Everyone is familiar with the sentence "What folk songs are sung on what hills". This means that people should decide to do corresponding things according to objective reality, and at what age they should do things at this age, and they should not cross the line. Talking to others means that if you don't follow the normal life track and cheat, then you will be regarded as "different" in people's eyes, isolated and laughed at.
Here, I'm going to bang on the blackboard three times. The derailment mentioned here is beyond the normal life track. Don't think too much.
In real life, some women who cheat in pursuit of freedom and happiness not only don't make people laugh, but also live a wonderful, noble and tasteful life, which makes people envy.
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Recently, an 88-year-old grandmother named Jiang Bin lived a better life than young people and made the Internet popular.
Grandma Jiang is very wild. In order to travel around the world, she sold her house and used her retirement salary as a travel fund. She experienced glacier rafting in New Zealand, climbed snow-capped mountains by helicopter in Switzerland and flew to South Africa, flying continuously for 18 hours. ...
Grandma Jiang is a great person. Every time she goes to a place to play, she will taste all the local food, take all the beautiful scenery on her mobile phone, and then post the food and beautiful scenery in the WeChat circle of friends, so that friends can witness that she has left a chic and comfortable figure around the world.
Grandma Jiang is also very cool. She often orders online to buy snacks for herself. Going out to buy a dish is also called a drip cart. When she is in a good mood, she sends a WeChat red envelope, and some mobile phone software that young people like is also familiar to her.
Many people unconsciously exclaimed: "Are you an 88-year-old Mi Shou granny or a 18-year-old beautiful girl?"
Although Grandma Jiang is 88 years old and wrinkled, she has the mentality of a girl of 18 years old, which is the magic weapon for her to live more and more wonderfully. Generally speaking, after retirement, the elderly will take care of their children and grandchildren at home, or plant flowers and fish for the elderly, or even wait passively for the death of their lives. Grandma Jiang is not ordinary people. She just doesn't play by common sense. She jumped out of the normal life track in the eyes of the world, dared to think what young people love to think and dare to do what young people love to do.
Who says that youth belongs only to young people, and the days of getting old can be wonderful. As long as there is a dream in your heart, no one can stop chasing it. Jump out of the routine and let yourself go. The splendor of life really has nothing to do with age.
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Liu Xiaoqing, a famous actress, has experienced many ups and downs. Even if she lives in the lowest valley of her life, she doesn't follow the so-called conventional path defined by most people. Her life is far more noble than Empress Dowager Cixi and Empress Wu Zetian.
When I was in primary school, in my ideal writing class, my classmates all wrote that when I grow up, I want to be a hardworking engineer, a soldier who dares to sacrifice, and a dung digger who is not afraid of smelly and dirty ... At that time, people's thoughts were unified and the atmosphere in every corner was the same.
However, she didn't follow the routine. She followed her heart and wrote down her wish: my ideal is to be an actor, and at the end of the performance, I can get thunderous applause and flowers. You know, this idea is very dangerous, and it is "petty bourgeoisie" and "low taste", but she still bravely made herself, true and not artificial.
Later, when her career was in full swing, she retired from the business world and became the first group of rich people in China after the reform and opening up, with a net worth of $70 million to $90 million, becoming a "billionaire sister".
There were many loopholes and gaps in the revision and improvement of China's tax law at that time. In 2000, Liu Xiaoqing was arrested on suspicion of tax evasion by several of his companies, and began a 422-day prison life.
Usually, from world celebrities to prisons, the lethality of this gun is huge enough to destroy a person and even make life die instantly. Most people will curse fate and ask God-why me! However, Liu Xiaoqing faced up to the reality, walked out of the thinking track of ordinary people with amazing perseverance, and began to learn English every day, taking 8,000 steps every morning and taking a cold bath every day. She said, "I just use this time to read and write."
After Liu Xiaoqing was released from prison, in 20 13 years, she did not covet other people's money bags and married Wang Xiaoya, a wealthy Hong Kong businessman. At this time, Liu Xiaoqing, already a grandmother, showed the beauty of women and lived a noble life.
No matter who you are, you should not be bound by traditional views. It is our mission to pursue beauty and nobility all our life. Because the best time is not 18 years old, and the noblest life is not exclusive to someone. When you follow your heart and try to be a better self, you will live a noble life.
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Magic fairy fish is my classmate in an online study class, engaged in the beauty and health care industry, and her husband is a leading cadre in the army. When she first fell in love, the army leaders thought that her husband should marry a suitable cadre, or at least an employee in the system, and she was just a working girl in a barber shop. After the leader's earnest talk, the husband was under great psychological pressure and unhappy for a while.
Indeed, in the secular world, people all agree that marriage is appropriate. But the magic fairy fish doesn't want to die of this real feeling. She wants to bravely jump out of this stereotype and strive for happiness for herself. She wants to challenge the secular: nothing is static!
Since then, she has worked harder to improve her literacy, signed up for several classes online and opened a cosmetics store to make herself compatible with her husband materially and spiritually.
After unremitting study and struggle, she became the first local person in Beijing to get the certificate of professional masseur and scrapping doctor (with professional medical knowledge). /kloc-during the struggle of 0/0 years, she opened 6 stores and took many professional certificates. Even after giving birth to a child and being a housewife for three years, she didn't slack off, took the national self-study exam and got a college diploma. After joining a world-class cosmetics brand chain store last year, she trained three young partners without foundation, which not only led them to achieve an annual salary of 654.38 million, but also passed the standard assessment of the company's free travel to London.
In this way, she didn't take the secular road, and didn't let traditional thoughts bind herself. She fought against her fate and finally stood out among many family members who were attached to the army. The heroine who was talking to her husband at that time looked at her with new eyes. She not only became her loyal customer, but also praised her and said, "Your husband is so lucky to find a man like you as his wife."
Her husband commented on her like this: "You are a person who keeps getting extra points. At first, it feels ordinary, but the more you get along with it, the more different it will be. " Many women are 10 when they first meet, and with the deepening of getting along, they will get married and have children, and gradually drop to six points. And you started with six points, and then gradually rose to ten points. The more you look at it, the more interesting it becomes. "
If your husband is not good, then you must grow up, because you have nothing to rely on. If your husband is excellent, you must grow up, because only by sharing the same frequency with him can you walk side by side and be harmonious and warm on the road of life.
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Cheating has so many benefits, woman, is it budding? Action is better than action. Taking advantage of the arrival of the March 8 Goddess Day, I derailed without hesitation. Listen to your heart and be informal. You can buy a thousand yuan skirt or put down a high imitation. You can have an expensive cup of coffee in an elegant cafe, or you can buy a pancake at a roadside stall while eating. ...
I hope all women will live brighter, nobler and more tasteful, and live up to their limited life time and become old fairies.