To put it simply, if you want to succeed, you must pay 100% of your efforts, otherwise, you will get nothing without paying. So what is real success in real life? We found a realistic phenomenon, that is, children who were honest when they were young, why didn't they have any future when they grew up?
Of course, the promise here is about great success. Honest children are not bad, just follow the traditional management and constraints, and generally dare not let go of their hands and feet. Therefore, more honest people just live a stable life. After all, they haven't experienced great storms, and finally they can't form the peak of their careers.
I remember Mr. Yi Zhongtian once mentioned Cao Cao in the program. This person's experience tells a truth: he was an honest role model when he was a child, but he didn't make any progress when he grew up. Why is there such a statement? Let's take a look at Cao Cao's life experience first.
Cao Caozi Meng De was born in the late Eastern Han Dynasty. He is a very controversial figure, an outstanding politician, strategist and writer in ancient times. With his own efforts and superhuman political ambitions, he consolidated the Cao Wei regime.
Many people's understanding of Cao Cao may have started with the book Romance of the Three Kingdoms. This book describes Cao Cao as a lean man with both good and evil. He did many things that ordinary people don't understand, such as becoming an undercover around Dong Zhuo, just to help the Han family one day, or to kill the family who helped him.
His mentality is different from that of ordinary people. He has the idea of serving the country and being loyal to the monarch, but he dares to hold the emperor as a vassal. Judging from his experience, he has made outstanding achievements and is very successful in politics, military affairs and literature.
Militarily, he is relatively powerful. In order to lay the foundation for the north, he carefully planned the battle of Guandu and directly defeated Yuan Shao. Politically, he realized his ambition, consolidated the Cao Wei regime, unified the north, gave the people a very good rest and healthy environment, and developed rapidly.
In literature, he left many magnificent articles to the world, including Mo Bao. Personally, I like his "Looking at the Sea" best: "Jieshi looks at the sea in the east. The water is full of water and the mountain island is full of scenery. " Very imposing, the general is lean. Mr. Yi Zhongtian appreciates this man very much.
When Mr. Yi Zhongtian read Cao Cao in the Three Kingdoms, he put forward a view that everyone might not accept. Judging from Cao Cao's growing experience, he thinks that if a person is honest when he is a child, he will have no future when he grows up. When this statement came out, it caused various discussions among netizens.
Some people think that Mr. Yi's statement is too one-sided to generalize. Some people think that we should calm down and savor this sentence. In the face of cruel reality, this view is still very reasonable in today's society. Well, right or wrong depends on personal opinion.
However, it is not casual for Mr. Yi Zhongtian to put forward this view. He came to the conclusion after careful consideration and repeated study of Cao Cao's growth process. Let's see what Cao Cao was like when he was a child, and maybe we can understand what mr. yi got.
Cao Cao was naughty when he was a child. He took advantage of his uncle's dissatisfaction with himself and tried to sow discord between his father and uncle. Unexpectedly, he succeeded. The relationship between father and brother is estranged, so even if Cao Cao makes a mistake, it is useless for uncles to complain, and Cao Cao will no longer suffer from his father's flesh and blood.
Although this is only a trivial matter, we can see that Cao Cao has learned how to safeguard his own interests through skills, and he has learned to solve problems with his own mind. Of course, apart from these, little Cao Cao does everything secretly, just like a devil incarnate.
As Yi Zhongtian said, Cao Cao, who was so naughty as a child, made great achievements in the future because of his status as the devil incarnate? I do not think this is necessarily the case. Stubbornness and ambition are not directly proportional, but two different things.
Compared with Yi Zhongtian's statement, I personally think that Cao's stubbornness has done many bad things because he has such a stubborn heart. His thinking is different from ordinary people, for example, he dares to break through the shackles of tradition, challenge himself and challenge the powerful.
Perhaps as long as he has three points of certainty, Cao Cao dares to do things. Before doing anything, especially something with a little risk, an honest man will follow everything before taking action. As a result, by the time he shot, he had missed the best opportunity, but Cao Cao was not such a person.
Because of his stubborn personality, he is not afraid of anyone. He is fearless, so to speak. He can do whatever he wants, then do it, and then come back if he fails. I believe everyone remembers a saying that failure is the mother of success. How can we succeed without so many failures? Honest people are not like this.
Honest people must achieve a success rate of more than 90% before they can shoot, and they are not hard enough when they shoot. They think about it, the execution is not in place. And people like Cao Cao have a success rate of only 30%, and they have a strong purpose. They are direct, fast, ruthless, accurate and straight, and they have a greater chance of success.
In terms of mentality adjustment, an honest man may fall into a trough in his life, and once he fails, he can't stand up. Unlike Cao Cao, it doesn't matter if you fail. He will continue to stand up and fight until he succeeds. The second time, I changed my mind and came back. When it comes to face, I am undoubtedly bolder than an honest man.
We can see that Cao Cao, who was stubborn when he was a child, kept active thinking and had various innovative ideas in the process of growing up, and eventually became a lean man. Let's see what he has done: appointing people on their merits, enfeoffing Xiongnu, the battle of Guandu and relying on the emperor to be a vassal, etc. This is not something that honest people dare to do.
Mr. Yi Zhongtian thinks that a person who is too honest when he is young will have no future when he grows up. If you analyze it literally, it may be a bit biased, but after careful study, I find this view very interesting. We should learn from this sentence what is the factor of success.
We found that from ancient times to the present, the key to the success of many successful people or big coffees lies in the head above the neck. Their thinking is very innovative, they can always break through the shackles of traditional thinking, dare to challenge others, dare to challenge authority, innovate ideas and have super creativity.
If a person wants to succeed, he must learn to adapt to the society in addition to his talent. Modesty is not a bad thing, but to achieve great things, he must learn the overall situation. Only when you have a further goal in life and go all out to mobilize your potential can you achieve it. So do you dare to accept such a challenge?