this and have made some important progress. Maybe one day we can really stop aging.

Two: get sick.

Causes of pain: once the disease occurs, it will be very light and watery, affecting the appearance. Chinese medicine will not leave the body, which will increase the economic burden and physical pain, and in severe cases, it will be bedridden or even die directly.

Solution:

1, try to stay healthy.

2. Actively cooperate with doctors to treat diseases.

We can only wait for medical progress and eliminate diseases.

Three: death.

Causes of pain:

1. If a person is attached to this world, death will make ta unable to stay in this world, so it is painful.

2. If a person still has unfinished wishes, death will make ta leave this world with regrets.

I can't bear to be separated from my relatives and friends.

4. Fear of unknown results after death.

Solution:

1, accept the law of life and death.

2. Find ways to stop aging and getting sick.

I hope medicine can cure all diseases and injuries.

Relieve the fear of death through religion.

Four: Love is parting.

Causes of pain: Your relatives, friends or lovers leave you or die or no longer love you.

Solution:

1, follow them.

2. Accept the facts.

I believe we will meet again.

If they die or no longer love themselves, let go of their feelings. If they stop missing each other, there will be no pain.

Five: resentment and hatred.

Causes of pain: The reason why resentment is painful must be that the painful person has been bullied.

Solution:

1. If you can't be strong, leave your enemies.

2. Strengthen yourself and defeat and conquer your enemies.

3. Strengthen yourself and physically destroy the enemy (self-defense only. )。

4. Strengthen yourself and make the enemy afraid (make the enemy dare not bully himself).

Six: I can't ask.

Causes of pain: it hurts because it can't be asked.

Solution:

1, give up your impossible wish.

2, reduce the desire to achieve a certain purpose, if the desire is reduced, the degree of pain will be much less.

Seven: the five aggregates are vigorous.

The cause of pain: "Five elements flourishing" means too much desire. I want this and I want that. If I have no food, I want to eat delicious food. If I have delicious food, I want to be an emperor. When I become an emperor, I want to be a fairy. When I become a fairy, I want to be a jade emperor.

Solution:

1, give up unrealistic desires.

2, don't be greedy, enough is enough.

The ultimate cause of pain:

Is too much desire, desire is not satisfied.

For example:

1, if you want to be young, you must be old.

If you don't want to get sick, you must get sick.

3, if you want to die, you will die.

I want to win the 5 million grand prize, but I can't.

I don't want to see the enemy, but I see the enemy.

I obviously like my girlfriend, but she left me.