I have wanted a child for many years, but I can't get it. After having this baby, I can say that I have worked hard and devoted myself wholeheartedly. When you fall into a state, you actually enter the so-called common sense that "the authorities are fascinated and the bystanders are clear." You are satisfied with everything your child needs. Go out to the party, feel sorry for the children, and spend some money on yourself.

When you are immersed in this state, it is easy to fall into the early stage of so-called postpartum depression unconsciously. I am nervous about everything about my children, doubting myself and denying myself. At this time, you need to do other things. I'm not talking about reducing your love for children, but that your life is not all babies.

You know, only by taking care of yourself can you take better care of your children. You know, we don't want to be the ceiling for children to grow up.

If the relationship between you and your husband is getting more and more alienated because of your untidiness and self-improvement, it will cause problems in marriage, which is the greatest harm to children;

If you get sick because you neglect yourself, will you be unable to take care of your children at this time?

If you are divorced from society because you only pay attention to this matter, won't it gradually become the ceiling of children?

After all, our life is made up of many elements. The child is the most important part of our life, but he will grow up one day, and we can only watch him from a distance.

You still have to run your own life. If you don't take good care of yourself now, won't you regret it when you are old and have no chance to love yourself?

Author: Calm Thorn Birds

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More than a dozen elderly drivers in the insurance industry focus on insurance and financial management, rather than parenting. Internationally certified CWMA wealth manager.