It is said that marriage is the grave of love, so it is more cost-effective to wait until later.
First I wanted love, then I wanted money. At first, I obviously wanted money, but later I wanted love ... Is this the eternal source of contradictions and pains for many women? We always think that love is much more noble than money, but we refuse to admit that both are desires. No matter which one we want, it will only make people cycle in the endless sea of suffering.
When you grow up, the pain will be greater and the wound will be deeper. -Haruki Murakami
Be yourself who you like better first, and then meet someone who doesn't need to please. -Lu Sihao
You must feel that when you are eager to talk to someone, you say nothing. Then, you realize that some things can't be said, some things don't need to be said, and some things can't be said at all. Even if you tell others, you will regret it immediately. Then, the best way is to calm down and gnaw at your loneliness, or conversely, let loneliness devour you!
So what if you can't forget it? I still don't care, I can still live mercilessly, and I can still touch everything about you without looking, listening or thinking.
Can you not like others? Can you like me?
I always thought I liked him, but suddenly I found that it was him I remembered who lived in my heart, and what I-I couldn't forget was my feelings for him, not him.
Perhaps a person has to walk a lot in his life and experience countless sudden prosperity and desolation before he becomes mature.
If you belong to me, you only belong to me. I don't like sharing with others. .
Deleting the phone, canceling Weibo and hacking QQ can't erase the memory in my heart. Want to know the phone number can be found in the call list, Weibo ID can be found, QQ number will be displayed in the blacklist. After deleting everything, the memories in my heart are fresh. Memories can't be deleted, all you can do is put them down.
There is such a person, you have said to give up countless times, but after all, you still can't bear it; There is such a person, you will miss him, you will cry when you are alone, but you will pretend to smile indifferently when you see him.
I didn't stop loving you, I just decided not to show it.
Good morning 2020 beautiful sentence: Only when you calm down can you hear your inner voice.
1. Life is a journey full of unknowns. What you care about is the scenery along the way, and what you care about is the mood of watching the scenery. The trip won't end with beautiful scenery. The road you walk is the scenery behind you. You can't stay back. If you stay at this moment, you will miss the better scenery.
2. In a quiet heart, there is a most beautiful scenery. Although the world is complicated, the heart remains the same and the feelings remain the same; Despite the ups and downs, the pace remains the same, and the pursuit remains the same; Despite the vicissitudes of time, the world remains the same and life remains the same. Retain the most beautiful scenery and become a kind of demeanor, quiet and far-reaching; Holding the most beautiful scenery, it becomes a realm, carefree and open-minded; Retaining the most beautiful scenery becomes a kind of wisdom, a kind of calmness and a kind of calmness.
3. People's lives are always busy and always race against time. People in life are always chasing after love, money, status and fame. Poverty pursues wealth, wealth pursues happiness, and happiness pursues immortality. There is no endless ideal, and the ever-expanding greed tempts people to pursue efficiency and quickness in everything, and they are impetuous and impatient. Slow down, be quiet, wait, haste makes waste!
4, benefactor, give you help; Enemy, help you awake; Friends, hand in hand with you; Relatives, having you around; Noble people make you blessed; Capable people, cure your problems; The villain makes you cautious; Love gives you strength; Saint, solve your maze; Everyone, help you succeed. If you have time, go to see more relatives and friends who are usually too busy to attend to, and be kind to everyone around you; They created your life!
5. Life is like a stage. You didn't know how great you were until the curtain call. People are happy not because they have more, but because they care less. Optimism comes from tolerance, from generosity, from understanding, from being at peace with the world. Life is not perfect. I figured it out, put it down and it will be perfect.
6. If you live in this world, you will be attacked. If you want to fall in love, you will be hurt by feelings. If you want to find a good person to love, you will be targeted by others. Don't pin your hopes on social morality. All external things are unreliable. In the end, there are only two things that can keep us going, either internal strength or blindness. After all, it is better to be soft-hearted than hard-hearted. Cruel as a heart of stone. It's better to be ruthless than ruthless.
7. In life, we should thank two kinds of people, one is those who open their hearts, and the other is those who accompany us through the mental journey. Happiness is looking at a future with two pairs of eyes. If you have something to say, don't wait for the other person to understand, because the other person is not you and doesn't know what you want. In the end, it can only be sadness and disappointment, especially feelings.
