After that, she didn't mention it again until she got liver cancer without warning last year. Her family's economic situation is relatively good. In addition to receiving western medicine treatment, relatives also helped her find a well-known psychological counselor. When the counselor asked her in a hypnotherapy session, "What is the highest wish in my life?" She only said one sentence: "I hope to have my own home, with my husband and children, not very big, not for a long time, but for many months."
As far as my working experience in western medicine is concerned, there are still many sudden diseases, and no one knows the actual causes. Contemporary people are more and more prone to various diseases. Is it because they don't pay attention to health? Not exactly. Too many people spend time and energy on health preservation, but this view simply regards the body as a device and forgets that the body and mind are one. People only like good emotions, such as happiness, and suppress negative emotions, such as sadness and fear. But what we don't know is that all grievances, grievances and pressures are accumulated in the body. One day, an immune storm will bring people's physical and mental health and life.
Many times, frequent negative emotions are the cause. We have always underestimated the intelligence of the body. In fact, the human body has a highly complex immune system. This is not only a small-scale resistance that western medicine often says, but also includes self-diagnosis, optimal allocation of physical resources, self-repair and reconstruction. When we create various emotions, the body's immune system is the first to be attacked. More than 70% people will absorb emotions by attacking their own body organs, which is also one of the biggest factors of symptoms.
Take women for example. Anger can easily lead to breast cysts, and long-term stagnation can easily lead to breast cancer. Ignoring women's true identity will endanger the physical and mental health of uterus and ovaries, menstrual disorder, and gynecological diseases will occur when couples are not in harmony ... Research shows that the emotions that cause problems in the immune system generally include: anger, sadness, fear, depression, prejudice and doubt, and their periodicity can't be controlled (such as quarrels in summer, high friction, and more patients with depression in winter). Feeling allergic, sore throat, stomachache, gastritis, dreamy sleep, frequent headaches and other diseases, people often think: Is there something wrong with the body? In fact, many times, regular negative emotions are behind the scenes.
Physical discomfort is a sign of inner pain. A good friend chats with me in the evening. When it comes to emotions and diseases, he is particularly interested. He said to me, "What emotions caused my brother's teenage white hair?" I said, "Maybe it's' I tried my best'." He asked: "How to alleviate it?" I replied, "Be yourself and give back the wishes of others." He nodded and asked, "Is it because of emotional reasons that my father turned gray all night on the night when my mother died?" I said, "Yeah, it's so sad."
He asked, "What is the reason why I recently lost my hair for no reason?" I replied, "Anxiety." He asked, "I don't want to be anxious, but I can't control it!" " "I said," why live in the future? Live in the moment. "Don't ignore these huge wounds hidden at the bottom of emotions. We often say "stupid", "stressed" and "unwilling" are just emotional.
Anger makes people feel uncontrollable, and the body automatically releases many factors harmful to the respiratory tract; Anxiety makes the body into an empty iron pot, which dilutes people's energy a little; Stress is depressing, just like a visible hand covering your nose. The body can't lie. It faithfully helps everyone to store all their emotions. Illness is to remind everyone to truly meet the real requirements of the road and solve them properly, and firmly believe in the working ability of the body.
A doctor friend of mine said, "Among the patients who come to the hospital for medical treatment, the physical and mental diseases are more than 1/3, and the physical diseases are less than 1/3. Physical diseases can cause mental health problems." Therefore, they can no longer rely on pure biomedical engineering to treat such patients, but should treat them from three aspects: microorganism, psychological state and social development. "
When our stomach is upset, we only swallow a lot of stomach medicine, but we avoid the source of stress and tension; All kinds of rashes on our skin are like the eruption of a small volcano, but they don't spread: I am angry, please look at my angry heart ... Many diseases are caused by our own emotions, even if it is good, when everyone's emotions go up again, their physical and mental health will be gone.
When you are tired to zero, you need to rest; When to nip in the bud, you need to control your immune system; When you have to cry, scream and vent; When to let go and when to tolerate; When is it worth being bold and confident ... you need to know where your emotions and body are better than anyone else, and then digest and absorb them.