The woman who really pays for herself is the one who really deserves to love herself.
Sincerely pay for you, will not deceive you (white lies do not count), care about you. If she is excellent, she is the first in front of others and the second in front of herself. Such a woman must pay sincere love.
The woman who doesn't force you to do things you don't like is the most lovable.
Lovely woman, but don't have too many shortcomings to reassure people and be sincere to yourself.
Love is always more beautiful than reality, when we meet, and when we say goodbye. We think that love is deep, deep ... the years to come will let you know that it is only very shallow, very shallow ... The deepest and heaviest love must grow with time. Because of love, two strangers can suddenly meet and sleep in the same bed. However, the same two people said when they broke up, I think you are getting more and more strange. Love makes two people from strange to familiar, and from familiar to strange. Love is a game that turns a pair of strangers into lovers and a pair of lovers into strangers. I believe that love can change a person, which is the benefit of youth and the sorrow of youth. A prodigal son is always a prodigal son. What changes a man may be the love of God or the compassion of Buddha, but it will never be a woman. The prodigal son is the least suitable for marriage, and the prodigal son is the most suitable for marriage. It is often not a woman who changes a prodigal son, but a woman who just appears when the prodigal son wants to change. A man's life, but do two things to a woman: better than she imagined, worse than she imagined. A woman forgives his bad with his good. If one day they can't be together, it's not that he is too bad, but that she is too good. In our life, we should remember what we should forget. Memory exists in cells, in the body and will never be separated from the body. Destroying it is equivalent to burning everything. However, some things must be forgotten, forget the pain, forget the harm that the person you love the most has done to you, and that's all. Time will let you know about love, time can prove love, and it can also overthrow love. There is no kind of sadness that time cannot alleviate. If time can't make you forget those people you shouldn't remember, what's the point of our lost years? Wouldn't it be great if all the sadness, pain and failure were false? Unfortunately, there are many false feelings and false meanings in the world, but their pain, failure and sadness are always real. He has thousands of advantages, but he doesn't love you, which is a shortcoming that you can never convince yourself to accept. A person's greatest weakness is not selfish, affectionate, savage and willful, but paranoid love for someone who doesn't love himself. Secret love is a kind of self-destruction and a great sacrifice. Secret love doesn't even need a date. We just stand by and watch the river, look at our reflection and feel sorry for ourselves, but we think we are in love with someone else. Love, like love songs, has the highest reverberation. The saddest thing is not revenge, but regret The best love is bound to have regrets. That regret has become a lingering sound, so we should pay attention to it. The most beautiful love, don't cry for the land, just care for each other silently. Disappointment, sometimes, is a kind of happiness I will be disappointed because I have expectations. Regret is also a kind of happiness Because there are things you regret. Pursuing love, and then finding love, has always been a thousand times. The most romantic love is not available. The most romantic love story is when someone who has broken up with you calls and asks, "How are you?" Your usual answer: "I'm fine." In fact, you still love him, and you are not good at all. Men pretend to be strong, but they are afraid of being found weak by women. A woman pretends to be happy, but in fact she is afraid that a man will find her sad. Love, sometimes, is a sinking thing. The so-called reason and determination are just ridiculous words to comfort themselves. Love has always been a bondage, and the pursuit of love does not mean the pursuit of freedom. Freedom is precious, and we exchange this most precious thing for love. Because I love someone and know that I will lose my freedom, I am willing to make a promise. Commitment is used to counter all changes. Change is eternal, and we can only restrict the change of the world with eternal promises. What can't last forever is not a promise. Commitment is very expensive, if you respect your personality. Love has security and insecurity. Love is a shock, a sense of powerlessness. Love is temptation, and only love can give you the strength to resist temptation. Love is loyalty, but love can also make you betray. A person is ungrateful, perhaps because he has a bad memory. He forgot, so he can be ungrateful; He didn't forget it because of ingratitude. He didn't completely forget the past, but his memory was so poor that the past was no longer profound, and he was soon replaced by new memories, only remembering the laughter of the new couple and forgetting the smiling faces of the old ones. Love and nostalgia are two different things. A man can't forget his old lover. He must have hurt her in the past years, and he can't make up for that mistake. When you know it's irreversible, the only way to compensate is to miss her and punish yourself with the memory of her. Deep self-righteousness is nothing but self-deception. Women who know love usually lose badly. Love is cruel and the winner is king. Feelings can be transferred, marriage can be frozen at any time, * * * can be overdrawn, and love sells for a good price. Yes, this is our life in this small city. Let's go out together today and do my best. The safest and most timely way is to be with yourself. The most beautiful state of a coin is not static, but when it rotates like a top, no one knows whether the side that is about to turn out is happy or painful, love or hate. Happiness and pain, love and hate are always intertwined. The so-called fate, like invention, comes from accident. Love is also an invention, which needs constant improvement. However, this invention is different from other inventions. It has no patent right and will be taken away at any time. The more afraid of losing, the easier it is to lose. The more you want it, the more you have to put it down. It's hard to let go, but there is no choice. There are many things in the world that can be redeemed, such as conscience and weight. But there are more irreversible things, such as old dreams, such as years, such as feelings for a person. It is not painful to give up someone who loves you very much, but painful to give up someone who loves you very much. Food can have a label that says "Please eat before this". Women are not food, youth has a time limit, and so does patience. Please love her and take good care of her before the time limit expires, because she has no time. Everything has its time, so does hugging, and so does love. Love comes and goes. Love always expires unconsciously. One day, when we took it out, we found that its freshest days had passed forever. The saddest moment in love is the later indifference. A person who once loved you is suddenly far away from you, just a stone's throw away, but it is the end of the world. Once vigorous, ever ever-changing, ever complacent, ever heartbroken. Finally, the saddest breakup turned out to be silence. There is separation when we meet, but everyone is afraid of separation. As we all know, the last parting is death. We say "all good things must come to an end", but we are reluctant to drink the wine in our hands. We want to sing another song and sing another song. Can you not go? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Such a question is lovely.
