B, willow cuttings, which are propagated by plant stems, are new individuals directly produced by vegetative organs without the combination of bisexual cells, belonging to vegetative propagation, and B is wrong;
C, apple bud grafting, is the use of plant vegetative organs to reproduce offspring, which belongs to vegetative reproduction, C error;
D, grape seed seedling or seed reproduction? After the combination of bisexual germ cells, it belongs to sexual reproduction, and D is correct.
Therefore, choose: d.