First, study. As the old saying goes, books are used and hate less. When it's really urgent, it's definitely too late to study now. So it is important to read a few pages every day, but there is no hurry. If you don't study today, what will happen tomorrow? The key is whether you can insist on reading a little every day. It is best to suggest paper books. Besides the nourishment of book content, paper books can make us feel more at ease than electronic products. Nowadays, many people put down their mobile phones as the last action before going to bed. If they want to read more, just read for half an hour before going to bed. If the last action is to put down the book, you can sleep peacefully.
Second, health. According to the survey, the most frequently forwarded articles in WeChat circle of friends are about health and wellness. It can be seen that people attach importance to health now. This is also a very important point, which needs to be reflected in the little things in daily life. For example, exercise, can you persist every day. I know too many people get a fitness card on the spur of the moment, and then only go once or twice and lose interest. Some people claim to walk to and from work, and they will drive or take the bus soon. For example, going to bed early, Chinese medicine believes that medicine tonic is not as good as food tonic, and food tonic is not as good as sleep tonic. How many people have insufficient sleep or poor sleep quality? Some time ago, on World Sleep Day, there was a data that about 70% of young people had sleep problems. Think about how terrible it is. Another example is a healthy diet, and it is also necessary to insist on controlling your desires day after day. I have a theory that fat people are squeezed out, because in a sense, overeating is actually not a physical need, but a psychological need.
Third, stay with your family. "The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind will not stop, and the child wants to raise it, but not close", a well-known saying. This matter is very important, but it is not urgent. In an emergency, I'm afraid I will regret it. Accompanying is the longest confession, especially accompanying parents. It is a wonderful thing to know the wishes of parents and complete them item by item when the ability allows. Chat with your parents, even a thousand times. Try recording and take the time to arrange recording. A friend compiled their biographies according to the recordings of their parents' chatting, and added the accumulated photos to make a book circulated in his family. His parents are very happy.
Accompany children and grow up together. A little girl's hot article circulated on the Internet called "Dad, if you don't accompany me, I will grow up", calling on male friends who are busy with work all day to see the needs of their children. Who are you busy making money and achieving success for? Many people say it's for children, but in fact it's for themselves. The growth of children is an irreversible process. If you miss it, you miss it, and there is no chance to make up for it. In retrospect, babbling babies suddenly became boys and girls, and many rebellious children didn't get enough attention at an early age.
Fourth, poetry and distance. Still feelings, ideals. These are all very important, which determine the direction of life planning and efforts, including vision and insight. No one wants to live as others expect and lose themselves. Knowing yourself is not an easy and pleasant process. Ningning said that it is not easy to know yourself. The more subtle you are, the more things you have to face. Those once fears are now brought to you by yourself, which requires more than courage.
Fifth, hobbies or skills. One minute on stage, ten years off stage. Behind all Excellence is persistence and patience. When I was a child, I watched the theater and saw those martial arts students tumbling and floating high. I envy it. It was not until I saw their training room and the sweat and tears shed during the training that I realized that no one can succeed casually. I also envy those who write well, draw well, sing well and dance well. If you feel that life is not rich enough, then learn an art and cultivate your most agile breath. ...
There should be many more, right? For example, long-term planning, contacts, investment and financial management and so on. These important but not urgent things are the important things in life. Time is the fairest and cruelest. Time waits for no one, let's start now!