1, don't be too obsessed with pursuing something.
If we are too persistent in pursuing something at ordinary times, it will make us more and more persistent in this matter. This time will always touch our hearts, and gradually we will be particularly vulnerable to environmental factors, so I suggest you have the courage to let go of what you should not pursue persistently.
Step 2 learn to sit still
Meditation is a very important way to adjust our mood and temper our character. If we observe carefully, we will find that both Buddhism and Taoism and yoga, which we are familiar with, contain meditation courses to varying degrees, with the aim of exercising our mood.
Step 3 keep mindfulness
This is also a concept put forward by Buddhists. In fact, maintaining mindfulness is not to keep us positive all the time, but to return to self-learning and inner communication. In short, if you feel sad now, please tell yourself that I am sad, but if you are happy now, please tell yourself that I am happy now.