? I am a retired worker, and I am the grandmother of a one-and-a-half-year-old baby. I worked in finance before I retired, and I have been dealing with numbers for decades. Life is very simple, and days can be described as "copying". Our time was different from now. My ideas were conservative and I was single-minded about my work until I retired.

? After retirement, I was shocked that the first half of my life was too monotonous. So I want to change myself, make my life more complete and rich, turn boring into interesting and expand the width of my life.

? When I think like this, my whole body is full of oxygen and my life begins to be free. I decided to make all kinds of attempts, live according to my own wishes, and let my life start over.

? So I started to sign up for various classes and joined 007. If I don't write, I'm out. I will write an article every week, and I will write two comments on the comrades upstairs and downstairs every week. It's really challenging to comment on articles written by comrades upstairs and downstairs, because I don't know what topics they are writing and what opinions they are expressing. If it is an unfamiliar industry, I have to make up the basic knowledge temporarily, so that I can finish this comment seriously. Then I joined the oral Japanese group. I was busy every day, but I was very happy.

? My husband sees me busy all day and laughs at my age, so he is busy. However, my daughter was deeply influenced by me and took the initiative to apply to join 007, so the mother and daughter in life became 007 comrades. Then she volunteered to join the oral Japanese group. Suddenly, we became classmates again. The wind at home has changed, and the learning atmosphere has suddenly become stronger. We all have the same spiritual life style, and our thoughts tend to have the same frequency. After the children went to bed at night, the two of us began to practice writing and talking. At this moment, under the orange light, we became allies. We have more * * * in one language. When we exchange the same views, the spark of thinking collision makes our eyes shine, just like finding a bosom friend with each other, and our home is full of vitality.

? I like chatting with children very much. When I meet some active children, the lines of thinking unfold before my eyes like mind maps. There are trunks, branches, and a lush. I had such a happy exchange with him, I enjoyed it, I saw his present situation, I seemed to see my grandson, and I was filled with joy.

? So I turned my attention to the growth of children.

While giving children knowledge, we should also cultivate their concentration, imagination, creativity and communication skills. In the process of studying with children, we should also add the element of "art" Because life without any art is like a wilderness. If you want to live a colorful life, you must have the literacy of literature and music, listen to music, read poems, look at pictures and tell stories. Especially when telling a story, be vivid, and imitate the characters in the story with exaggerated expressions, vivid language and changeable gestures. In this way, children will be immersed in the situation, dancing and absorbing all the knowledge and truth.

? Regarding the secret of cultivating children, I agree with Qi Tianzhen's point of view: just cultivate with recognition, appreciation and love, and give rules on the basis of love.

? The ultimate goal of educating children is to let them go to the society independently, have their own independent thinking and have their own methods to solve problems.

? In this respect, I think Fan Deng has done better. I am listening to Fan Deng reading "You are the best toy for children". Fan Deng cited an example when interpreting parents' help to children: when his child Fan Yi passed the Taekwondo exam, he had to kick off a board with his foot, but he didn't kick off three feet in a row. According to the rules, he will be disqualified if he kicks three feet in a row. The coach glared at him, so he took the board and let others kick it. Fan Deng was a little flustered when he saw him standing there. At this time, there were many parents outside the door, saying, "It's over, it's over, the child is too bad to pass." Everyone is worried about him. After the exam, the examiner began to comment: "How did someone do today? Who, who and who are doing today? " Then talking about Fan Yi, before the next sentence, Fan Yi suddenly raised his hand: "Please give me another chance". At this time, the parents in the audience were stupid and looked over there: "Ah, this child can still do this!" "The examiner is also a little nervous. He didn't expect the child to say such a thing, and then Fan Yi went on to say, "I just want one chance. "The examiner hesitated there because he didn't know whether to let go. Many parents outside are whispering and saying, "Give him a chance, give him a chance! "Everyone was moved by the child. The examiner was silent there for a while and said, "Well, I'll give you a chance!" " "Fan Yi got the chance, kicked the board off and got the blue-green belt.

? After the end, Fan Deng was very happy, and other parents were also very happy, saying, "Young man, you are great!" ! At this time, Fan Deng immediately began to confirm his feelings and asked the child, "What did you feel just now?" Because you have to let him know how he feels. The child said, "The tears I just held back came out." Fan Deng asked again, "What will you do if the examiner doesn't give you this chance?" This question is very important. You should let the children know that there may be setbacks. The child said, "If you don't give me a chance, I will practice hard and take the exam next time." At this time, parents should use emotional guidance to help him learn something. Fan Deng chose to teach him how to "persist", so Fan Deng squatted down and looked into his eyes. "Dad is really satisfied with your performance just now." The child asked "why"? Fan Deng said, "What you just showed is called persistence. There are many things to give up, and it is easy to give up. If we persist hard, we may succeed. Your performance today is great, and Dad is very happy. " So he quickly learned to persist and was willing to learn knowledge. After listening to teacher Fan Deng's sharing, my heart was very moved. If parents can educate their children anytime and anywhere, what a great improvement it will bring to their children!

? The German philosopher Jaspers pointed out in What is Education that the essence of education is that a tree shakes another tree, a cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul awakens another soul. So education is not what you want to teach your children, but what are you becoming as a teacher?

? Therefore, we must continue to learn and grow up and become a role model for children. We also need to design a brand-new life mode and apply it to life, study and family to make your life orderly and colorful!

? Hehe, after retirement, my life has changed dramatically. I have new ideas and brought new actions. I feel like our family has entered the spring and started to sprout and grow, showing a kind of vitality. We start from the end, implement and practice step by step, and accomplish small goals in stages. As Teacher Li Xiaolai said, let our brain's operating system be upgraded, upgraded and then upgraded. Through repeated use, repeated pondering and repeated adjustment, we can turn some principles into tools that we can skillfully use, so as to lead a satisfactory life.