Recently, Xiao Fang is very upset: it's been almost two years since we broke up, and her ex-boyfriend is still harassing her and insists on getting married. Sometimes I make dozens of phone calls a day, and sometimes I run to the door of the unit to wait for her ... No matter how I explain it, the boy just won't listen. To this end, Xiaofang moved twice. This kind of person who is extremely stubborn, goes his own way and is "single-minded" will often meet in life. Severe cases can be called "paranoid personality" or "paranoid personality disorder". The manifestations of paranoia can be described as varied. Some people cling to others, some people firmly suspect that their lover is unfaithful to them, and some people even treat people around them as "imaginary enemies" to hurt them maliciously ... Paranoid people are often self-centered, self-righteous, sensitive and suspicious, and narrow-minded. They are not only unbearable, but also overreact to what ordinary people can tolerate. This kind of personality often makes it difficult to communicate with others and becomes a "big trouble" in the eyes of others. Get along with paranoid people, others will feel very tired. But what needs to be understood is that paranoid personality is often related to heredity. If we have such a person around us, we should first care about him, accompany him to participate in some social activities, deal with different people, and distract the focus of life, so as not to walk into a dead end.
When it is found that this paranoid behavior has obviously affected normal life and work, it is necessary to find a psychologist in time and encourage him to accept and adhere to long-term psychotherapy.
If you find yourself with such problems, you should reflect more and remind yourself to accept other people's opinions. In addition, the growth environment also has certain influence on the formation of paranoid personality. It is best to cultivate children's empathy from an early age and learn to be tolerant.