8. Everyone wants to be as far away from their parents as possible when they are young. Unconsciously, I really walked away, separated from them by Qianshan. One day when you look back, you will find that no matter how far you go, there is always a line connecting you with them. At that time, my parents were old and their legs and feet were no longer neat. You should go back to them. What is different from before is that you become an adult and they become children.
9. People who really know how to smile always get more opportunities than others, always succeed easily, and always get more and more. Smile and get friendship; Willing to smile and embrace happiness; Willing to smile, you get happiness. How many years have passed, how many years have passed, what is the geometry of life? However, practice smiling, love your heart and warm your heart to bloom!
10, happiness is not how much you have, but what you value and what you can't have. If you deliberately pursue what you can't have, you will ignore what you already have, including the people who love you and the footprints left behind you. Happiness is very simple, because we are too serious and eager to get something that doesn't belong to us, which makes our life full of troubles. When you stand in trouble and look up, happiness has been trampled underfoot.
When love dies, it is usually difficult to die. Neither disappeared nor died, nor fell asleep. They die in fire and pain. When it leaves your heart, it will light a fire in your chest. This is more painful than anything you say. Perhaps more painful is that you don't know whether you can live in another person in your heart in the future.
12. Do your best before meeting the right person. Happiness is for feeling, not for comparison. Life is for career, not for care. Feelings are for maintenance, not for testing. Love is for love, not for hurt. Lies are for debunking, not for whitewashing. Trust is for precipitation, not for challenge.
13. In our life, each of us has something that belongs only to ourselves. We don't have to envy others for their wealth and success, because true happiness has nothing to do with money and other external standards. It comes from the heart, from your satisfaction with what you have and your persistence in life.
14, young people don't know what it's like to be sad. Even if life can really start over, they will still step into the same road again. Don't regret it after it. All the roads you have walked have come with your own feet step by step. Although the road is so uneven and bumpy, although there are so many disappointments in life. But in my life, I will still have the passion of my youth, and the scenery that is constantly moved during my journey will accompany me through the sad and prosperous people.
15, life has given us two ways to live: every day is bitter, but the future will be easier and more comfortable every year; It's easier to muddle along every day, but the future will be more difficult year by year until it is overwhelmed by life. We all know to be the first, but why do so many people really do the second?
16, I gradually understood: in this life, people should stand up to lies, perfunctory, cheating and forgetting promises. Slowly, I understand that persistence is not necessarily victory, and giving up is not necessarily giving up. Turning gracefully is better than hitting the wall. Give yourself a circuitous space, learn to think, learn to wait and learn to adjust. Life, in many cases, needs not only persistence, but also a free and easy smile.
17, many things, when we really realize how precious and important it is, most of them have been irreversibly lost. The more people go up, the heavier their hearts will be, and they will be stable after walking down the road. Life can be painful, but you should also know how to pursue happiness. Only a simple heart can fully appreciate the joy of life.
18, this is you now: it is difficult to be a happy person. Accustomed to sleeping late every day, I often like to be in a daze. I have no motivation to do anything. Tell yourself today to work hard tomorrow, and tomorrow will be like the past. You can't stand yourself now, but you don't have the perseverance to change now. The more you get used to it, everything will get worse. All the helplessness is mostly because of you! Never! Really! Work hard!
19. In the long river of years, yesterday is out of date, today quietly disappears, and tomorrow will follow. Countless feelings have turned yellow before they can be bound into a book, and have fallen into old paper. Reading it again is the memory of the years. Some people, some things, some feelings, are destined to meet at the next intersection, and should not be missed. They are collected in the title page.
20. Along the way, I lost a lot of things, such as laughing and crying at will, such as simple things that can enrich you, and people who have walked side by side. Along the way, I thought I was ahead of time, but I found that no one had ever run through time. But even so, I still left something, three or five friends, songs that accompanied them for a long time. I am not so nostalgic, but I believe that these can beat time for no reason and are deeply rooted.
2 1, our ability is limited, and there are many things floating outside our vision and mind. Don't give up what you already have, and don't complain about what you can't control, because we are all performing our own unique idol dramas. You are the protagonist, you are the plot, and no one can replace you. Only by sincerely accepting what we can have at the moment and insisting on being the happiest self on the shooting scene will our story move on.
