I think there is some truth in this sentence. A person's life has ups and downs, peaks and valleys. No one's life will be smooth sailing. There will inevitably be setbacks and valleys in one's life.
The key point of the problem lies in how to treat, face and solve difficulties, setbacks and valleys.
I have experienced several low points in my life, which I will never forget. However, after several struggles, I forced myself to get up bravely and get through it bit by bit. After standing up again, you will feel relaxed, more confident and more aware of the truth.
Now I finally understand that when a person falls into the trough of life, no matter whether you drown your sorrows in wine or break the jar, you can't solve the problem. At this time, we must calm down and think about what our shortcomings and advantages are. We need to make clear the direction of progress, believe in ourselves and take the road that suits us best.
On the road of life growth, confusion and confusion are normal. On the way forward, all the problems are unknown, and there is no prejudgment, because we can't foresee them, but our will must be firm, our direction must not be wrong, and we must not give up when we encounter some difficulties and setbacks. We must face up to the difficulties and finally overcome them in order to get out of the trough and adversity.
When life is at a low point, what we need most is courage and confidence. We can neither admit cowardice nor give up. When the two armies are at war, the brave will win, and only by aiming high can they soar to the sky.
If you want to overcome difficulties and get out of the trough, you must first overcome yourself. Only by being brave can we be strong, have a firm heart and a firm attitude, and all difficulties are not a problem.
Zeng Guofan, what I admire most is not the achievements of his three ministers in promoting ZTE and the Westernization Movement, but that he is an invincible man. He first organized the Xiang army. At that time, it was not called Yong ying, but the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom. He suffered numerous failures. At the worst time, almost all the troops were wiped out. He was desperate to throw himself into the river and was stopped by his subordinates, but he didn't give up. Maybe it's loyalty to the monarch or his ambition. He himself said that he failed and fought again and again, and he didn't fall down because of his perseverance and indomitable spirit.
Now most people have failed a little or even many times, and lost a lot of money, so they are depressed and self-indulgent, but they don't know that this is self-restriction, self-escape, and they have not solved their own problems at all, and they have no cognitive height. What they see is trivial.
Tell another story, I usually can't remember the actors, but Stallone left a deep impression on me. The first time I saw his First Blood, I thought it was really good, but his protagonist was too ugly, with a long face, a crooked mouth and messy hair. Although it doesn't affect his tough guy image, it also makes people feel a fierce look, which makes people unhappy. But his experience is admirable: Stallone wrote plays when he was young, did odd jobs, cleaned lion cages in the zoo, delivered pizzas, helped others fish, looked after bookshelves in bookstores and worked as an usher in cinemas. But he has a dream in his heart. He wants to be an actor, but everyone around him thinks it is impossible. At that time, there were about 500 film companies in Hollywood. He wrote down these film companies one by one, and then took his own tailor-made script and visited them one by one according to the planned route and order. No one in all the film companies wants to hire him. But he didn't give up. He came out from the last film company that was rejected, and he visited the first one to continue to introduce himself. All the film companies turned him down. He went through the third and fourth rounds ... Finally, in the fourth round, the boss of 350 film company promised him to keep the script for the first time. This is his famous work Loki.
Seeing this, you will find that as long as you are calm and never give up, things will get better and life can be designed. Of course, the difficulties and changes you face are all to test you. If you fail the exam, you will become an ordinary person all your life, so you can accept it with peace of mind. If you can successfully pass the test, you will be greeted by a sunny day, and your strong will and vision will push you to the peak of your life.
I don't agree! Who is not afraid of failure in life is just like standing and talking. I am afraid of failure in life, afraid of not having the courage to come back! Why?
A successful life, doesn't it smell good? Whoever wants to fail in his life is not afraid of failure. You know, the consequences of some failures are uncontrollable and we can't bear them. One small step will make you regret it for life. Once or even half a time, your life will be ruined and there will be no chance to come back!
Perhaps the main purpose of this statement is to persuade people to have the courage to start over in the face of a failed life. However, in real life, not everyone has the courage to start all over again, nor is it a simple repetition. But on the basis of fully absorbing experience and lessons, we should work harder and struggle harder!
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Frankly speaking, it is!
Life is alive, no one can guarantee that life is a straight and flat "asphalt road", flat and sunny!
Difficulties are people's teaching books, and life has "honed" us and made us wake up. We should learn from our failures. And "once bitten, twice shy" can only make us negative, stagnant or even decadent!
