A person will always do something wrong. In fact, some things he thinks are wrong, but in the eyes of others, they are all things. And we often, self-righteous, treat some things as things we did wrong, and keep them in our hearts for a long time, which is hard to let go. Finally, we are depressed and unable to extricate ourselves.
In fact, as long as a person has not done anything unnatural or committed a crime, even if he has done something wrong, he will always be forgotten, and it is precisely our own difficulties that will be let go. Therefore, to be a man, we must learn to forgive ourselves, so that we can face life more easily.
Many people can't forgive themselves or even hate themselves after making mistakes.
And then affect the mood of doing things now or even later. If you hate too much, you can't turn over a new leaf and see the dawn of hope. Why don't you think about it the other way around? Now that the mistake has been made, what's the use of punishing yourself? And you have paid a heavy price for it, so why catch up with the present and the future?
Only by truly forgiving yourself from the bottom of your heart can you get rid of your troubles and make your mood better. Learn to forgive yourself, not make excuses for yourself, but calmly analyze our past mistakes, learn from them, and learn from them.
We should not only learn to forgive others, but also learn to forgive ourselves. If we can't forgive ourselves, we will fall into the mire of failure. If we can't forgive ourselves, we will blame ourselves all day; If we can't forgive ourselves, we will lose the confidence and courage to move forward.