What are the taboos for not sleeping together for a few days before and after the winter solstice?

In China's traditional concept, men and women are divided into yin and yang, men return to yang and women return to yin. Only when men and women have sexual intercourse can they reproduce. As the saying goes, "Lonely yin is not born, and lonely yang is not long." However, only sexual intercourse between men and women can achieve harmony between yin and yang. Otherwise, the disharmony between Yin and Yang will not only be detrimental to the reproduction of future generations, but also bring forth many evil consequences. Therefore, men and women should also have taboos about yin and yang when making love.

In ancient times, people thought that the sun was still weak in winter and the shade was still weak in summer. For example, vegetation sprouted and was easily cut down, and yin and harmony could not be reconciled. Although it refers to the yin and yang in nature, it is also afraid of infecting the blood spirits of men and women. At this time, I am afraid that sex can't match the solar terms, draining the blood, causing fatigue and causing great disaster.

In the past, sexual intercourse has always been a taboo in ancient times, people avoided talking about it, and ethnic reproduction was an important thing, so these taboos were handed down from small-scale experiences. Whether it is correct or not, in fact, these taboos have played an important and indispensable role in the formation and development of a national social lifestyle. Therefore, whether you can share a room during the winter solstice depends on your personal wishes and ideas, and there are not many mandatory regulations.

Sexual taboo: when can you never share a room?

1. Lunar May160 Never have sex.

This day is the day when the qi of heaven and earth meet. Once you have sex, you will be in danger for three years.

There is a passage in Huangdi Neijing that talks about the death day of sexual life by the way of dialogue between Huangdi Xuanyuan and Motome. Motome said: The 16th day of the fifth lunar month is the day when heaven and earth meet, so men and women are not allowed to have sex, or they will die within three years. What can be verified? Take a foot of new white cloth and hang it on the east wall that night. When I watch it the next morning, it will be bloody. Don't close the room.

Many people don't believe this kind of advice, but they may not dare to try the law when they know it. On the 5th16th day of the lunar calendar, the night sky looks pale red. It's from 23: 00 to 1, not the time of sunset. At this time, the sky is red for a reason.

According to the "Health in May of the Lunar Calendar", the fifth, sixth, seventh, fifteenth, sixteenth, seventeenth, twenty-fifth, twenty-sixth and twenty-seventh days of May are nine poison days, and it is forbidden for husband and wife to share the same room. May, commonly known as "bad month", a gentleman should control his lust, eat lightly, reduce sour taste, increase bitterness and benefit liver and kidney. At this time, the festival should be quiet and harmonious with nature to calm the mood. The fifth lunar month 16 is the day when heaven and earth meet and everything is created. It is best to ban alcohol and travel.

There are days in 24 solar terms when you can't have sex.

Beginning of spring, Changxia, beginning of autumn, beginning of winter, Dahan, Dashu, vernal equinox, autumnal equinox, summer solstice and winter solstice. Be careful about sex these days, or it will hurt your vitality.

Third, sexual intercourse is forbidden on certain days of the lunar calendar.

The first, seventh, eighth, twenty-second, twenty-third and last day of the lunar month. 15th day of abortion, 16th day of big month (more than 30 days in lunar calendar is big month, and less than 30 days is small month). Be careful about the sexual intercourse of pregnancy these days, otherwise it will easily lead to dementia. Of course, it doesn't matter if it's just for fun.

Fourth, extreme thunderstorms are not suitable for sexual relations.

In this respect, the ancients were particularly particular about it. Dr. Zheng hopes that modern people should also pay attention to it. Never have sex when there is lightning and thunder. Otherwise, I'm afraid it will either harm the body or the spirit, which will bring bad luck to both men and women.

5. Be cautious about sex in the next days.

Three days. He lost five years of his life.

Four stands. Four separations. Absence for four days. The second social day. People who commit crimes will lose five years of life.

Social day pregnant women. My hair is all white.

Dog days. Dark day of string sun. There are three sunny days every month. If a person commits a crime, his life will be reduced by one year.

Jiazi Day. Geng Shenri. Incense is burned on the traditional day, and fasting is the birthday of Buddha. People who commit crimes will lose their lives for a year.

The anniversary of the ancestors' death. Parents' birthday. Death day. If a person commits a crime, his life will be reduced by one year.

The birthday of the monument to the core of life. People who commit crimes will shorten their lives.

Ding bingri Tiandi Cang open day. Anyone who commits this crime will get sick.

Day of Destruction: 18 in big month. 17 abortion. Make it sick.

Heinous day: one year. 1March 898. July, Guihai Day. It's freezing in October. Dinghai Day in November.

Geng Ernian. Ren Shentian in April. September 4th.

Bingxin year. March is a new day. Chen Geng Day in September. October first.

Ding Rennian. be infinite

Pentecost year. June is ugly.

This is a big day. Be careful.