The reputation of the reunion is getting worse every year, and it has become notorious. Class reunion is called bragging convention, comparison convention, drinking contest, buttering up convention, etc. In fact, there is no need to get together at the class reunion. After all, it's a mixed bag. It is possible that those who should have come didn't come, and those who shouldn't have come. This is bound to be an impulse and come back in frustration. If the party is held in a small area, the location, people and time of the party can be easily controlled.

1. Individual students often take eating and drinking seriously, and when it comes to checkout, they either find an excuse to leave early or shirk. Individual students try every time, holding the idea of not eating or drinking for nothing, not for the sake of classmates' friendship, but for the sake of food. But every time I decide to check out separately before the next party, individual students can't call even if they call. Presumably, people who have attended class reunion have experienced similar classmates more or less.

Second, since graduation, students have been separated all the year round. Different life experiences will lead to different values. Simplicity, different aspirations and incompatibility with Tao are no longer the norm. Even if you have face and brains, you won't get along. It's polite to say hello. After the opening remarks, you will never have anything to say. The atmosphere is dignified and embarrassing, which is tantamount to wasting time directly and life indirectly. You have been to a similar class reunion. I certainly don't want to participate in the second time, especially if the enemy will meet in a narrow way. As the saying goes, it's not that enemies don't get together, and they are likely to meet enemies who miss the past. Whether they are jealous or not, they will be unhappy in the end.

Third, in the past, my classmates were all at the same starting line and had a good impression, even if it was not good, it was not bad. This impression is equivalent to a static graduation photo. When they meet again after a long separation, some good students will compete with each other everywhere. Now the differentiation of all aspects of life will become the material for comparison. In short, it is invincible, and it is not excluded that some boastful students are out of thin air or bluffing. Class reunion will not only affect the mentality, but also affect the mood.

Fourth, people who organize class reunions are likely to be in a dilemma. Students who mix well are worried about being stuck, and even if they are called, they are likely to refuse directly or indirectly. Students who don't mix well may not be called even if they want to, and those who don't mix well may still disdain to go to school. After all, they may be the object of ridicule or satire. Few students really attend the reunion. Anyway, instead of going to a boring party.