I think, when you really love someone, you will think that she is an angel. Everything about her is perfect. She is the person you want to cherish most in your life. You think because I love her, everything is worth it. It's hard for you to spend money. I like it.
But one day, for various reasons, you stopped loving her. At this time, you will feel that everything you have done for her is unnecessary.
Because without love, you will feel worthless.
If you love her, don't care who gives more. Love can't be measured by scales.
So there is no value, only love or not.
1. Kind. The most important quality of a woman should be kindness, and all virtues are filial first. I wonder, how many bad men are suffering from the splint between their daughter-in-law and their biological mothers? If the girl who will be my daughter-in-law dares to ask me, "Your mother and I fell into the river, who will you save first?" I will definitely send her away. Not a person at all! 2. virtuous. This is an eternal female virtue. 3. Be knowledgeable and polite. This is the requirement of the new era for women to keep pace with the times. Women's temperament and upbringing are the inspiration to enrich their hearts, and also the place to really distance themselves from others. 4. Have thought and taste. Thinking made her disdain to interfere in other people's gossip. She has always been an insulator. Good taste enables her to express her style creatively. 5. sensible. The most important thing for a man is dignity. She can attack me at home, but she cannot satirize or laugh at me in public. A woman who doesn't know how to protect her husband's dignity doesn't matter. 6. Complete trust and relative freedom. In fact, it is human instinct to like the new and hate the old. No one can guarantee that he will only have a crush on one person in his life. Advise all women who are going to get married in the world to study medical psychology attentively, fully understand her husband's hobby of staring at pictorial and beautiful women on the web, and don't be picky because of these subconscious behaviors. Otherwise, it will push the marriage to death. He wanted to be alone for a while without asking questions, so he took a cup of tea and closed the door gently. 7. Have a stable income. Only when women live independently of men can they be independent and self-respecting. 8. There is not much material desire. This is very important! From frugality to luxury since ancient times. I can't let my wife see everything. It's not that I'm poor and don't like her! Besides, her complacent and optimistic nature enabled her to continue her youth. Excessive vanity often makes men who are not "rich" nervous and even at a loss. My daughter-in-law should be able to ride a BMW and a bicycle; Stay in a five-star hotel, don't dislike camping tents, and suffer a little to be the host. 9. Reject luxury and don't be too enthusiastic about the opposite sex. She has a good habit of living. Smoking and drinking all night will not happen to her, nor will she kill time in bars and nightclubs. She knows that her value is not to please the opposite sex, so she won't take the initiative to talk to other men. It's Chun Xue. 10. Naivety is a bit childlike. If a man really likes a woman, he should take care of her innocence to the greatest extent. A woman who has not lost her childlike interest can make her long and boring eyes enjoy it relatively. 1 1. Like reading and music. Like reading is not reading colorful fashion magazines, and like music is not a pop ditty that you forget after listening to it. Classic books and music can make the triviality of years and life leave no trace in her mind. 12. Strong working ability and skills. Working women obviously don't have much time to doubt. Having a skill will make her enjoy herself and control her emotions well. 13. pleasing to the eye, of course, must not be ugly or too beautiful. It should be the kind that looks pleasing to the eye. 14. Health. And know health and basic medical knowledge. 15. Fun. One more thing is very important. Marriage is a colorful, interesting and dynamic world. It is hard to imagine that a woman who is not romantic and interesting is a good wife.
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When another woman fell in love with him, he fell in love with her. She said with a smile while drinking the tea in the cup, it doesn't matter, she can wait. She finally waited until he broke up with the woman he loved, but he didn't believe that love was forever. From then on, he separated love from women, and the women around him changed again and again. No relationship can last. The enthusiasm in her heart gradually cooled down. One night he was drunk, he knocked on her door, and she made him kudingcha. He only took one sip and refused to take the second. That kind of pain is unbearable for him. He doesn't know her hobbies, and she says this kind of tea should be tasted slowly. After the bitterness, there will be a fragrant sweetness lingering in my heart. Like her love for him. He avoided her eyes. She felt that the sadness in her heart flooded her like a rising tide. He still doesn't love her. She always knew. And she thought that as long as she waited, she wouldn't ask him for love. When he is finally tired, he will stay with her and fall in love with her bit by bit. But he ran away from her love. She finally found a reason to leave him for herself. She decided to accept another man's love waiting for her. She knows that this man loves her as much as she loves him. The only difference is that his waiting has a result and her waiting is over. He was a little surprised to receive her wedding invitation. The beaming red suddenly turned into dazzling light in his eyes, which made him cry. He didn't understand why he was crying. He should feel lucky that a woman he didn't love left him. However, he felt a wound in his heart, except pain. On her wedding day, he sat alone in the corner of the teahouse and asked for a pot of Kuding tea to take the first sip, or a second sip with bitterness that he could not accept. The bitterness faded slightly, and after drinking the third sip, he finally realized the sweetness she said. And her love for him. From then on, he fell in love with Kudingcha, but she didn't know it! Close your eyes and it won't fall off! Just as you don't say' I love you', I won't cry!