In my memory, I first learned about it in the first class of junior high school. The teacher told us about the physiological differences between boys and girls with the help of textbooks. Everyone was embarrassed at that time. After class, the teacher gave the girls a separate bag, which contained a booklet introducing the physiological changes of girls and a sanitary towel. Teacher Li Meijin said in the book: Human sexual knowledge should be carried out in stages.
1 and before the age of 6, sex education is to instill gender awareness in children and know how to protect their bodies. Just like a child is now 4 years old and knows that he is a boy; Know the signs of men and women in the bathroom, boys wear pants and girls wear skirts; Knowing that boys go to the bathroom, girls can't stand it. When taking a bath, point to a sensitive part and tell him, "Here, here, don't let others touch it. If someone touches it, be sure to tell mom and dad when you come back. " The child asked me, "Mom, can you touch it?" I said, "when you were young, your mother could help you take a bath and wash your ass." When you grow up, you can do these things by yourself. Your mother had better not touch here. These places are your secrets and can't be easily seen by others. If these places are uncomfortable, you can tell your parents or ask a doctor for help. "
2./kloc-About 0/2 years old, sex education is to let teenagers know "what is gender charm and accomplishment". Children know more now than before. "Self-awareness" is very strong, eager to be concerned, but also attaches great importance to their own impression in the eyes of others. So I will deliberately pursue being different. As parents, we need to guide our children to know that if we want to win the love and respect of the opposite sex, we must pay attention to our own cultivation. This cultivation is not only the appearance, but also the cultivation of gender behavior. Only in this way can you meet a heterosexual partner who is willing to accompany you for life because of your unique charm. Men's demeanor and women's loveliness all need to be studied and cultivated.
3./kloc-in the flower season of 0/6 years old, sex education is the education of human sex history, so as to further understand the relationship between "sex and law" and "sex and morality". Let the children understand that there are not only moral constraints but also legislative constraints on "sex", so we can't indulge in this matter.
Sex education is a lesson that people must learn when they grow up. If you learn well, you can protect yourself and others. Only when you grow up can you be a responsible, responsible, cultured and cultivated person.
Many viewpoints of Mr. Li Meijin hold that human crime has a great relationship with early family education, and this kind of criminal behavior is a delayed reflection of early education or emotional deficiency.
Nowadays, or under the pressure of life, many children have no children, just like the popular saying "I can't give you bread if I give it to your company", and there are also many helplessness.
The book says that "a healthy life needs both health preservation and heart cultivation". Are we prepared psychologically before becoming parents? Have we decided to grow up with our children while raising them?
Teacher Li Meijin asked three questions:
1. Do you have enough time to spend with your children?
2. Do you have enough patience to accompany your children?
Do you know the basic stages of children's psychological development and what parents need to do at each stage?
These problems should be considered before giving birth, because after giving birth, we need to be responsible for this lovely little life, devote our love and strive to make him grow up healthily.
School bullying has also reported a lot on the Internet in recent years. Parents sometimes worry: What if this happens to our children?
School bullying has two sides, one is the abuser and the other is the bullied.
People who don't become violent must cultivate their children's good character. The book says that "parents' love and kindness to their children is one of the prerequisites for every child to grow up happily and form a good personality". A child is a simple blank sheet of paper. In the process of raising, children are copying the concept and character of caregivers, so as parents, we should cultivate our manners.
In order to avoid being bullied, the most common method given by Li Meijin is to let children develop sports. As long as he has a sense of muscle, he is explosive and will not be easily bullied. The second is to encourage children to make friends. If you have three or four good friends, you should weigh them when others bully him.
On the issue of educating children, we still have a lot to learn, such as how to teach children to deal with negative emotions, how to set rules for children, How to Cultivate Children's Love and Emotional Ability ........................................................................................................................... As Tao said, moderate violence and children's fighting like games are actually necessary. Because children don't know how to find another way to release their inner anger and dissatisfaction like adults (such as exercising, listening to music, and talking to someone), we should allow children to cry, give them a chance to speak, and allow children to lose their temper (that is, adults can't guarantee to manage their emotions well, let alone children) and express their dissatisfaction. Teacher Li Meijin has repeatedly said that "we should make rules for children as soon as possible", because the sooner we enter our minds, the more things we have in our bones. From the perspective of psychological development, the satisfaction of emotional needs is very important. Because people's emotions are formed in this interactive process of need and satisfaction.
As first-time parents, we still have a lot to learn. We should demand ourselves like children, and give enough care and understanding while giving material.
On the road of growth, let us walk with our children.