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F Speaking of a female relative, she had a good family in her early years. She was not yet 30 when her husband died of illness. She took three children with her, never remarried, and raised them wholeheartedly. She is polite to her relatives and friends, and her home is clean and tidy. Although she is nearly 30, she is still beautiful and elegant. In everyone's eyes, she is almost perfect and embodies all the virtues of women.
F was about a teenager at that time, and her female relatives were models in her eyes. Until one time-at that time, several families in the college used the boiling room. Once my mother asked her female relatives for something, and her female relatives were not there, F went to the boiling room to find that there was only one female relative in the empty boiling room in the afternoon. ?
F outside the door, the female relative quickly took off the cork of her own thermos bottle and replaced it with another thermos bottle. With her back to the door, she didn't find Yaoyao outside. ?
F stay on the spot and turn around and leave at once. For a long time, she was very sad, because that afternoon, her idol collapsed, and the scene of boiling water room disintegrated the virtues of all her previous female relatives. What a person she is! It's such a philistine, so obscene, even a cork has to be secretly exchanged with the neighbor. ?
That incident not only shattered the ideal about someone's virtue, but also shattered F's deeper expectations.
F didn't tell anyone about it, as if she had done something shameful herself. Later, once, she couldn't help telling her mother, but her mother calmly pointed out to F that it was not easy for a female relative: a woman's family had no one to help her, and the day had to be supported by herself. She must have swallowed a lot of tears. Sometimes, it is understandable to want to take advantage of a little ... understand her.
Mother's words made F have some understanding of her female relatives, and also influenced her view of people all her life, that is, everyone has his own flaws, and behind the flaws are different fate backgrounds, forming flaws-the bigger the flaws, the deeper the fate gap.
Mother didn't mention it to any relatives or friends. When she met female relatives, everything was as usual, and she was warm and polite, which was the proper way for a decent person to entertain guests. ?
F himself experienced many things later, including a sudden marriage change. After all, she chose to forgive.
They are all flesh and blood. Although there are differences in personality education, the limitations as human beings are inevitable. "Who can understand the mystery of human heart? Those who just want to find noble sentiments and normal feelings from people's hearts will certainly not understand. " The early F didn't understand either. According to her ideal of perfection, she worships her female relatives on the altar of a soul, but how can she have the opportunity to enter the real life of her female relatives? The embarrassment, embarrassment and entanglement behind it are inconvenient for people to spy ... Perhaps, how decent this female relative is and how deep the secret is unknown!