The most timid children occasionally make bold moves and do well, which may seem insignificant to ordinary people, but teachers must try their best to capture these fleeting highlights and give necessary and even exaggerated praise and encouragement. At the same time, don't expect too much from your child, look at your child with a developmental perspective and affirm your child's little progress, so as to change some of his bad behavior habits.
2. Create opportunities for students to succeed and enjoy the successful experience.
Psychological research shows that any student has the desire to succeed and the potential to strive for success. If students can continue to enjoy the experience of success in their studies, they can avoid negative self-suggestion, improve their self-confidence in learning, glow their enthusiasm for learning, actively internalize their educational requirements and actively tap their potential, thus realizing a virtuous circle of "success is the mother of success".
Therefore, in teaching, we should pay attention to creating opportunities for students to succeed, strive to help them succeed continuously, and minimize the number of failures to enhance their self-confidence.
3. Guide students to face failure calmly.
In the process of students' learning and growth, many students often feel sorry for themselves because of a failure, or a careless failure of a certain subject, and even lose confidence because of repeated disappointments. Therefore, teachers and parents should guide students to face failure calmly.
4. Guide students to know themselves correctly.
Teachers should guide students to face up to themselves and let them compare their strengths with outstanding people. For example, the other person's problem-solving ability is better than mine, but his memory ability is not as good as mine. His grades are better than mine, but his self-control ability is worse than mine. Through this comparison, students can understand that in life, there are relatively few people with various abilities, and everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, thus enhancing students' self-confidence.
5. Guide students to correctly analyze the causes of failure.
Correctly analyze the reasons for failure, learn lessons, adjust learning strategies, and make full preparations for the next challenge. Therefore, you don't have to be discouraged because of one failure or several disappointments. You should believe that if you fully tap your potential, you will succeed.