Don't be with people who play with their minds. There are considerate people everywhere, usually selfish people. If you give him a candy, he will suspect it is explosive. You lent him an umbrella, and he didn't return it when your world was in turmoil. He won't consider your feelings and thoughts, he only cares about his own mood.
Don't be with hypocrites. Bacon said: "hypocrites are despised by wise men, admired by fools, worshipped by flatterers and enslaved by their own vanity."
Be with someone you can talk to. Don't talk to the person you are talking to. He insists on talking because he doesn't know you at all. Getting along is the basis of two people's communication. Only people who get along with each other can understand your interests and your happiness, and each other can find the joy of life.
Be with people who support you and encourage you. How many seemingly iron relationships have finally become old and dead. Communication is not a tool for profit. Find someone who appreciates and supports you. If you do something wrong, he understands your grievances; You have succeeded, and he understands your difficulties.
With people who are sincere and kind. You don't have to make some friends for power, career and money. Sincere friendship is the meaning of existence, and sincere people will care about your thoughts and future. If you are a rainbow, you will know it when you meet it. It's never too late to make friends with people who are kind to you.
There are not many friends, just be sincere; Family members don't have to be rich, just unite; Love doesn't need romance, just love you.
In this life, you must find someone who makes you comfortable. Because living is already very tired, don't wronged yourself any more!