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First of all, what did the bride bring on her wedding day?
2 sets of bedding, 2 pairs of slippers, 2 sets of pajamas, 2 pairs of socks, 2 sets of underwear (for both men and women), 2 cups for brushing teeth, 2 toothpaste 1, 2 shampoo and conditioner for shower gel, 2 red washbasins, 2 red buckets with covers, red tub 1 for children, 2 towels and 2 bath towels, which are in the cosmetic box.
Second, the kitchen utensils
Everyone: Generally, there are two air conditioners and televisions. Refrigerator, washing machine.
Small household appliances: one set of rice cooker, tableware (100, 80-90, 50-60), two boxes of chopsticks, two thermos bottles, steamer and the like can be purchased as required.
Third, specific standards.
1. Red bucket: descendants bucket, wrapped in big red cloth, containing 8 items.
They are: safflower, jujube, longan, five red duck eggs, popcorn, a bundle of chopsticks, a pack of toilet paper and a small bundle of cypress branches. The other bucket is full of rice, with red dates and longan on it. Both barrels are covered with cypress branches (small bundles), scarlet letters and red cloth.
2. Red washbasin
A red plastic basin contains a pair of shoes, socks and a hat that the bride bought for her grandparents. Socks, 3 peanuts and 2 sweets should be put in the shoes. In another pot, there is a health scale and a pot of evergreen with seeds; Put some red dates, longan and cypress branches in both pots (small bundles). Cover it with the red word "hi".
3. Prepare 2 sets of bedding.
A set to take to your in-laws' home: red ancient quilt 1 piece, pillow 1 pair.
A new bed consists of the following four parts:
(1) 1 piece of traditional red ancient quilt and Qinglong phoenix quilt;
(2) 3 beds of bedding and 3 beds of quilts (down, wool and silk, each1);
(3) 2 pillows and 1 double pillow;
(4) A set of red bedding for making the bed;
Some other non-bedclothes
Attachment: The man prepares sugar for the woman in exchange for red eggs, three Chinese-style corsets for children, shoes and socks, and official hats (buy a cap if you want a brim)1; The number of Chinese-style chest covers for children is determined according to the male family algebra.
Question 2: what should I bring back to my parents' house to see the marriage rules and discuss with my husband?
I wrote about love and love, love and marriage. I wish the world happiness!
First, love and love:
Love has no reason, love is tolerant, love is willing to pay hope and gain, and letting go is also a choice of love;
Love is not taking, love is not a shackle, love is not giving and receiving, love is not possessing, and love will be lost if it is caught!
Love is mutual respect and tolerance, love needs foundation and love needs sharing!
Love has nothing to do with personality, wealth, looks, status, experience, education, ability and age, but it is often influenced by these factors.
Second, love:
How to fall in love: if you have something to do for you, you can talk about it together if you have nothing to do; Help mow the grass (deal with trivial matters) when you are free, and occasionally have some flowers and autumn spinach.
Two lovers will help each other, and they can solve their differences in future life by chatting together (how parents, brothers and sisters treat themselves at home, how they treat parents, brothers and sisters, colleagues, friends, classmates, relatives, etc. ). Daily trifles are actually things that often happen in life, and romance is created by themselves.
The love code I wrote: Source: The scientific nature of the blind date system in China, for reference only.
1, blind date: Let's see if both parties like each other first. I don't like PASS (this is the feeling of seeing each other late), and the worst is passable.
There is no reason for love, love is willing to pay, love is inclusive, letting go is also a kind of love, and love is both sides.
2. Communication: Can you tolerate seeing friends of TA? No, PASS (this needs to be understood by dating, playing together, etc. ) The worst is tolerable.
People are divided into groups. We can see TA's personality, hobbies and so on from his friends' speeches.
3. betrothal: Can you tolerate seeing relatives of TA? No, PASS (this passage needs to meet relatives at home to understand. ) The worst is tolerable.
Parents are their children's first teachers, and words are not as good as examples.
4. Are both parties willing to give each other: spend the necessary money and time. People who only spend time on each other want to be wrapped, and people who only spend money on each other want to be wrapped; People who only want to spend each other's time want to be packaged, and people who only want to spend each other's money want to be packaged. Spend more time with less money, spend more money with less time and balance yourself in the middle.
