Seeing your question, I am actually full of doubts, because your description is not clear. I don't know if you feel inferior and uneasy because your parents are old. Or is it because I think my parents are old that I went to college, so I can't take time off to take care of them and be filial?

I hope it is the latter. I hope you are afraid that time flies, that you still have a family and career, and that you don't have enough time to be filial to your parents.

First of all, father and daughter raised us young and we raised them old, which is the inheritance of filial piety culture and the fine traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.

Filial piety, regardless of age, is the best time and the beginning as long as it is realized.

You can call your parents more when you are not at home, spend more time with your parents when you go home and help them do something.

Secondly, this question deeply touched me, and I think it also warned many parents-whether to continue to have a second child at an advanced age.

It's always a great event. While rejoicing, we should also think deeply about the harm of old age to women's health and whether children are willing to accept a parent who is so much older than other children's parents.

Just like many children, they feel that there is a big age gap between them and their parents and children, so they feel inferior, and then there are many personality problems.

Finally, for whatever reason, accept the reality and your parents from the bottom of your heart, no matter what they are.

Everyone is old, and every child meets his parents when they are old. We should accept it frankly. In every day, it is enough not to miss the day of filial piety.

I think more children will face such problems in the ten years after the liberalization of the second child policy. Two years after the release of the second child, many 70-year-old people are fighting for a second child, and I am one of them. When I was 42, I gave birth to Bauer. When Bauer was 20, I was 62 and my husband was 64. Both children's houses are ready. I want to sell 200 million yuan as a down payment for their separate marriage and new house. This is a precaution that parents prepare for their children in advance. My husband and I both want to exercise hard and be healthy, and try not to cause trouble to our two children when we are old.

Maybe you met your older parents ten or even twenty years earlier than others, but doesn't this remind you to cherish every day when your parents are here?