22. The more you grow up, the more you know about life. The more I know, the more I feel that any kind of loss will be a kind of heartache. Because any kind of loss is always more cruel than not getting it. Therefore, we in life, whether friendship or love, should learn to cherish when we have it, not after we lose it.
23. My father lost a watch. He complained and rummaged everywhere, but he couldn't find it for a long time. When he went out, his son sneaked into the house and soon found the watch. Father asked: How did you find it? My son said, I just sat quietly, and soon I heard the tick, and then I went to look for my watch. Feeling: The more anxious you are, the less you can find what you want. Only when you calm down can you hear your inner voice.
24. Love in the world is an instinct, and no one is right or wrong. No one can resist the charm of understanding and understanding when they meet unexpectedly. Love is not synonymous with marriage, it is good to have a special liking; Mutual appreciation is good; It is also reasonable to turn around. There is no solution to love words, and the only way is to sue each other; Set each other off into interest; Cherish each other and miss each other. Life, because of fate; Full of emotion.
25. There is a kind of appreciation, a kind of romance and simplicity. There is more thinking and less confusion in life. More calm, less trouble. More tolerance and less narrowness. More calm, less regret. When the heart becomes simple, the days will be happy and the happiness will increase.
26. People are simple when they are young and complicated when they grow up; Poverty is simple, and breadth is complex; When you are down and out, it is simple, but when you are in power, it is complicated; Gentleman is simple, villain is complex; Simply look at yourself and look at others in a complicated way. The world is actually very simple, but people's hearts are very complicated. In fact, people's hearts are simple, but the distribution of benefits is very complicated. People are happy when they are simple, but few people are happy; Complex times are painful, but painful people are bustling.
27. I just want to see how far we can do one thing with our sincerity. We rely on ourselves, not others. You may say that I am too young to understand society. Actually, you are wrong. I know everything, including contacts, resources and relationships, but I don't think I will use this method, not now and not in the future.
28. Life lies not in age, but in spiritual youth; Clothing is not fashionable, but comfortable and fit; Not rich in diet, but balanced in nutrition; The bedroom is not about size, but about cleanliness and comfort; Health is not deliberate, it is important to let nature take its course; Exercise is not in Xia Dong, but in perseverance; Work and rest are not in the morning and evening, but in the law; Interest is not refined, but childlike innocence; There are not many friends, but you need a bosom friend.
29. Happiness is like a star. Darkness cannot cover them. There is always a gap to follow. We should find happiness in the cracks of life, and that little joy in life is enough to make us happy all our lives. Unforgettable, not tangled. Difficulties, temporarily put down; It's far. Turn around. Life is rough, and there are countless people who want to study. Don't stay somewhere for too long.
30. The biggest enemy in life is oneself, the biggest failure is arrogance, the biggest ignorance is deception, the biggest sorrow is jealousy, the biggest mistake is self-abandonment, the most admirable thing is diligence, the biggest bankruptcy is despair, the biggest wealth is health, the biggest debt is emotional debt, the biggest gift is forgiveness, the biggest lack is epiphany, the biggest relief is giving, and the poorest temperament is inferiority.
Good morning: calm down and be yourself.
Good morning: calm down and be yourself.
1, don't blame others, don't blame who left you, some people have gone far, it is inevitable that some people will approach you, let it be!
2. Mossy scars can't hide desolation; The occasional party on Mozi Road is destined to last forever.
3. People have only one heart, so they should learn to get rid of the garbage of memory. Some things are not helpful to keep in mind, but only confuse our minds. It is better to forget that no matter how difficult the road is, we must move forward, and even if we are exhausted, we cannot retreat. No amount of rain can stop.
4. Keep a good idea in your heart and let all the sadness melt in your grateful heart. Don't forget what you can't forget; Don't let go of what you can't let go.
5, resentment is too strong to prevent heartbroken, and the wind should be eye-catching.
6, some memories, don't try to recall, let yourself go, don't go with disappointment every time, a heart can't bear so much damage.
7. Being alive is sometimes really tiring, and the feeling of being involuntarily will only be known if you have experienced it yourself.
8. Life needs a sudden awakening and rebirth of the mind.
9. We crossed the tunnel of time, experienced many things and met many people. Some people will fade when they walk; Some people, while walking, take root in each other's hearts. How well Zhang Ailing said: Some changes are really a lifetime.
10, when you are quiet, your heart seems as clear as dust.
