Why is it a good thing to be in a contradictory situation? I once heard an old Zen master say that when you want to cross the river, you should cross it. But if you just dream in your mind and don't do anything practical, you can only go with the flow after all.
So-called? Crisis? There are dangers and opportunities. Where is your chance? Look at the sky and people. So-called? Seven people for three days? , release? Personnel? Work hard and let nature take its course. Yours Opportunity? Not far from you.
Many people have doubts, this? Opportunity? What's the use for us? In fact, it is very direct, that is, it will have an impact on your future life. Middle age, in the final analysis, is a period connecting the preceding with the following. It is not only the summary of youth, but also the foreshadowing of old age. If you can develop a few good habits in middle age, I believe that life in your later years will not be too bad.
Are people still lonely when they reach middle age? Quiet? Dejia
Dai Sheng once said: Father's loyalty, brother's sum, husband and wife's sum, family's fat. ?
A rich family with a good family style must have one characteristic, that is? Harmony? . Family harmony is naturally everything; Family decline is naturally a quarrel. Imagine, in which family will people live comfortably? There is no doubt that it must be the former.
So-called? Family, people also; A good family is also a good person. ? When people reach middle age, what is our ending? Outside, many people cheat after their predecessors, which is nothing. Home? . So, our home is family.
If a person wants to live a happy life and have a comfortable future, the most important thing is to take care of his family. Because only by stabilizing the base camp where you belong can you better seek vitality outside. However, what kind of home do you want?
Say? Harmony? It's a little vague. People can't live like this, can they? Pavilion? A virtual dream. So when people reach middle age, the most important thing is to give one to themselves? Quiet? Our home. Speaking of. Quiet? In fact, simple, simple, difficult, difficult.
The simple thing is that as long as everyone regards home as their place of belonging, they won't follow it all day? Inside the nest, outside the coward? It's not too difficult to be quiet. The difficulty is that if a family has no money, it will naturally be, but unlike those who know it, they have been poor together, and naturally it will be quarreling and decadence. So, it's really hard.
However, people still have to have a long-term vision. You know, a quiet home is good for later life. Because the family is quiet, people are quiet, and people are quiet, so happiness. Otherwise,? Make money with kindness? How did this word come from?
When people reach middle age, learn to tidy up their own? Friends circle?
As we grow older, we know more and more people, but we become more and more strangers. The people you know are either colleagues in the working relationship, or your relatives and friends, and further, some strangers who look familiar.
When you want to call someone to tell you what's on your mind, you will find a feature, that is, you can't find anyone who can tell you what's on your mind. In this world, you always need a tree hole, but if you can't find a tree hole, it only shows that no matter how many friends you have, you are not a real friend.
When people reach middle age, they have to face complicated work and trivial matters outside and ease the upcoming family conflicts at home. In the case that the burden of fate is on yourself, if you let those so-called? Friends? Interfere with it, not dig a hole for yourself?
Why are many people saying now? Break up? ? It's because things in life, people in circles, are too complicated and chaotic. If you don't tidy up and clean up, you will only surround yourself with rubbish.
There is a saying in "Augmented Xianwen": make money in the downtown area and live and work in peace and contentment. ?
People want it? Quiet? You should organize your circle of friends. Give up the house, leave it, and don't let reluctance make your life noisy and muddy. Many people have the idea that these people are their old classmates more than ten years ago and used to be good brothers and girlfriends. Should they give up this relationship?
You know, there is no connection from before to now, and this relationship is over. If they contact you again in the future, they will know that they have come to borrow money or ask for help. So, why not clear it earlier?
People reach middle age. Low profile? Be a man and earn money silently.
I have something to say: Good as water. Water is good for all things, but does not dispute; Husband is just indisputable, so there is nothing special. ?
What is a person like in this life? Like what? Water? Just so-so Sometimes it gallops, sometimes it slowly moves eastward, sometimes it thunders, and sometimes it is as calm as a mirror. What are the characteristics of water? That's it? Low profile? And full of momentum. You know, water can nourish everything and control everything.
When people reach middle age, the most important thing is to learn whether to live a chic life or a comfortable old age. Low profile? Make money. Why do you say that? To be nourished, you must have money to help your family better. Pension? Pave the way. But what is a low profile? Just to keep you away from the vision of the villain and let life go out? Smart? People can't see clearly, so that they can better protect themselves.
No matter what stage you go, keeping a low profile is a compulsory course in life. As the saying goes:? Right and wrong are just for talking more, and troubles are for being strong. ? People care too much, too high-profile, and it's over. Everyone must be wrong? It's over.
If you are stared at and pestered by the trivial things of idle people, you can't make money silently. So, why talk about getting rich and planning your own life?
When people reach middle age, the most important thing is to earn money, because without money, there will be no food and no good life. What is most needed is a low profile. You're keeping a low profile to keep you here? To protect ourselves? Love, don't let the villain peep, also don't let strangers covet, so as to get through this smoothly? Confused? Stage.
When people reach middle age, they should give up unnecessary alcohol and social intercourse.
Many friends around me are complaining that they didn't want to attend the dinner party or the cocktail party, but because they couldn't keep their face and refused, they went every time. Every time they came home, they were drunk and hurt their health.
When I heard my friend's complaints, I was actually very emotional. In fact, no one wants to attend such a dinner, but they have to attend. On the one hand, it is a kind invitation from others, on the other hand, it is a work need. If you attend, naturally no one will say anything, but if you don't attend, you can only be gossiped behind your back, which is embarrassing.
But why do you advocate doing it now? Subtraction? ? It is because of too many unnecessary trifles. If you keep pestering yourself with such an unnecessary dinner, what will you lose in the end? Is the foundation of human beings? Healthy.
If you want to be safe and smooth in your later years, the first thing is to ensure your strong and healthy body. So you can travel around the world and taste human food everywhere without some influence? Things? Constraints and constraints.
There is a saying like this:? The best time to change a thing is yesterday, followed by now. ? Many people feel that they have participated in so many wine bureau dinners. Can they really change? To tell the truth, as long as a person is still thinking about his health, he will definitely reduce the number of times he attends dinner parties.