If you love, you will be willing to pay for each other instead of taking it, not fettering it; If you love, you will make yourself better. If you do, you will love my house and my dog.
5, can't live independently, let alone happiness. I can live without my parents, at least I am willing to work.
You can't even support yourself. Talk about love. Love needs the foundation of life.
Third, marriage:
Love and marriage can be divided into several situations: difficult to talk about, difficult to talk about, difficult to talk about, easy to talk about, easy to talk about.
Marriage law:
Bottom line: Learn to be husband and wife, parents and children, Weng Yue's daughter-in-law, brothers and sisters. Because everyone has no experience. Everyone needs to study.
How to be happy: as a family, everyone is very close; If you take something, you don't give it, but your closest relatives don't! Don't let love become a burden.
What do parents and children do? They are both strict and kind.
Do you know that marriage needs to be managed? It's easy to write, you know? Ask yourself and your parents.
I wrote the marriage law: for reference only.
1. Treat your parents-in-law, husband and wife, son-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the other's children as family.
Honor each other's parents. Think of parents who have raised their children for many years. Today, I gave you a husband and daughter-in-law Grateful to call them parents. Really sympathize with each other's children. Think my daughter-in-law is the treasure of the family. I gave birth to a daughter-in-law for you today If your family doesn't feel bad, will it make others feel bad?
Think about it. Husband and wife loved each other before they got married. Husband and wife leave their home to build a new one because they love each other. They should be willing to pay more attention to their own advantages, communicate on an equal footing, tolerate each other and encourage each other.
Think about whether a child is born in wedlock, out of wedlock, adopted or stepchild. Both husband and wife need to raise children. Treat them with empathy, communicate on an equal footing, encourage them in time and encourage their dreams.
Think about it, regardless of biological parents, adoptive parents and stepparents, they are all raising themselves. Parents who need to support themselves should also treat their parents with empathy, equal communication, proper tolerance and proper filial piety.
2. There are bound to be contradictions in life, and it takes art to deal with them.
My parents and children are self-taught, because they are both parents-in-law and son-in-law for the first time. Including all kinds of blood relatives in the family, try not to quarrel with your in-laws. Contradictions with in-laws refer to Article 3.
3. If the husband and wife have something to do, they will go back to their room to argue, make up their minds and make rules ... >>
Question 3: What can I bring back to my parents' home to bring my parents something I like to eat?
You should know your parents' preferences.
Cater to sb.' s tastes/tastes
Buy clothes for mom or something.
Question 4: What should I bring when I go back to my parents' home for the first time? What happened? As long as your parents don't object to you Just bring whatever you want! If you object to yours! I don't want to take anything back!
Question 5: If you want to go back to your parents' home, what food, clothes and fun should you bring to your baby?
Question 6: What the bride's family needs to prepare on the wedding day depends on your family's customs. Generally, there is no need to prepare anything now, just take the bride home happily.
Question 7: What do I need to buy when I return to my parents' home after seven days of marriage? On the third day here, the bride went home. I didn't buy anything when I went back with my wife last time.
I bought a carton of cigarettes and two bottles of wine for my father-in-law. It's worth 800 yuan. It still depends on the customs there.
Generally speaking, you can buy whatever you want. If you are not sure, you can ask your elders.
Question 8: What should I buy when I bring my husband and children back to my parents' home for the first time? If you send your parents health care products, nutrients, clothes, small household appliances, etc.
Other relatives, friends, cousins and wives. You can send shoes, bags and cosmetics.
Question 9: What should a married woman's family prepare? The customs in Northeast China are also different. For example, where I am, there is also "my mother's meat", that is, my mother will bring a piece of pork (some with ribs), which is usually cut by my mother herself. In addition to the red pots you mentioned (some don't take pots now), there are usually several bags, which are usually filled with new clothes or something. This is the most basic. There are also things to accompany your family.
Question 10: What should a housewife prepare when her wife returns to her family for the first time?
In my hometown, it is good to prepare a sweet mouth for my wife. It's the first time to go to my mother-in-law's house and get a red envelope. Relatives here should give a red envelope whenever they meet for the first time!