The premise of longevity is to take care of yourself and not disturb others. Otherwise, as Confucius said, longevity is humiliating. "Humiliation" means loss of dignity.

What is the responsibility? It is the greatest responsibility not to drag down children when you are old. As children, there is nothing that you don't want your parents to be happy and healthy. It is more important to reassure children than to give them any material conditions and financial help! Buddha said: The more parents give their children, the less blessings they get. I don't know how many parents are enlightened!