1. The old man was sent to a nursing home by his children after he fell. Grandma Sun, 9 1 year-old in Shanghai, has three sons and one daughter, because the old man lived alone after his wife died. Later, because I accidentally fell, I was treated in the hospital and was sent directly to the nursing home by my child when I was discharged from the hospital. After recuperating in the nursing home, the old man originally wanted to go home, but his children refused.
Although there are people in nursing homes to take care of, for the elderly, there is no doubt that there is no personal freedom like imprisonment. At the same time, the old man has recovered well, and it is no problem for him to take care of himself. Because the life in the nursing home is boring, Grandma Sun's desire to go home is urgent.
Second, strong personality and children can't get along. According to grandma's description, it means grandma is too strong to live together. Moreover, the nursing home is also to ensure the life of the elderly. Grandma Sun's children come to see her with a lot of things every week, but they refuse to go home.
In Grandma Sun's view, if she really wants to live such a boring life without freedom of life, then Grandma Sun thinks she will be very painful, so the old man also hides a lot of sleeping pills. If you can't go home, the old man will choose to die.
Third, personal views For children, sending the elderly to nursing homes may be a once-and-for-all solution. After all, it doesn't need children to take care of it, and it also ensures the safety of the elderly. For the elderly, the life in the nursing home is very lonely. Because of the loss of freedom, it is very painful for the elderly who long for freedom.
If the elderly are unhappy in the nursing home, their children can take them home to take care of them. If there is no one to take care of at home, you can actually hire a nanny. In this case, not only the elderly are happy, but also the children need not worry about the physical problems of the elderly.