Only in the latest episode, ZhangJike, a straight steel man, chose to continue dating Gina, but Gina didn't keep the appointment, and the way to leave with her luggage was quite decisive.
As bystanders, netizens also expressed their views under the hot search. Some people say that the two are not suitable, and it is not surprising that Gina left. But besides two people, fans from ZhangJike and Gina also started the battle of rising artists under the hot search. No matter what fans think of their artists, the fact is that Gina turned down ZhangJike, and a lot of public opinion on the Internet favored Gina, dissatisfied with ZhangJike's careless side.
ZhangJike: Why don't girls like to talk about ZhangJike? From an athlete to a sports star, I am afraid that it is one of the few people in the sports world who enter the entertainment circle with personality and strength. ZhangJike has too many auras. Gold medalist, handsome guy in sports, with good figure and well-off family, ZhangJike should be a high-quality stock among single men.
However, a program completely shattered the fantasy of many girls who have a good impression on ZhangJike. In the eyes of many female audiences, ZhangJike's informal behavior is in contradiction with girls' pursuit of a sense of ceremony. For example, when Gina and ZhangJike are having dinner together, Gina wants to enjoy delicious food, while ZhangJike just wants to fill her stomach. When he eats a dish, Gina will be embarrassed to eat it alone.
Look at clothes while eating. One is that the well-matched clothes conform to the temperament of the petty bourgeoisie restaurant, but ZhangJike wears sportswear. Whether it is the speed of eating or the behavior, it is more like being in a grounded ordinary restaurant. Gina and ZhangJike just eat differently. In fact, most girls, like Gina, have the pursuit of food.
In terms of lifestyle and concept, ZhangJike, as Gina said, is suitable to be a friend rather than a lover, not to mention a husband who can live on food, clothing and shelter. Anyone who doesn't want sweet love can see from the state that ZhangJike and Gina get along. It's not that ZhangJike doesn't like Gina, but shows his truest state in front of the camera. Whether it's boring to play with a mobile phone while eating or absent-minded when dating, it's what ZhangJike looks like on weekdays.
And judging from the conversation between ZhangJike and Gina, ZhangJike doesn't want to leave a bad impression. For example, when discussing eating, Gina bluntly thinks that ZhangJike is not a romantic, but ZhangJike emphasizes that she just doesn't have much sense of ceremony when eating.
But sometimes, the lack of ritual is the lack of romance. For example, when they met for the first time, ZhangJike didn't dress up and treat them well, so Jin Chen's first meeting was more like a routine, in ZhangJike.
If boys don't treat them well when they meet for the first time, then this sense of ritual will only become less and less in the future. And girls often care about the sense of ceremony. Take photos before eating, dress up before going out, and prepare thoughtful gifts for special days. A sense of ritual is a way to maintain feelings and gain a sense of security from the other person.
So judging from Gina's rejection and all the girls' dissatisfaction with ZhangJike, it is not without reason. After all, who doesn't want a ceremony full of romantic and sweet love? Different lifestyles, in fact, we can also fall in love. In fact, Orfila exposed her lifestyle in many past programs. She likes to soak her feet in health and often eats some skin care products. However, her three meals a day are often irregular. For example, she will have a spicy takeaway early in the morning and stop eating after a few bites.
Many people say that Orfila's lifestyle is not healthy enough, and Orfila admits this. But she also refuted those who completely denied her on the show. She thinks what her life should be like, it should be her own choice, and no one can tell her what to do.
Gina and ZhangJike can't continue dating, not only because of their different lifestyles, but also because they didn't call each other. Two people get along like friends, from the first date. If you are really moved, then Gina should be tolerant of ZhangJike's informality, and ZhangJike will pay attention to the sense of ceremony because of Gina.
Some time ago, there has been a debate on the internet about what three views are different. Although the answer is always different, there is no contradiction between liking the sense of ceremony and not caring about it. The real difference between the three views is that you think that not paying attention to the sense of ceremony is irresponsible to life, and he thinks that paying attention to the sense of ceremony is melodramatic.
When netizens are arguing about whether Gina and ZhangJike are right or wrong, we must first realize that neither of them is wrong. There is no spark of love between two people, and it is not just because of different lifestyles.
Love itself is a running-in process. There are no lovers made in heaven. Most love is in the long process of getting along with each other, making concessions to each other.
It's normal that many female viewers don't have a strong sense of identity with the straight men in ZhangJike. But there is no need to deny that Zhang Jike is together. If you must eat quickly, ZhangJike, who likes to wear sportswear privately, should be excluded if she changes herself for a program.
Of course, there is still controversy among fans online today. On Jin Chen's side, ZhangJike was criticized for being impolite and disrespectful, while on ZhangJike's side, Gina stepped on ZhangJike from the beginning of the show to warm up the new drama. But I still hope that the audience will remain rational when participating in the discussion, and at the same time admit that the positions of both sides are reasonable and there is no right or wrong.