In fact, mother-in-law can never be equated with daughter-in-law, and daughter-in-law can never be equated with daughter-in-law. They are not related by blood, so there is room in their hearts. Daughter-in-law should not be too casual with her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law should not be too harsh with her daughter-in-law. Some selfish mother-in-law, when her son and daughter-in-law are in conflict, pull the box, even if her son is wrong first, she still protects her son, making family conflicts worse. But my mother-in-law is generous, rational, considerate and fair to people and things.

I remember more than ten years ago, my husband liked to drink with three or five people and play with other women. I was so angry that I complained to my mother-in-law. I also criticized my mother-in-law and said, "Look at what scum you are raising." . Mother-in-law said, daughter, adopted son can only raise the body and control the heart. The mother-in-law was very angry and scolded her husband. With such a sensible mother-in-law, I am deeply ashamed of my rude words, and my anger is half gone. My mother-in-law is not a scapegoat. How can I impose my husband's fault on my mother-in-law? My mother-in-law and I immediately adjusted our state, formed a United front, and studied the next battle plan with the same tone. Mother-in-law is an elder, so we should respect and be humble. After all, my mother-in-law is very different from us, and it is normal to have some different views. We should learn to take a step back. If there is a problem, we must find out the nature of the problem. If it is our own fault, we should admit it.

If it's the mother-in-law's fault, we shouldn't be unreasonable and unforgivable. After all, the thinking and way of thinking of people in that era are very different from those of modern young people, but one thing is certain. They also hope that our younger generation will do well. When dealing with a powerful and bossy mother-in-law, please always remember that her son is his family and you are a guest.

There is nothing wrong with being polite to each other Avoid too intimate behavior, distance produces beauty. For her words, we should show a modest learning attitude and satisfy her vanity and self-esteem. A good mother-in-law is a good teacher. Mother-in-law's behavior reflects a family style. She won't interfere too much in the lives of young people. She will lend a helping hand when the children need help. In this relationship, she will not be kidnapped by morality. Her daughter-in-law doesn't need to be kidnapped by an unreasonable "mother-daughter" relationship. Everyone gets along naturally and there is no pressure.