In recent 40 years, the dense transportation network and the development of high-speed rail have greatly shortened the physical distance between people. Now everyone is talking about big data analysis. Big data tells us that China's GDP has been growing steadily, the economy is growing at a high speed, and the people's material quality of life is constantly improving, with changes visible to the naked eye; At the same time, e-commerce has expanded rapidly. When most people saw that Alibaba was just established, they thought it was a fantasy. How can they buy the real thing without seeing the seller's face and the real thing? Now, those who didn't like Taobao at the beginning are afraid that they will just pick up their hands in the Double Eleven and contribute their meager strength to the refresh of Taobao's transaction volume.
There is an actual survey from the super classroom about whether the double eleven college students have picked their hands. I can't see the background statistics, only from the participation of our class dormitory 100%, the result is clear at a glance. I still remember when I first came into contact with Taobao, my mother always said, don't buy things online, I can't touch anything. It's all fake. Now a considerable part of our WeChat communication is, hey, daughter, you buy this and that for your mother, and everything from toilet paper to wallpaper at home is arranged by Ma Yun's father.
There is a popular saying-in the past, horses and chariots were slow, letters were slow, and you could only love one person in your life.
I don't know what's going on at home at the dinner table now. When I was in primary school and junior high school, my smartphone was not so developed. My father would put up with me if I ate too many cartoons. Even when I first came into contact with smart phones, when I was pulling my mobile phone at the dinner table, my parents would have a storm at the same time-if you don't eat, you should concentrate on eating. Obviously, after they come into contact with smart phones, these rules and regulations that are only for me have no constraints on them. The current situation is that they are watching videos and news while eating, and I am there alone, concentrating on communicating with every dish.
Perhaps this is a common state of communication among families in today's society, and the physical distance is getting closer and closer. We pay attention to speed, get a lot of unnecessary information from the internet quickly, and gradually drown the surrounding entities. This change has to be said that it also reflects the impetuous atmosphere between people that is widely diffused in the society at this stage.
The superstructure determines the economic base.
Try to ask, is your mother or father cooking at home now, or ask, you are a 20-year-old adult, can you cook? In our family, my mother is committed to cultivating my independent ability, so she deliberately forced me to learn to cook. Compared with my classmate's home, their parents rarely think that girls will definitely cook. On the contrary, what I see is that the boys around me have found a balance in cooking.
Matching this, it is an old problem-the concept of son preference is gradually beautified in social equality and civilization. The so-called "men dominate the outside, women dominate the inside" is no longer a fixed theory. My mother used to cook most of our dinners. Later, when my mother worked, the burden of cooking naturally fell on my father's shoulders, which was not surprising.
With these ideological progress, the wind of freedom and equality is blowing, and I have no feeling about raising my salary, but the most complaint I hear from my mother is that the things I bought on the street today are not hundreds of dollars. This means that the price in the market has gone up in recent years. When I was in primary school, I thought I could have a good meal in the canteen for 5 yuan. When I entered high school, then I went to college. It can be said that the living consumption level is constantly improving, which is influenced by the general environment, and more importantly, the overall expansion of the whole China market.
Everyone knows Engel's coefficient. In 2005, the family was still busy preparing for the Spring Festival. They buy them before 30th one year, and they buy all the vegetables after the second year. I will go to the supermarket to prepare new year's goods this year, although I will also sell meat and refrigerators. Compared with the past, buying fresh fruits and vegetables still keeps the same habit as usual. The same reaction at the dinner table will not have the image that everyone thinks that the New Year is big fish and big meat, and now they pay attention to healthy living and balanced diet. The Engel coefficient has decreased, and more investment has been allocated to education, health, entertainment and investment.
Speaking of legal holidays, the biggest headache is traffic congestion. When the material foundation is satisfied, the family often arranges a group activity to relax, such as traveling. Nowadays, it is popular to travel to Thailand, and people's demand for sensory experience is not limited to China. Fresh exotic experiences are more attractive.
Now everyone keeps healthy. I have to say that this is a big social atmosphere. Square dance has become synonymous with aunts. Housewives know more about health than washing lamps. My mother will sprinkle a handful of beans in rice when cooking now, pay attention to less oil and salt, and mix it with coarse grains. Watching TV programs after dinner has also been replaced by sketches. Go out and press the road. Generally speaking, people have made significant progress in energy, time and money invested in self-cultivation and healthy exercise. In addition, there are health checks organized by the government every year, and the social medical security system is becoming more and more humanized and scientific.
When I first went to primary school, I came to a conclusion that boys are good at science and girls are good at liberal arts. Boys have more endurance than girls. This leads to my natural fear of mathematics as a girl. And I've been worried that the stamina will suddenly come out at some point. Facts have proved that girls with good academic performance in school are still excellent later, and there are not a few who should go to 985, 2 1 1. At this point, both boys and girls, parents' investment in education is solid and merciless. I haven't heard the rumor that girls' grades will be worse than boys'. Now, at that time, the one-sided word had to be said to be the inequality between men and women, which led to the uneven investment of parents in boys and girls, and naturally formed that impression. When people's ideological progress keeps up with the main theme of the times, pseudoscience without scientific reason will be broken.
In the future, the whole society is developing towards the requirements of being more conducive to the development of human personality, conforming to human nature and satisfying comfort. People's ideas are constantly being civilized, and the gap between generations is also shortening. Mutual understanding, popularizing national quality education and investing in social science and technology innovation ... every small step is a powerful driving force to promote long-term harmonious development of society.