In modern society, the word "mother" is no longer a yellow-faced woman who only needs to walk around the kitchen table, but has become a professional title on an equal footing with shop assistants, managers, drivers and ticket sellers. Strictly speaking, my mother needs a certificate, and she needs to keep studying and studying. Of course, the state and society will not ask you so much. It still belongs to the category of family morality. As for how you did it, the most direct reflection is your child, who is like a mirror, clearly reflecting his mother's face.
I think, as a modern mother, you should not only take care of your children, but also take care of yourself. You should have five basic life skills to start with.
One is cooking. When you don't have children, you can have a meal at your in-laws' home, or have a drink with a group of brothers and sisters in a restaurant on the street, which is normal and enjoyable. But with a baby, I'm afraid this life will come to an abrupt end. The most nutritious and fragrant food for children is home-cooked food, which is a long and laborious marathon project. Unless the children's grandparents or grandparents are willing to devote themselves to you for decades, then this glorious mission will naturally fall on their mothers. Because there is a natural connection between mother and child, mother knows best what her baby can eat to grow the healthiest. As the saying goes, food is the most important thing for the people, and it is fundamental for children to eat well. China's food culture is extensive and profound. How to make rice fragrant and delicious and make your baby drool depends on your ability. Undoubtedly, firstly, love can create everything, and secondly, practice makes perfect. As long as you work hard and grind iron bars into needles, you can definitely become a mother-level chef. Try it if you don't believe me.
The second is shopping. Speaking of shopping, it is the biggest hobby of most women. However, shopping is also a science. How to buy good and cheap goods in the vast shopping malls is not only a science, but also an aesthetic vision, a high emotional intelligence, rather than blind consumption and so on. Probably what mom likes to buy most is children's clothes. How to dress your baby comfortably, beautifully and appropriately is the highest goal of every mother. Therefore, mothers should compare advantages and disadvantages repeatedly, pay attention to fashion trends and study shopping experience.
The third is driving. Learned to drive, for no other reason than to take her to see the distant scenery. There are sunsets, beaches, afterglow and distant horizons. There, it's just you and your baby, and of course there are many benefits of driving. I believe that experienced mothers are well aware, so I won't ramble here.
The fourth is photography. You accompany her every day, thinking that she will never grow up and will always be Bao Er in your hand. But suddenly one day, she is as tall as you. What about the little man who used to learn English? You read it again and again, and it turns out that she exists in your image, with a pure smile and lovely manners. Time is always fixed at that moment. When she grows up, I will send you photos of her childhood. That is the memory of the past days and a lifetime. This is you and her.
The fifth is writing. Record the word she said every time, the first step she took, the first time she went to school, and the silent look back when she left home for the first time. When she grows up, you can write to her and tell her about your childhood. Your love and pain, disappointment and hope, reality and ideal The most romantic thing in the world is to watch these words grow old, just like dear Andre.