In Bian Xiao's view, men who don't smoke or drink will be more popular with women. Because no women like men who have accomplished nothing, they tend to choose men who are successful or have the potential to succeed. If a man can do without smoking or drinking, then we can see from the side that this man is a self-disciplined person. Other things being equal, the probability of success of a self-disciplined person is much higher than that of others. Some people may retort that many men who smoke and drink around can also win beautiful women. This is because the base of people who smoke and drink is too large, so there are not a few popular girls. If calculated in proportion, men who don't smoke or drink are obviously more popular. In addition, men who can insist on not smoking or drinking still have many bright spots that women favor.

Be able to keep your original heart and stick to yourself. Many people who smoke and drink don't necessarily want to do this on their own initiative, but after they start working? Have to? Learn to smoke and drink. Because in today's era, smoking and drinking is not only a living habit, but also a social way to integrate into the group. For example, if someone refuses to give you a toast or a cigarette in the workplace, it is a rebuttal to others' face, and it is easy for them to be snubbed by leaders and isolated by small groups. Therefore, in this case, it is very valuable to insist on the spirit of people who don't smoke or drink, and it can be favored by women.

Have a clear understanding of your abilities, and don't be blind and confident. Some heavy smokers don't like cigarettes so much, but they are too confident in themselves when they first come into contact with cigarettes. They always think that just touching is not addictive, and they can easily quit by willpower. However, it turns out that people who have this idea eventually fall into the whirlpool of smoking addiction, and those who don't touch cigarettes or drink from beginning to end are not because of their extraordinary willpower, but perhaps because they know that their ability is limited and have never tried the idea of the first bite.

Therefore, in the marriage and love market, men who never smoke or drink are often more popular with girls. After all, only through this superficial image can they show some of his good qualities and help girls understand her advantages faster.