1 1, the road of life, step by step on your own, what can really protect you is your own personality choice and cultural choice. Then, in turn, what can really hurt you is the same, your own choice.
12, the fate in the world, shallow is a passer-by, deep is self-knowledge, the depth of fate is quietly recognized by the hourglass of time, fate should be cherished, fate should be left behind.
Good night, tell me about your mood: people have been trying to be quiet.
1. Life is not Ma Pingchuan. What makes you feel a little frustrated? Let it be. Why be angry with yourself? Learn to control your emotions. No one owes you anything, so you have no reason to lose your temper with others. Please start today and live proudly for yourself! 2. Two people have been together for a long time, just like the left hand and the right hand. Even if they no longer love each other, they will choose to be together, because it takes a lot of courage to give up for so many years. Maybe there will be someone you love in your life, but after all, you are a passer-by, and you will still walk with your left hand or your right hand. Hold your hand and grow old with your son. It's an oath, then a responsibility, then a habit.
Only by keeping a normal mind can we live a quiet life. Life is impermanent, although it may not be ups and downs, it is often bumpy. If you live too seriously and care too much, you have something to worry about every day; If you can keep a normal mind, act according to your own nature, act according to your own role, and position yourself according to your own characteristics, you will always be happy. Keep a normal heart, life can only laugh at the situation.
4. Happiness will not always knock on the door, and people who love you will not always appear. When someone is willing to pay silently for you, endure silently and change silently, please remember to cherish it. Because, some people missed it and really never came back.
From the beginning, I couldn't wait to dig out my heart and give it to the other person's love. It will be as bright as a running river, and it will dry up as easily as a running river. After all, the climax will fall. After all, extremes meet. If you really love, it is better to control your love until it flows.
6, more joy, less sadness; More truth, less hypocrisy; More leisure, less fuss. These four more and four less are very important. With them, you can live a happy life. You can arrange your own life independently and treat yourself well, then your heart will be rich.
7. Although the world is big, it is only between heaven and earth. Facing the changes of life and the prosperity of the world calmly, we should be generous, broad, high, thick, dynamic, medium, long and deep.
8. You don't have to haggle over every ounce in life to make yourself angry. Yuyun is only a hundred years old, and he often worries about being a thousand years old. Pepsi comes from the heart, and a smile solves a thousand worries. If we think that we are all passers-by who come and go in a hurry and just walk around the world, what trivial things are worth caring about?
9. It is not difficult to live simply, just know how to live for yourself, live for beauty and do for happiness. The less demand, the more freedom; The less extravagant, the more comfortable.
10, contented people are poor and rich, greedy people are rich and poor. Isn't it often said that contentment is always happy? We are happy that our hearts are rich. Although our property is not much and our income is not as high as our job, we have no worries. People are thoughtful, and rich thoughts are truly rich.
1 1, don't complain so much, which means that your ability can't support your ambition! How many bright prospects have been defeated by superiors and subordinates. Don't always envy others who are qualified to go their own way. We must work as hard as fools to be as willful as lunatics!
12, do you know what real life is? It's not smoking, drinking and sleeping with girls, nor swearing and lifting the table. It's all what others call chic. In fact, real life is very boring. You can only think about which girl you want to sleep with and smile at the annoying guy. Tomorrow is not as beautiful as we imagined, and the present situation is not as bad as we imagined. Ordinary is everyone's life.
13, some people say that without a new boyfriend after breaking up, it feels like widowhood to my predecessor! How painful it is to understand this!
14, I always feel that I have no time to read a good book, watch a good movie, exercise, travel in the air, write an article and learn a technology. Later, I found out that what I didn't have was actually not time, but my quiet and impetuous heart when I did that.
15, it's none of my business if you hate me, as if you like me, you can sublimate my life.
16, the heart is only one punch, don't think too much. If you are wrong, you will not be able to suppress business. Many people are busy every day and accomplish nothing, but pay too much attention to trivial details. Rice can be eaten and sand can build a house, but the two are mixed together and have no value. To be pure, you can be happy.
17, many times, after inadvertently knowing something, pretending to be indifferent on the surface and covering it up with a smile, in fact, my heart hurts more than anything else.
18, don't expect him to turn back after breaking up, and don't go looking for him. People who break up in a bad mood can't find their original feelings. There is really nothing better than being embarrassed and not adapting to the next round. Besides, you are so self-abased that you can't find a good person anymore.
