Be honest. From being sensible, parents, school teachers and textbooks are all true. What I remember most clearly is that my parents and teachers often told me to be an honest boy and an honest man! And we also follow this teaching, step into the society and guide our work, life and life. At this time, we found that many things are contrary to our education. In real work and life, it is impossible to be a truly honest person, because I have experienced that telling honest words not only hurts my friends or colleagues, but also makes me sad. On the contrary, if you say something against your will, everyone will be happy; Gradually found that, in fact, at some point in life, we need some white lies to deceive and comfort ourselves, so we also need to learn to be dishonest in appropriate occasions.
The origin of the phrase "an honest man boasting" cannot be verified, and an honest man is even less valued in modern society, although everyone knows that people should be honest; Reality will always give honest people a head-on blow, and the person who "simmers sweet potatoes" is high, which will level off; Those who are "exquisite", thick-skinned and say things they don't want to say will always benefit these people. Various practical experiences and personal experiences make fewer and fewer people willing to be honest, while more and more people know how to be flexible and tell white lies. Throughout the society, almost everything has two sides: bright and dark. It is normal to think about it, because society is tolerant and the essence of human nature can be fully displayed in today's society. "Bright" may or may not be the true self; "Darkness" is the true self.
Should a person insist on honesty? Should? ! That makes sense. Dishonesty is obviously lying to deceive others, which is an immoral behavior. Shouldn't it? ! That makes sense. Obviously, sometimes dishonest words are more acceptable and interpersonal relationships are easier to get along with than honest words. To be a truly honest and kind person will be confused by the following facts.
Being an honest person is the simplest essence of human nature. But in real life, we can't be completely honest. Sometimes we have to tell white lies, but we can't abandon the truth, goodness and beauty of human nature, let alone take white lies as a habit, blurt them out and be irresponsible. That will backfire, become a real liar, lose the trust of others, and lose the foundation of being a man. Don't forget another sentence: cleverness is better than honesty.
Everyone has his own principles of life. As a fool, you can't be a completely honest person, so be a man of your word and integrity.
Being too frank and inflexible will make us frustrated in interpersonal communication and produce some inevitable misunderstandings and contradictions; But if you insist on honesty, you won't. As long as you insist on being honest with each other, you will have good interpersonal relationships and gain the trust and goodwill of others.