Warriors regard difficulties as a ladder to success, while cowards regard difficulties as a heavy burden. In the face of setbacks and difficulties, only we can bravely raise our heads, face the reality objectively and fairly with a positive and optimistic attitude and indomitable perseverance, calmly and rationally assess the situation, be firm and confident, and strategize. I believe that things will definitely develop in a positive and powerful direction, and even get twice the result with half the effort and win a thousand miles!
There is a saying: if you are invincible, you are afraid of being discouraged. I believe there are many good wisdom among your friends, so challenge the difficulties bravely.
Hang in there and you'll see the results!
Struggle is just a spirit, and failure needs capital. Officers should also be practical, or they will be destroyed and fools will benefit.
What the subject said is very reasonable.
There is a saying that "failure is the mother of success", which makes sense. In fact, human practice is a process of constantly overcoming difficulties and struggling with Mao Dun, that is, a process of not giving up and starting again.
Life has never been smooth sailing, there are thorns and thorns everywhere. Whether this environment is stagnant or difficult, it is a time to test your mind and perseverance. It shows that you have a stable mentality and a spirit of not being afraid of losing. It is the right choice to sum up the lessons in time and start all over again, because you already know, not blindly.
When you fall, you don't know the crux of the problem. If you don't seriously investigate the reasons and find a lesson, you will get up and start over. This is not a scientific attitude, you will only repeat the process of falling again. This is absolutely unacceptable. The so-called life is not afraid of failure, that is, we must have a correct attitude towards failure. It is thoughtless to fall down, so get up again on the basis of science. Only in this way, the courage to climb and lift is commendable.
Friends and friends, Happy New Year [Rose] [Rose] [Bi Xin] [Bi Xin] [Bi Xin]
On the first day of the year of Renyin, I wanted to answer this question, but I had concerns. I have studied the Yijing culture for many years and rarely published articles on the platform, because the Yijing culture is incompatible with the current social development and is easily labeled as "superstition".
Some people say: "Life is not afraid of failure, but I just don't have the courage to start again." .
In fact, "Heaven and Earth are avenues, and law is almost natural", and Yi is the book that best illustrates the essence of Tao and law. Learning the Book of Changes is a secret in my heart. It sometimes wanders like a butterfly. Every time I get stuck, it will penetrate into the heavenly heart and give me all the pain and troubles. Wait a little longer! Wait a little longer! Everything will be fine!
In fact, it will get twice the result with half the effort to remove the dross from Yi culture and apply its essence to the current productive forces. Don't say Yi is superstitious.
People have been associated with Yi since birth. Why do we say that our zodiac year, zodiac month, zodiac day and zodiac time are all doomed to be inseparable from Yi?
All along, the way forward is Confucianism, which has given me a mission and taught me to realize myself in social personality and practice on my own; The road behind the mountain is the road. If I use my wings, I will be taught to surpass myself in my natural personality and travel in my mind. If we pay attention to the 35-year-old fable of Pangu, the personality ideal of China's traditional culture should be "God is above and sacred to the earth", and the talents of heaven, earth and people are all * * * long. Then, Confucianism has given us a solid land, and Taoism has given us a free sky, in which people are boundless. In Yi culture, Confucianism teaches us to shoulder heavy responsibilities, while Taoism makes us easy to lift weights.
"Life is not afraid of failure, but of not having the courage to start again". This question is very good, and it is a re-selection problem faced by losers. When you fail, people are confused and lose confidence, so how do we choose to stand up again after falling? We have to use the Book of Changes to clear the dark clouds.
We were born in the zodiac, and our ancestors matched the five elements of gold, wood, water, fire and earth with wisdom, but if your birth year coincides with the five elements of the distant zodiac, this year should be quiet and rest; Born together, you can open up territory, ride horses and whip, let birds fly in the sky, and the sea is wide with diving.
Through the dust of the ages, why don't we use the wisdom of our ancestors to plan and make good use of science and technology, production and life, so as to avoid detours and let productivity enter the fast lane faster?
Let's travel in unknown time and space with quantum and proton!
This sentence is well said, life has not failed, I am afraid you have given up the courage to repeat.
Falling down is not a failure, falling down and not getting up is a failure.
Emerson said: The most obvious sign of a great and noble man is his strong will. No matter how the environment changes, his original intention and hope will not change, but he will eventually overcome obstacles and achieve the expected goal.
Great men through the ages, getting up after falling and winning from failure are the secrets of success.