19, people often want to show themselves by discovering the shortcomings of others, but this shows their incompetence.
20. The heart is a fragile crystal. If you love it, take care of it and despise it! Although, in this world, everyone has a heart, but each heart represents a unique one, you can't say that because you see countless behind you, you have everything at this moment without hesitation, you know, even if you are full of beauty, do you know geometry? You can't always say that you are ruthless because you are in a bad mood. You know, a broken heart is never complete, just like a fragile crystal. Can I return it after cracking it? Therefore, treat everyone who comes into your life sincerely and care for everyone you know! If fate is a list engraved in my heart, then I am willing to use my life's efforts to carve every name into a bloody tattoo and never erase it!
2 1, try to simplify your life, and you will find that those blocked scenery are the most suitable life.
22. Don't wait forever. Everything you do is eternal, every moment is eternal. Cherish every possession, embrace every ray of sunshine, and don't be stingy when you still have the strength to open your arms. Maybe, after the next second, you will never get another chance. Cherish everything in sight!
23. Grow towards the sun, be a warm person, be modest and live a clean life.
24, people sometimes go crazy, obviously have a hunch or know that the result of one thing is not good, but want to think clearly and understand. Actually, this is paranoia. Only when you know that the result of one thing is not good, and you can try your best to change its result, will you have perseverance. It's a pity that too many people persist in the name of persistence.
25. Until now, only chopsticks are affordable!
26. The smarter and kinder a person is, the more virtues he sees in others; The more stupid and vicious a person is, the more shortcomings he sees in others. If you can give others steps, you will have your own steps. If you can give others face, the more face you have. Covering up ugliness is a virtue, and doing good is good.
In fact, people have been trying to be quiet, because quiet people are happy people.
28. A spring breeze weaves a curtain of dreams, all the warmth and sunshine are hidden inside, and I, a beautiful woman in the warm sun, hold a innocence, bear a indifference, compete with the world, be the truest self, smile faintly, bloom quietly and calmly, and only for those who know!
29. Frustration is painful, but few people use the experience of frustration to repair their lives. This kind of pain is paid in vain. Smart people are often unhappy. Smart people always smile.
30. The journey is strange and calm, and it is easier to say goodbye to what you are familiar with. Just like the third person, patting you on the shoulder from behind, gently reminding you, hey, it's getting late, it's time to go. In this way, you leave the old hug that you don't want to wake up.
3 1. It is absolutely undeniable that the stars are the brightest and the night sky is the cleanest in this season. The heart is really good.
32. The person who wants to take you home is on his way. People who are willing to eat with you love to eat sweet and sour. People who want to see you are available 24 hours a day. People who want to help you will try their best to help you! You can do anything you like, but you can't do anything you don't like. Being a man is actually very simple. Treat others the way they treat you. Others don't take you seriously. Why should you reassure others?
You don't have to worry about what you are afraid of, because it will come and go as scheduled.
34. A good lover will make you better, and a bad lover will make you fall into a state of madness and suspicion. A good lover will make you discover your own beauty, instead of being belittled all the time, feeling that you are useless and losing confidence gradually. Because he is sunny, he is happy, because he is elegant and intellectual. A beautiful love should inspire a lot of good, not evil, and feel extremely annoying.
35. It's not that the times are far away from love, but that many people have never thought of using one heart to warm another heart firmly from the beginning. It is not that love is no longer eternal, but that impetuous and changeable hearts miss true love again and again.
36. A person's life is like walking in fog. From a distance, it's just a blur, and you can't tell the direction from good or bad. However, when you summon up courage, put down your fears and doubts and move forward step by step, you will find that with each step, you can see the next step clearly. Go ahead, don't stand in the distance and watch. You can find your direction. Long-distance radio navigation system
37. The real walker is not how many places he has traveled, but how many times he has achieved a brand-new self.
38. People should not be a still life in a vase for people to watch, but the rhythm of dancing with the wind on the grassland. Life is not an arrangement, but a pursuit. The meaning of human beings may never have an answer, but we should also enjoy this life without an answer. Virginia Woolf
39. What bothers you is not others, but you worry about yourself with what others say and do. People who often think that others are paying attention to you, or want others to pay attention to you, will have a more troublesome life.
At first, I never thought of using one heart to warm another heart firmly. It is not that love is no longer eternal, but that impetuous and changeable hearts miss true love again and again.