This is a message from a married woman, and many people left their feelings to praise. So why do more and more people choose not to get married now, or even if they get married, they will choose Dink? What the hell are they thinking? Let's hear what they have to say.
Xiaoli, 1, 32 years old, said that I didn't want to get married, and I didn't want to work hard for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the relationship between husband and wife and raising children. I want to live for myself and the people I love.
Xiaoli, 32, said, I feel very happy now. My parents used to urge me to get married, but now they don't. When I am free, I will take my parents around and enjoy life with them.
The sisters around me are either crying about how her mother-in-law bullied her today, or crying about her husband tomorrow, or yelling at the children. Why don't you go to the online class? It's tiring to watch and listen, and life has no quality.
Xiaoli said, I don't want to get married, it doesn't matter to anyone. Anyone can say whatever they want. I am happy anyway. I have been selfish all my life, living only for myself and my parents who love me. While my parents are in good health, I will take them out to play and enjoy life. As for what to do when I am old, the society is getting more and more progress, and I don't have to worry about things for decades, just live the present.
2. Sister Zhou, 56, said that although I have a daughter, if her daughter chooses not to get married and have children, I will not rush her. After all, society is different now.
56-year-old Zhou Jie, his wife passed away very early. Many enthusiastic people introduced her, but she didn't agree. She thinks she's fine alone. With a house and a pension, there is no need for marriage to protect anything.
Zhou Jie's daughter is 30 years old after graduation. Many people will ask Zhou Jie if she is in a hurry. Her daughter is too old to find anyone to marry. Zhou Jie said that no matter what, it is good for her daughter to be happy.
Sister Zhou said that women have been working hard all their lives for their children, their families and the elderly. Only better people can get the understanding and respect of their families. Many people have worked hard all their lives and have not been treated well.
As for providing for the elderly, I have already agreed with my daughter that I will go with dignity, and I don't have to put so many tubes in my body, so I can live without consciousness and quality. You might as well let me go happily
3, 45-year-old Lao Li said, what age, and the idea of raising children to prevent old age, look at those who have no children, how chic they live.
Lao Li, 45, whose son is in high school, is also experiencing adolescent rebellion, which makes Lao Li a headache. No matter what he says or does, his son just ignores him. He should still play truant and ask for money. He was so angry that Lao Li almost vomited blood.
Lao Li is very envious of his classmates now. The couple have no children and their family conditions are very good. They live in a big house and drive a good car. They often go to various places to play. In their spare time, they will go to Tai Chi Health Center to practice Tai Ji Chuan.
Some people will say that childless people can only go to nursing homes when they are old. Lao Li said, we have a son. Can you really count on your son to support your old age? When I was a child, I was worried about my child's growth. When I grow up, I worry about my study. After I worked, I bought them a house and got married. When they settle down, we have to take care of their children when we are old. Finally, we also have to go to a nursing home. Nowadays, children expect too little, and being old is filial piety.