I remember that when young people first entered the workplace, they were still a new force in the workplace. As a young man in the workplace, I am still a little shy when I am called Xiao Zhang and Xiao Wang. However, now the years after graduation will wash away the lead from you at the fastest speed, and the imprint of the campus is being ruthlessly washed away by the years. When I first started working, the leader said that working overtime was not only full of energy, but also fierce competition. But after working for several years, do you still have the energy to move forward? I used to work overtime to catch up with materials and stay in hotels on business trips. I feel that I have the pleasure of traveling around the world, but when I stay in the hotel and am busy writing materials on the train and plane to catch up with PPT, you will find that going out is not as beautiful as I imagined when I was a student. Even when I return to the company, overtime is a common occurrence. I have never heard of overtime pay, but the duration of overtime work is constantly extending. A hectic life gives people a sense of fear that there is only work besides work.

When you get through the most jittery and thin years, you will find that sending invoices and newspapers is the most handy job you can do. Gradually, a sense of workplace anxiety will come to mind. On the one hand, it is a sense of crisis in the workplace. The work content is often far from your major, and the things you do are extremely complicated, but the sense of accomplishment is extremely poor. I finally did one thing, only to find myself at the bottom of the workplace, and my achievements are often led by myself. Make a New Year's resolution at the beginning of each year. There seems to be some heat in the first three days. However, a week later, the plan of that year had already been thrown outside the cloud nine. I bought a lot of books, but most of them just opened a cover and read the first few pages. Go home every night, turn on the TV, and go into a state of complete absence. I may not do anything except Ge You. This is the norm for most newcomers in the workplace. You are not new to the company, but you are still at the bottom of the company. Many people say that their qualifications are older than you, and their abilities are still immature. Young people who have just joined the job have an advantage over you. For a while, you will find yourself useless and always want to change jobs. This is the job anxiety of middle-aged people in the workplace.

Second, from life struggle to living to support the family

When they first entered the company, most people held their own illusions and felt that they had a vast world and made great achievements. However, after two or three years, they will find that what they can do is so limited. Once, their great ambition was only a small matter in their own world. Every morning, they get up before dawn to squeeze into the subway and stay on the subway for more than 30 minutes or even longer. Even if they are lucky enough to go to work by bike, they have already done so. However, as the person at the bottom of the unit, your income may not always increase. Apart from work clothes and school clothes, it may be better to open the closet. The most decent clothes may be the formal clothes prepared for finding a job just before graduation, but now I don't know how much dust I have eaten.

Your biggest feeling may be the huge gap between the expectation of living in the city and the ruthless reality. When I first moved into the rental house, I bought a whole set of tableware, but after a few years, I found that I might not use much. When I pay my salary every month, I don't have the excitement when I first started paying my salary. I calculated silently, deducted the rent, water and electricity, and there may be nothing left except eating. When I finally got an account in the city, or a residence permit, thinking that I could buy a house and avoid being bossed around by renters, I looked back at the house price and my savings. The biggest feeling is to go back to rent. I was so excited about Ma Yun's Double Eleven that I snapped up orders overnight. But now, I have no desire to buy things. I used to think that the flower garden with 2000 yuan was very happy, but now I think the credit card with100000 is the same, because the credit line is only a means of monthly turnover. The meaning of your life goes from living, from struggling to living, and that's it.

Third, from happy life to leftover men and women

It was really a happy and comfortable life when I first started working. After work, I had a drink with three or five friends, and I finally lived happily. That kind of feeling is like the pleasure of eating a big piece of meat and drinking a lot in the Water Margin. But with the progress of the work, the work is getting busier and busier, and there are fewer and fewer parties. You have learned to pretend to be a snake and talk to everyone, but you have long lost your quick-talking lifestyle. On weekends and holidays, I found myself surrounded by red bombs. As long as the invitations from friends and classmates in senior one and senior fifteen are like snowflakes, more than half of my salary may turn into money, and I worry about my increasingly empty wallet every weekend and holiday. However, this is not the worst. Every time I go home, my third aunt, seventh aunt and eighth aunt will "care" about your love career, and even rush to arrange a blind date for you, making the holiday look like an execution ground.

I have been a bridesmaid and best man many times, and I may not get flowers once. When all my friends around me started their own families, I realized that I was the one left behind. Finally, one day, the old moon was merciful and Cupid appeared. You were shot by an arrow. After a rough ride, you finally walked into the wedding hall, only to find that seven things to open the door, rice, oil, salt and vinegar tea, can no longer squander your youth as you did when you were young. At home, on the one hand, you work hard to earn money to support your family, on the other hand, the question you deal with every day is "Who will wash the dishes?" "Who will mop the floor?" Such trifles. However, this is not over yet. When you go home for the Spring Festival or get together with relatives and friends, everyone will say that when your mother is your age, you can make soy sauce. ...

Fourth, from being tireless to going to bed early.

For the post-90s generation, the biggest fear is undoubtedly that even watching TV CCTV5 calls for the post-90s and post-90s generation battlefield veterans, and the childhood stars are either old or out of breath. When I was happy, I could go to KTV with my friends all night. When I am unhappy, I will pull three or five friends to talk about my life ideals all night, even in the school cafeteria every day, but now you must pay attention to going to bed early today, or you will doze off at work tomorrow. I used to work overtime for several days, but now my eyes are red and swollen after staying up late. What I care about in the canteen every day is not whether there is meat, but whether there is food today. What kind of fruit is this? It's not easy to get fat if you eat anything. Then you find that wrinkles have appeared and your hair is getting less and less. Every morning, you look at yourself in the mirror and wonder if you may be old before you get old. However, before you get old, you don't have to worry about aging. You must learn the phrase "early to bed and early to keep fit" that killed Li Huatuo in the Three Kingdoms.

I'm sorry, after the 90s, you have reached middle age. Put away your's small temper, let yourself accept this fact, work hard and get married as soon as possible. After all, Confucius said that you are thirty years old.